Have you changed in sexual behaviour over the decades?

[jagmanaz]

20's deep virgin closet case

30's safe top only one on one serial monogomy

40's safe versatile monogomy partnered

50's bottom only, now with prep cum dump trainee - multiple guys, alone together, 5-6 guys at one setting, dp recepticle

[chargedodger]

well yes.of course sexual activity changed over time.66 now but as a very young man loved putting a smile on mens faces,loved all the annonymous sex and attention garnered by the slender blonde hair blue eyed twink I was.Sweet memories to be sure!There was no aids back then,pretty much whatever you caught could be cured with antibiotics.in my 30's and 40's (1985 to 2005 roughly)played sparingly at baths bookstores and the occaisional overnight/ weekend hookup.Turned 50 in 2005 found me getting less but enjoying it SO much MORE!Still at that stage now,having incorporated bugchasing into my fantasy and habits.Don't fear getting older kids,it has its own special sauce!:)

[1000GUYS]

Well im in my 20s yet... what is changing is that i was bottom only between 15/25 and now im trying to top more and more... i really love topping, but i gotta change my mindset, i hate bottoming but im a little submissive 

[bareback-flipflop]

Definitely, with 180 degrees. In my early ages I was rather shy, I was loath to do anything which wasn’t  vanilla. I played only safe. One extreme thing was the threesome, maybe public (only in dark and/or in the middle of nowhere). And I could have imagine sex only with guys in my same age, and with almost perfect body and nice face  

now, I am everything just not shy, hate vanilla, play only bareback and I have no taboos, no loads refused, if I am horny, age and appearance don’t matter. 

Edited August 1, 2021 by bareback-flipflop

[NWUSHorny]

I definitely have, but my sexual history stretches back almost 4 decades.  I've done many things I thought only happened in porn and fantasies as a teenager in the '80s.  The biggest change, and a  early change was dropping the idea in gay sex that only the guy with the biggest cock could be the top.  Once I learned I like to bottom as much as I like to top, and the 2nd guy to ever top me (and still one of the biggest I've ever taken) was a fellow versatile pig.  I missed a few opportunities in the couple of years I was exclusively a top.

[KindaBasic]

It always changes. I think I am more selective these days. 

[Fillitup57]

Yes, the older I get the more I want sex and lots of it.  Want go be fucked and fucked and am more adventurous- started pnp in my 50’s etc.  

[upthebum]

16-18 lots of cruising and cottaging (safe bttm)

18-21 with an open bf in his 50s (safe bttm with him but top with other lads we had together)

20s in dating mode but with secret visits to saunas and cruising - which I felt ashamed about (safe vers/top)

30's monogomy partnered (safe top)

Now 40s starting out as a cum dump trainee after living in denial for years. I still need to work on being out and proud about it as that is holding me back from ever graduating

[MuscledHorse]

yes it has changed, but that is mainly due to advances in medicine that have allowed me to live as I have more or less always behaved:   hypersexual promiscuous male. When I was a teen and college boy the specter of AIDS/HIV loomed large so i wound up having a lot of condom based sex or if bare, with someone I knew and trusted. I also did a lot of toy anal play as I loved seeing how much excessive size I could fit in me--still do-which ultimately went into fisting. As soon as PrEP came out in 2012 I was on it immediately and stopped using condoms. Now I could go out and slut all I wanted, take loads from any guy and not worry. I already had fairly high annual partner counts but PrEP enabled it to new levels, reaching a peak of 903 different sex partners for 2018--a stat I am VERY proud of. Currently, I am at a life time total of roughly 16,200 sex partners, with many more total sex acts performed on/with my body). 2021 has been a solid year so far. With the upcoming events I am going to on top of the one I've already been to I know I will easily pass the 500 partner mark for 2021.

[CumBustion]

Went thru an extreme whore phase in my late teens and early 20s, including a lotta partying. Dropped out of college and lived life on all fours or on my back. I’m genuinely surprised I never converted with all the dick I was taking. Looked in the mirror one day and saw that I was going no where fast. I chose to give my life some meaning and discipline for a bit, best decision I made. Later found love until I lost him. Went thru a slut phase for a long while, albeit I was somewhat more slower and wasn’t just fucking everything in sight. I’m choosier now, looking for quality dick over quantity. My inner slut does creep out every so often, so I let her out to play before I pull her back in to hibernate.

[chipygmalion80]

On 8/3/2021 at 3:00 AM, upthebum said:

16-18 lots of cruising and cottaging (safe bttm)

18-21 with an open bf in his 50s (safe bttm with him but top with other lads we had together)

20s in dating mode but with secret visits to saunas and cruising - which I felt ashamed about (safe vers/top)

30's monogomy partnered (safe top)

Now 40s starting out as a cum dump trainee after living in denial for years. I still need to work on being out and proud about it as that is holding me back from ever graduating

Following your format ^

15 - 20 - lost virginity to teacher, shocked he didn't luv me (DUH!), crawled back into abstinence / wanking

20 - 23 - serially dated guys, only raw w/ bf, made gay friends, no FWBs

23 - 26 - dated a few girls, fucked a few guys, all safe

26 - 30 - got 1st travelling jobs, became a hotel bb slut, any dick / ass will do, made pornos

30 - 35 - moved to big city (Chicago), met many gay friends, became a gloryhole slut, many FWBs

35 - now - met hubby, got selective, usually fuck FWBs / regulars

 

[plymsleazebear]

I've certainly changed.  Although I barebacked regularly whilst cottaging all throughout my life, if my 20 year old self could meet me now they'd wonder how they got into watersports, fisting & taking poz loads.