Couples

[Barebackpiggy]

I'm curious as to your experience and preferences when it comes to playing with couples.

Being single for most of my life, I have on occasion had the opportunity to play with couples. 

My experiences haven't been great so I tend to avoid them. I find I'm into 1 (usually the top), and not the other (usually a bottom). I find the chemistry awkward, they're getting off having a 3rd party but I'm not that enamored being piggy in the middle. 

I find the bottoms possessive of their top and don't want them cuming in my hole.

Playing with a couple is totally different to a gang bang. In a gang bang I fuck with who I find hot and ignore the rest, usually other bottoms. 

A perfect set up is where they are both top, but that is fairly uncommon from my experience. 

Are you part of a couple? What do you look for in 3rd party's? 

[TravelGuy1956]

I was hit up by a couple in Nashville on BBRT.  I was very into the TOP,  and his partner was a versatile bottom and was into toys.....I figured I could go with that.  The TOP and I exchanged messages and pics.....DAMN he was hot,  and his partner was nice looking too.  He asked for my number and called to talk a little.  I thought I was well on my way to a fun evening, when his partner apparently grabbed the phone away and started laying down his ground rules.  No kissing, the TOP could only fuck me if I was sucking the bottom.  If the bottom was getting fucked by the TOP,  I had to suck the bottom.  I could not suck the TOP,  and last if the bottom had to leave the room,  TOP and I were to do nothing until he returned.  He asked if I understood.  I simply hung up.

[NWUSHorny]

At this point in my life, I won't go home, or to a hotel room with a gay couple, but will happily play with them in an orgy situation. It just doesn't seem to work in a private 2 plus 1 situation. On the other hand it can work really well at a sex club or an orgy, most recently I took an awesome tag team pounding from a young gay couple (versatile top/versatile bottom) in a sex club where both of them bred me, and I bred the versatile bottom.

[RealCute]

Travelguy1956 sure sounds like way to many rules did they come with a user's manual.  Love your response:

"He asked if I understood.  I simply hung up."

Edited May 28, 2022 by RealCute
Correction

[evilqueerpig]

Playing with couples can be quite fun.  Example #1 a Latino couple,  1 top, the other vers.  The top was in me and when I took a breather from sucking the other, I suggested a dp and since they'd done it before, they agreed.  Starting anew, I sat on the larger one and the smaller one squeezed in next to him.  I never felt so full and the motions of 2 cocks felt wonderful.  They came at the same time.  Example # 2 a poz couple, both vers. they fucked me, I fucked them and since they loved my ass, they fucked me again.  These guys didn't make me feel like an outsider, nor did I feel like I was there to be used.

[catcher4you]

I’ve had several couples that I’ve played with where it has gone really well. Finding a couple where one is a top and the other is versatile seems to work best for me as a bottom. My most recent couple both fisted me,,played in my ass with toys, and I got fucked by one of them. I sucked and rimmed both of them and had a great night. 
But, if either one of them laid down rules like TravelGuy1956 experienced, I’d pass. In the middle of play, I don’t want to have to consider whether something was going against the rules or not. 

[Incognito91]

8 hours ago, TravelGuy1956 said:

 No kissing, the TOP could only fuck me if I was sucking the bottom.  If the bottom was getting fucked by the TOP,  I had to suck the bottom.  I could not suck the TOP,  and last if the bottom had to leave the room,  TOP and I were to do nothing until he returned.  

When my partner first suggested trying a 3some, I was very hesitant to try and had a lot of reservation (even after blowing lots of clouds). We had similar rules. No kissing and only fucking with a condom. We informed people of our agreement before we met. That was how it went the first time we tried a 3some.

The second time we had a 3some, again, we told the guy our agreement. The guy also wanted to play safe and he brought a fresh pack of condoms.

At one point, the guy was sucking my dick as my partner was eating his ass. When my partner finished eating his ass, I remember my partner had an evil look to his face as he watched me and got up and pressed his bare knob on the guy's hole. The idea that my partner was going to breach our rules right in front of me without any discussion because he was horny got me extra rock hard. My partner looked down at my cock, and slowly sank his bare cock into the guy. The guy knew my partner hasn't had the chance to open the fresh pack of condoms and made no protest and i watched him back his arse onto my partner's cock.

That night, the rules, without any further discussion, went out of the window. We kissed the guy. The guy and I fucked each other bare. Far more memorable than my first 3some. 

[Twochipigs]

Before I met my partner I loved playing with couples.  I realized, though, that I’d usually be more attracted to one half of the couple than the other.  I think this is why 3somes sometimes are far less hot in reality than in one’s imagination - one partner feels slighted.

After I realized the imbalance, I made a conscious effort to pay more attention to the one I found less attractive.   Doing that offset the chemistry I’d have with the hotter partner.  It must have worked as I always got invited back.

Try it next time you’re playing with a couple and post here how it worked for you.  Have fun!

[drscorpio]

My late husband and I did tons of threesomes because he loved to watch me take a load from a stranger. He would let me sleep in on Saturday mornings and line up tops to fuck me all afternoon on Craigslist or A4A. It worked out better when the third was a top. My husband was hung and liked a bottom who could loosen up and let him in quickly. He was not particularly gentle when he fucked, so he tended to be more than most vers-tops and versatiles wanted to handle. 

[bbpigbtm]

My husband doesn’t play, i like too find a couple thats both tops, to use me for a night. Wish i got my partner to play when we first met, he a top that thinks my hole is his

[hornybrownbottom]

Couples NEVER work for me unless its a couple with two tops. Plain and simple. Ive been with two men individually multiple times (for years) who ended up married and either both were cheating or they were in an open relationship. I think I can count at least six such couples I have been with. Never with a couple where I had to compete with another bottom.

[Barebackpiggy]

Just had an experience to confirm my suspicions. It's the last day of my holiday and a couple messaged me on Grindr when I was on another day trip.

We made provisional arrangements to meet which I thought would fall through. I agreed as they were both vers.

After a couple of false starts they were on their way.

I popped a viagra to help me along and they arrived as promised.

Both lovely lads and both supposedly vers, but 1 was far more bottom than the other and was also a bit too fat for my tastes.

The top was a complete stud however and bred my hole twice. 

I did my utmost to breed the bottom but I just couldn't do it. If I'd met him in a sauna glory hole, I'd have bred him no bother as his ass was quite fuckable,  but the pressure of feeling I had to perform meant I didn't. He certainly got a good fucking, just not my cum. 

We all had a good time, and I got another breeding but its a lesson learned. Don't play with couples, unless they are both tops..

 

[shinelover]

I've been the bottom for 2 couples, but it's not something I would actively pursue again. The second couple turned out to be a total nightmare and it really turned me off. I think that's when I started leaning towards anonymous loads instead.

[gwmxyz]

I'd go further and say threesomes don't generally work.  Of course, either can work and be hot , it's just the dynamic seems against it. 
Someone's likely to end up feeling a spare part and it will certainly be one of the couple.
While jealousy isn't something I get (thankfully), I know my bf does.  What saves it is that he gets turned on by seeing me get fucked - (he is the first person to have fucked me bb, but still doesn't believe it - he says I was too slutty for that to be true).  Even so, I'd never do a three.
Nor would i ever do it at our flat.  His reaction if he wants to call things to a close is not to say anything but to start playing Barbra Streisand at high volume.  I wouldn't wish that on anyone. It also means I'm in deep trouble.
As part of a larger group at someone else's it's no problem.  Even then we would probably not admit to being a couple.  We'd pretend not to be, only to forget and address one another as "my love" - a little overfamiliar, even in a group.
The most recent time I played with a couple,  I ended up being top. Or I say played with a couple.  The actual top was mainly on the phone to his work.  Not a nightmare but also not great - doing what doesn't come naturally with a stressed bf looking on. Two, four or twenty is fine.  Just not three.

[PigBoyDallas]

I play with a few couples pretty regular. It has too be a good chill vibe or I leave. I don't like the jealousy/possessiveness thing that can happen and I've bailed when it gets like that. Most of the couples are situations where one of them bottoms but is more verse, which is where I come in. Usually I'm there to get fucked, but sometimes I do top the one who likes to bottom. Most of the couples I play with are younger guys (20s and 30s) who haven't been together long, aren't married, and just looking for fun.

There's two couples I play with where they're both verse and fuck me and I fuck them...have even had a fourth guy join sometimes. With some of the couples one of the two really enjoys or gets off on seeing me fuck their partner and cum inside them. There can be some raunchy sex talk too calling me or the one half sluts and things like that. Some of the couples are somewhat open and so I'll fuck one of the two on the side...sometimes it isn't open and I wind up playing with them on the side which is hot too. I'm pretty chill and open sexually so I think couples find me non-threatening and fun to play with. I'm not clingy or needy or anything like that.

One of the couples I play with recently had me over for a pool party with another 18 y/o kid they play with. Was a great time and we all took turns fucking each other...the kid even wound up fucking the one half who's the top...he hadn't bottomed since he first started with guys...was hot to see and hear him beg for the kid's load.