How Versatile are you? 😉

[Jimmi]

100 per cent bottom. 

[KindaBasic]

On 5/1/2022 at 5:10 PM, Karl8181 said:

There seems to be a lot of confusion on dating apps who  is top and who is versatile (top/bttm) and expectations in the sack.. 

 

Just out of curiosity are there ‘invisible rules of which nationality or type of person  in your opinion do you accept to be versatile and which type of person and nationality you accept or expect to be top? 

 

Have fun with this one 

 

Karl 😀

It’s funny that you bring this up. One-on-one I am pretty much bottom. But in a bath house or similar situation I usually go into hyper top mode. That said, whatever the scenario, I tend to turn into a complete bottom around sexy Latinos 

[Searchingforit]

50/50 top or bottom but if im bottoming he's got to be big - i want to feel his cock going in and out and touching all parts of my guts

[rock-cock-jock]

On 5/2/2022 at 4:03 AM, versasslover said:

What is the confusion you encounter? Every dating app clearly states positions.
I’m 50/50 but top more often as it’s just easier to hook up.
AndI don’t know what nationality has to do with this either. 

Same with me. 50/50 but top more often as it's easier to hook up. 

I don't think 'nationality' is the intended word; I think he meant 'ethnicity', because 'nationality' doesn't make sense. In which case, I do think that there is a correlation between ethnicity and sex position. Whether it's because of porn or culture or body size or cock size or whatever, there are def stereotypes about the dynamics because of one's ethnic origin. In NA for asian guys, I think there's almost like a gay game growth tree where some are expected to spec into being a slim, sub, fem, smooth, twinky btm. I find these traits to be incredibly unappealing for me to adopt personally - I love being a masc, muscular, not submissive, bro-type pig with body hair and when guys hmu hoping for the subby asian stereotype that's a straight up hard no from me. But it's a legit social norm/type/genre/tribe in the gay community. I also feel like black guys get pigeonholed too. I'm sure not every black guy wants to be stuck in the bbc top category forever. I think certain relative things like a taller height , larger body size and bigger cock size might subconsciously push someone to being more top or perceived as more top and vice versa for being more btm; this might be reflected in different distributions among ethnicity too

[London1281955]

I’m 85 percent bottom unless fucking a chaser. But if a normal hook up, I would always bottom as prefer the feeling. Also agree re stereotypes wrong as many Asian twinks have been power tops and crucified my ass.

[luvtocum]

I am completely vers, but when I bottom, I go all out 😛

When I top and cum, I am usually spent for quite a while, whereas if I bottom and don’t cum… then it is like being at a buffet wearing X-Large sweat pants lol

[JamesL100]

50/50 on an ideal fuck night but rarely with the same 50/50 guy(s). Seem to enjoy a few btms then have some tops breeding me.

[Faggotjohn]

I’m 100% bottom. I have no interest at all in being top.

[tallslenderguy]

i say "total bottom" because it's less confusing than trying to explain. For me, it's not just physical, i feel like i am psychologically 'bottom' as well. But every once in a while, my cock will end up in an ass. It has not happened for years now, but i know the possibility is there, but it's an exception vs a permanent or ongoing state of being. i don't think i could be in a relationship where it was an ongoing thing or expectation for me to top. i was married to a woman for much of my life, and i had to be top in that relationship, i suspect that exhausted the top that may have been in me. 

[hntnhole]

It's not easy to explain, but there are occasions when I'll allow a guy to fuck me.  The prerequisites though, are what I call a serious "connection" to the man, which happens rather scarcely.  I don't like getting fucked, but if the guy really wants to, and the ineffable "connection" is there, well .... ok, and don't dawdle.  I can't imagine any guy wanting to Breed in my ass anyway - there are millions of far-better asses out there than mine.  It's entirely dependent on the "connection".  

[Njn0mc]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

i say "total bottom" because it's less confusing than trying to explain. For me, it's not just physical, i feel like i am psychologically 'bottom' as well. But every once in a while, my cock will end up in an ass. It has not happened for years now, but i know the possibility is there, but it's an exception vs a permanent or ongoing state of being. i don't think i could be in a relationship where it was an ongoing thing or expectation for me to top. i was married to a woman for much of my life, and i had to be top in that relationship, i suspect that exhausted the top that may have been in me. 

Im kinda like you.. Im a total bottom slut my dick is just for play or grabbing.  But I have had my dick in a few holes and liked it but I still get off as a bottom. I get mentally satisfied when a top explodes in my hole i can sometimes cum because of it.. 

[bluedragon]

I was 80 to 90% top, I'm trying to get that down to about 60% or so. Much easier when it's raw 😉

[DannyZ]

On 5/2/2022 at 12:03 PM, versasslover said:

What is the confusion you encounter? Every dating app clearly states positions.
I’m 50/50 but top more often as it’s just easier to hook up.
AndI don’t know what nationality has to do with this either. 

I couldn't have said this better.  I clearly state what I want before hooking up. 

[hntnhole]

2 hours ago, bluedragon said:

Much easier when it's raw 😉

???  Do you mean there's some other way to fuck ??? 😈

[partying.hard]

Until I was 26, I was 100% top.  Other than a tongue, nothing went up my ass.

Then I met Chris.  He he taught me it made me no less of a man to get my whole stuffed. Within six months, I had taken my first fist.

Today, I am totally 50/50 vers.  I’ve got a big dick and love to fuck. A lot of other tops like my attitude, and when they see my dick, they are hungry to flip.  And I am happy to do it. But I’m never shy to let someone know that I have my needs on the bottom, too.