Doctor role play

[Sharp-edge]

I was just curious to ask. Would you be turned on to be examined by a real doctor but in terms of a roleplay? So that you would know that he knows what he does and not some clumsy fake porn doctor. Moreover I find it interesting that it has some power like what some SM people would call a master. But you do as a doctor what he says because you just have to (assuming that he works for your health). Even if it's kinda painful you know it must be done (otherwise the real doctor wouldn't have suggested it). In the end you have to be polite and say thank you to the doctor.

So, I was thinking if you take all that and the real doctor and just have a sexual play, like pretending to be patient and doctor.

[BootmanLA]

I must confess I'm having a hard time getting my mind wrapped around this.

Either it's an actual, real medical exam - in which case yes, you do what the doctor tells you to, but it stays professional, or else it's a scene, whether or not your partner is a real doctor not, and you go with the scene flow. But in the latter case, if my "doctor" (or actual doctor) started examining me as he would an actual patient, that would be a pretty fast boner-killer. 

[ErosWired]

I’m kind of with @BootmanLA on this one. For a medical “scene” to be at all realistic to me, the doctor would have to perform the examination with objective professional disinterest, and with minimal invasion. Plus, the physician is ethically bound not to take advantage of a vulnerable patient in such a way, and I wouldn’t be able to get past the notion that the doctor was violating his oath. By the same token, it would disturb me somewhat to find that I was doing a scene with a medical professional who got turned on by the idea of doing something contrary to his oath.

Now, if it wasn’t a medical scene as such, I wouldn’t have a problem with, say, a proctologist fisting me. In fact, I’d probably prefer it from a safety standpoint. I would have to wonder, though, why a man who spends every working day looking at the insides of asses would want to take up fisting as a hobby in his free time. There’s such a thing as being too keen.

[DarkroomTaker]

My Dr is called Dr Allcock...

[Sharp-edge]

Maybe I didn't put it well. I meant a role play when someone plays the doctor and someone else the patient. With the difference that the doctor is someone who actually works as a doctor but does that in his apartment with his lover to entertain themselves. So the boyfriend/guy or whoever you may call hiim gets the feeling of an actual examination even if its a roleplay. 

[BootmanLA]

2 hours ago, Sharp-edge said:

Maybe I didn't put it well. I meant a role play when someone plays the doctor and someone else the patient. With the difference that the doctor is someone who actually works as a doctor but does that in his apartment with his lover to entertain themselves. So the boyfriend/guy or whoever you may call hiim gets the feeling of an actual examination even if its a roleplay. 

I think I got exactly what you were saying. I still think if it's realistic medical play, I'm going to be bonerless and completely uninterested. All that would run through my mind is "Does he get off on doing this to actual patients? That's disgusting." And it's an image I wouldn't be able to get out of my head. 

[NYBBGUY58]

One of my most potent fantasies still is about the psychiatrist I was sent to as a child because I was obviously a little (not so) latent gay boy. He wouldn't even discuss the subject of my being gay with me, just tried to get me to butch it up. A fruitless (pun not intended) strategy.  But for some reason I find it really hot to imagine having sex with him...probably something to do with the [banned word].

I was with a couple of physicians when I was younger (in my 20s, around 40 years ago). Both of them were fun...but no doctor roleplays! One was into rimming me.  The other wanted me to rim him - it was extremely hot, he was a tall, burly guy, we were in the 69 position and he just pulled his cock out of my mouth and pushed his ass in my face. HEAVEN!

[Sharp-edge]

10 hours ago, BootmanLA said:

I think I got exactly what you were saying. I still think if it's realistic medical play, I'm going to be bonerless and completely uninterested. All that would run through my mind is "Does he get off on doing this to actual patients? That's disgusting." And it's an image I wouldn't be able to get out of my head. 

That's a good question you're posing. From a doctor's perspective I can tell you that definitely many doctors may feel an attraction towards a patient. However legal, moral and professional reasons don't allow them to do anything inappropriate. For me, it's mostly moral. Like I know that the law prohibits it, but what really stops me is the sense of "this doesn't feel right", which for me is the best. Laws should be the last effort to stop something bad from happening. Education and moral values should be in the front line of accepted behaviour. 

It also depends  on the specialty and the patients. If I was a gynaecologist it would be hard to be hard (no pun intended) since I'm gay. And the medical examination is mostly about stethoscope and things that a GP does. You wouldn't perform an endoscopy.

My bf had helped me a lot. I used to listen to his heart, lungs, stomach, check his throat his eyes and ears several times. Without him I would have failed the practical exams.

An extra (slightly irrelevant) thought. I believe that a good doctor needs to "love" his patients. By love I mean caring. Caring for not being in pain, caring to restore their health, caring to find a treatment that they can afford. Care for their loved ones (the patient's loved ones). 

[b8budj]

After a friendly visit with the men's health doctor at my university during grad school, I sent him an email asking if he'd like to go out sometime. He said he is in a relationship and doesn't date outside of it, but he was open to hooking up. We had a good rapport, so I asked if he'd be my primary care doc. We had a lot of sexual energy, and every time I went to see him for an exam, he would conduct it professionally, then open my pants and give me a long blow job until I shot my sperm down his throat. This happened periodically over three years. It was very fucking hot, and I was always a little nervous because he never locked the door. But overall, a great fantasy come-to-life.

[onlyraw]

5 hours ago, Sharp-edge said:

My bf had helped me a lot. I used to listen to his heart, lungs, stomach, check his throat his eyes and ears several times. Without him I would have failed the practical exams.

And did your bf let you practice doing prostate exams?

I go to a gay health clinic- so all the drs I’ve had there I knew were gay - the the first dr I had was HOT - soooo sexy - and back in the days when they actually gave a full physical exam and you stripped down naked and were just wearing a johnie….. he was always very professional (sigh) but I still had a hard time not getting hard when did the prostate exam 

A very long time ago I did do a hot role play scene with  a guy I met on one of the old yahoo groups - went to his place and he had a room set up like a drs office - real exam table and everything- he wore a white coat - had a johnie for me to wear (at least in the beginning) did a great exam  - ended with me standing naked in front of him while I had to produce a urine sample into a real specimen jar 

then a prostate exam and a sperm sample 

even though it was just roll play - the power exchange of me naked on the exam table and him fully dressed and in his white coat while he jerked me off for the sperm sample was really hot

unfortunately I was never called back for a follow up exam 

[Sharp-edge]

1 hour ago, onlyraw said:

And did your bf let you practice doing prostate exams?

I go to a gay health clinic- so all the drs I’ve had there I knew were gay - the the first dr I had was HOT - soooo sexy - and back in the days when they actually gave a full physical exam and you stripped down naked and were just wearing a johnie….. he was always very professional (sigh) but I still had a hard time not getting hard when did the prostate exam 

A very long time ago I did do a hot role play scene with  a guy I met on one of the old yahoo groups - went to his place and he had a room set up like a drs office - real exam table and everything- he wore a white coat - had a johnie for me to wear (at least in the beginning) did a great exam  - ended with me standing naked in front of him while I had to produce a urine sample into a real specimen jar 

then a prostate exam and a sperm sample 

even though it was just roll play - the power exchange of me naked on the exam table and him fully dressed and in his white coat while he jerked me off for the sperm sample was really hot

unfortunately I was never called back for a follow up exam 

The prostate exam in Greece we call it the finger exam. And many people believe that it's named due to the use of your finger but actually the anal sphincter is also called finger. But actually you need someone with an elarged prostate or bleeding or anything, otherwise there's nothing to feel.

Never called back for a follow up? Sounds like a real doctor to me 😛 I'm joking.

 

[evilqueerpig]

My former HIV Doc was a sexy Latino...also gay and poz.  I valued our professional relationship too much to risk taking things sexual and also he gave a vanilla vibe.

[VersGuyAnon]

I had a medical role play scene years ago which was pretty good (I was relatively innocent in those days), but I'm keen to do it again (but much raunchier). A key part of it would be being opened up with a speculum, to really properly examine me inside and a lot more besides. Not easy to find guys into it!