Verbal tops or silent?

[fskn]

6 hours ago, LetsPOZBreed said:

My preference is for verbal tops...but verbal can be a bit tenuous.  One wrong thing being said, and it can kill the entire moment.  I'd say if it were my first time with a guy, I'd prefer he keep to his moans and grunts...as will I when receiving him.

Well said. It is a delicate balance. As a top I stray into fantasy territory that some bottoms take literally, or that doesn't match their own sexual repertoire (sometimes with younger, less well-experienced bottoms).

I agree with everyone who says that being verbal when cumming is essential.

[BBArchangel]

I also like a verbal top. It doesn’t necessarily have to be humiliation talk which I can take or lead. But I do like to hear some sort of sound, a grunt or moan or shout when the top guy comes in me!

The Converse question needs to be asked. Two tops like the bottoms noisy, chatty? What are they like them to be quiet?

I think I’ve got a pretty good thing. Two of the tops who most often fuck me actually have great sense of humor and we laugh and joke around where we’re breaking down the bed. I love that!

[Bruce999]

I had a verbal Top fuck me In a Language, I did not understand as he was very aggressive. It was HOT fuck 

[downtownswallow]

I prefer a verbal Top.  Otherwise, it might as well be a dildo stuck on a door.  I relish interaction, sounds reflecting his enjoyment, grunts and moans, comments,  an announcement when he's ready to cum and a good loud orgasm while he's dumping his cum in my ass.

Edited April 30, 2022 by downtownswallow

[Guest]

i like them noisy, so long as they aren't copying bad porn dialogue. 'Shut up' and other instructions work well. Once they have cum i don't really want any conversation from them apart from 'lick it' or 'you can go now'.

[Hotbtm21]

Definitely  a vocal top 

[ncbttm4bbfun]

Definitely verbal .. that he’s fucking my tight hole, giving me his raw cock, and whispering in my ear as he nibbles on it telling me he’s blowing his load deep in my ass

[baldwin]

I agree with all. verbal all the time.  I enjoy especially degrading talk.  One thing I have thought about, but it hasn't happened to me yet, is for a top to talk to someone else while he is fucking me.  Like i was so unimportant to him that I wasn't even deserving of his interest just a fuck toy to him.

[Bimarried001]

I have this top that talks about my wife and daughters as he’s fucking me. Must say he knows how to get to me. 

[BBDreamer]

11 hours ago, downtownswallow said:

I prefer a verbal Top.  Otherwise, it might as well be a dildo stuck on a door.  I relish interaction, sounds reflecting his enjoyment, grunts and moans, comments,  an announcement when he's ready to cum and a good loud orgasm while he's dumping his cum in my ass.

Fuck yeah!! You got that right, brother.

[Japbtm]

Talking dirty is an art form. A top that does it well is hard to find. Some guys say they are verbal when they fuck and when they start fucking me they are enjoying my tight wet and tiny Asian ass they end up speechless and focused. 
A black guy with a huge dick was aggressive online and seemed like he would be very verbal but once he started fucking me was quiet. I guess he was enjoying himself. I ended up being more verbal lol when he climaxed though he was loud and noisy as he trashed and scream. I think all my neighbors heard it “I’m gonna fucken cum up your dirty fahgot pussy!! You slut!!!” As He nutted and scream his organism like an animal. 

But the art of talking dirty in my opinion is a back and forth between bottom and top, experienced and natural play, a sex dialog exchange that arouse and heighten sexual pleasure. A good top is controlled and able to balance this, using a bottom and letting him know who’s in control. Degrading a bottom as he is being fuck up his ass like the little bitch he is.
 

Sometimes an ass is sooo good verbal tops are speechless in moment. 

[Barebacksletje]

Verbal. Like it when the top is raping me and shouting filty stuff and calling me a whore and all...

[rublthlad]

Find verbal far more of a turn on

[faglory]

a verbal top is of course hot esp if He is a dom

but also a Man that walks up, uses me & walks away without a word, fuck thats hot too

[Pigforcum]

Prefer a top to be verbal especially when he's going to cum in me