Does a bottoms answer to how many loads they have in them ever make a difference?

[hntnhole]

Of course not.  Talk is reeeal cheap .... it's the wanton behavior that counts, and not much else. 

If a Top wants to know if there's load up the Hole, then get down there and shove your tongue up there and find out.  Don't talk about it, don't ask questions about it, just get on the floor and find out what's up there (but do give it the 'sniff-test' first, just in case ...)

[drscorpio]

Several years ago, my late husband and I were attending TBRU (Texas Bear Round Up in Dallas). We had gone on a group excursion to Club Dallas, and I had a pretty good couple of hours taking loads. I was lying in the sling when a hot, muscular Asian dude stepped up between my legs. He was only half hard, but my hole was pretty open. He slipped his cock inside me and began to pump. "You have a load for me?" I asked. He said, "I just shot a minute ago, so I don't know." He slid in and out a few times lazily. "Nice and silky - how many loads you have in you?" he asked. "Six," I told him. His cock immediately got completely stiff (about 7"), and he fucked me hard until he gave me a seventh load.

I ran into him again a little later as we were both getting ready to leave. He hugged me and told me what I hot slut I was. I still get an invite to his party at TBRU every year. 

[Chokulo]

When i’ w been at SBN I’ve had guys come up behind me - I’m generally bent over ass out - and whisper as they finger me, I figure the finger tells it all, they scoop out a little and then they can’t wait to get their cocks in my sloppy hole. And just after a guy had loaded me there is about a minute or so when you know someone was watching and got really horny with my ass opened and just creamed, they slip in straight away, my ass still dribbling from the last guy. Best times are when the universe lines up and you get 5 or 6 enjoying the warm creaminess and openness of my ass

[ErosWired]

I kid you not - every. single. effing. guy. who messaged me tonight while I’ve hosted has asked me how many loads I have. Every. Single. One. And only one of them actually fucked me. That’s it. I’m not answering the question anymore. These sons of bitches have abused the privilege to such an egregious degree that they no longer get to know. I am done catering to their fantasies.

[StockingsBB]

Never been asked. Guy fucked me today at an outdoor cruising site and it must have been obvious that I had taken a heavy load earlier in the day . 
 

 

 

[Guest]

I've always found it does make a difference. Guys stop hesitating when they know loads are in there and slide right in.

[rock-cock-jock]

this is a really good topic and I think there are many levels to that question. First off, this is gonna sound kinda manipulative (because it is), but you have to remember your objective here - it's to get this dude to fuck you, it's not to be fucking honest and tell him your exact load number, nor is it reason to burn this bridge as a potential cum load, and last and most importantly, it's not to entertain these irrelevant deviations in the conversation, especially such a tricky one, where the risk of failure is far greater than any benefit you might get by revealing this information. Let me expand on this a bit. 

What is his motivation in asking that question? Obviously, that depends. As a lot of ppl here pointed out, some of them are turned on by sloppy holes, some of them are using this as jerk off fuel and dont actually plan on showing up, some of them ask this as a trick question to see how much of a slut you are and either equate that to a high sti risk and thus not show up (typically straight and bi guys do this) or as a power move for subtle intimidation (kind of a taunt/subtly putting you down. certain types of ppl do this) or as a way to build up a fantasy of probably some porn-derived scenario. Regardless of why the top asked that question, they plan on using that information to somewhat objectify (not exactly the right word) or rather form an image of you based on their own individual pre-conceived ideas. This is not to your benefit at all, as most of these possible images are of less appeal than how you appear to them currently .Alot of respondents say that 'alot of tops/most guys' like sloppy holes/are into that - that's bullshit. No, you can't assume that at all - you don't know the odds and you don't know his motivation. Besides, it's not for you to play russian roulette to get his dick, remember your objective.

So, the correct answer to that question, is to not answer at all. It might seem relevant but it isn't crucial information - other tops have come by without asking that and of the small proportion that might see it as essential and specifically look for a certain minimum load number, it's such an unusual interest that you can casually deflect and the obscurity would still keep you as a possible plan for their night in their mind rather than risk saying a specific number and then instantly getting written off because of it being a 'rule' in their mind. Besides, it's an overly personal aggressive question and even if you're a proud slut like me, it doesn't mean you have to wave your slut flag everywhere. It's none of the guy's business how many loads you have up in your cum tunnel at all so you're well justified in the conversation to dismiss it.

So, purposefully ignore that question and steer the conversation back to a vibe that you're more comfortable with. Tossing out a new hot sexy pic of you might work well here as this gets the power back in your favor ideally with him complimenting you or possibly mentioning a new kink or something that you'd let him try or whatever, it just needs to be interesting enough to change topics. Or better yet, nail down specific logistics like time he might come over, an alternative method of contacting each other, how much forewarning you might need, etc. practical things so it makes things more concrete and weeds out the losers using it as wank fuel. If he doesn't compliment you on the pic by the way at this point , that's a good sign that he's a lost cause as it's uncomfortable to compliment something you're disgusted by. And at that point, he's just playing around.

These are my thoughts on it anyways

 

 

 

 

Edited October 7, 2022 by rock-cock-jock

[NWUSHorny]

14 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I kid you not - every. single. effing. guy. who messaged me tonight while I’ve hosted has asked me how many loads I have. Every. Single. One. And only one of them actually fucked me. That’s it. I’m not answering the question anymore. These sons of bitches have abused the privilege to such an egregious degree that they no longer get to know. I am done catering to their fantasies.

It hasn't worked very well, even at the sex clubs, but my answer for the last several months has been, "you will have to shove your cock in my ass to find out." It does those of us who actually enjoy the act of fucking to use for their masturbation fantasies.

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 6/20/2022 at 2:48 AM, Bokkierob said:

If a dude is hungry for cock and presenting his hole I'll fuck him. If when I shove my cock in him I find he's been well cunted I'll compliment him "hell buddy, how many loads?" The more loads see has up his ass means more enjoyment for me. One of the best sloppy manholes I ever fucked had over a dozen loads in it - when I thrust my cock into him a wave of mixed sperm from a dozen men blasted out over my balls. That was an epic fuck

That sounds amazing.

[TwinkChaserSlut]

On 6/21/2022 at 9:03 AM, drscorpio said:

Several years ago, my late husband and I were attending TBRU (Texas Bear Round Up in Dallas). We had gone on a group excursion to Club Dallas, and I had a pretty good couple of hours taking loads. I was lying in the sling when a hot, muscular Asian dude stepped up between my legs. He was only half hard, but my hole was pretty open. He slipped his cock inside me and began to pump. "You have a load for me?" I asked. He said, "I just shot a minute ago, so I don't know." He slid in and out a few times lazily. "Nice and silky - how many loads you have in you?" he asked. "Six," I told him. His cock immediately got completely stiff (about 7"), and he fucked me hard until he gave me a seventh load.

I ran into him again a little later as we were both getting ready to leave. He hugged me and told me what I hot slut I was. I still get an invite to his party at TBRU every year. 

What is TBRU like?

[drscorpio]

4 hours ago, TwinkChaserSlut said:

What is TBRU like?

Several hundred bears, chubs, and their admirers from around the world all in the same hotel in Dallas for 4-5 days. There are sex parties going on pretty much the whole times. Tons of guys on the make all the time. It's great. 

The actual event is nice. They usually have great guests and fun activities throughout the day. There is plenty to do, if you want a break from hooking up.