Why do married men fuck the hardest and best?

[Hungryforbbc]

I think it’s because they know that they can do the shit with you that they could never get away with at home because it could forever change their relationship -you can’t unsee the nasty deep shit and you never see them the same again so basically you take it all out on the holes who aren’t gonna judge you or hold it against you later 

[vers46]

30 years ago, there was still enormous pressure to conform to the norm. Being gay in rural UK in those days just wasn't an option. Although I knew I was at least Bi, if not gay, I chose to marry a woman. I have been married 25yrs but my wife went off sex 20 years ago. I needed to get off somehow, and meeting guys was the obvious answer, somehow it doesn't feel like cheating in the same way as if I was having an affair with another woman. Sex with men is totally different. It is far more adventurous and experimental. It was years before a guy persuaded me to get on prep and go BB, but when I did, it added a whole new dimension to my sex life. 

Thankfully society has changed and certainly in the UK, being gay is now generally accepted and we can all live the lives that we want to. Hopefully I am in the last generation who have had to hide their true feelings, just to conform to society.

[Olderkinkybiguy]

As a married man, I can only offer my personal insights. I’m sure I am not the only married man whose wife won’t even attempt anal. I have always had a thing for breeding younger guy ass. Most ass, compared to pussy, are  typically tighter and I never hit bottom; my wife complains if I get too rough and if I keep poking the floor of her pussy.
 

Than their is the whole social stigma that’s two guys fucking is wrong and immoral. So not only am I fucking another dude, I’m also fucking social norms.

Than of course their is the entire removal of any possibility of pregnancy. When I lived with guys I was fucking, I typically unloaded into them at least a couple times a day, usually more. I never had any afterthought if they remembered to take their bith control or not. It was so sexually liberating.
 

Now that I rarely find local guys I want to fuck, but when I do, I am unleashing months, if not more, of sexual frustration into my subs ass. 
 

again, this is just my personal opinion. 

[Hozzel]

Another married bi guy here. I agree with MKSub24 and Olderkinkybiguy on many points. I don't know about 'best' but I do know fucking married guys can be quite fun.

I was married when I had my first experience with a man. During our first threesome, the guest popped my cock into his mouth while he was fucking my wife. It felt fine, not wrong, and it definitely did not last long enough. The DP later was pretty good. That event didn't register much, but I was very much into bi porn by then. Two years later we were playing with a couple, when it did register. I knew the hubby was bi. He and I had flirted on messenger. At one point, he and my wife together went down on me. I was shocked, not by what they did, but that he felt better than she did. In fact, better than any oral I had ever received. Then she and I shared him. I liked sucking him and getting reactions. Later that same evening, he fucked me. My first real cock fucking my ass. That registered bigtime. I really liked his cock ramming into my ass, and the feel of his body and his expressions. From that point on I was hooked on sex with men. I discovered, it feels more fun. It feels different. It is usually sex for its own sake, kind of like a fun sport but more, and not necessarily romantic or tender or loving. Friends can have sex on a whim and its cool. Fuckbuddies are great. Less inhibited. Can be more easily spontaneous in interesting places. It happens more easily and can be more frequent. It can be harder and more intense. The interest in sex doesn't seem to drop off as quickly unless there's a really good reason. There's a better chance others can be involved, too, and be safely open about it. Sex with men simply feels good.
 

[indianowned]

In my case straight men are the more sadistic users of my body and cunts simply because my owners allow users to do things to me that their partners would not tolerate to be done to them.

[reddex]

I'm married (56years) and find sex with men far better than with a female. Wife isn't into sex, just cuddles for the last 30 odd years. Too much luggage comes with females, and Fanny's are not as tight as a man's. Regrettably many married guys frequently are wam bang and out of the door minutes after cumming due to guilt complex? Single guys don't seem to have this issue. I like to both Top and Bottom (more bottom now due to prostate)and find gays are far more straightforward in saying what is best during a meeting. Nothing in my book compares to a hard raw cock massaging my prostate, (multiple anal orgasms are fantastic)or a tight arse wrapped around my cock. A benefit is that there's no ulterior motive in play, just pure, usually fantastic sex. The only issue is the time needed to prepare to avoid unpleasant outcomes so spontaneous meetings aren't really possible .

[sneakybare]

I have been bent over and had my ass pounded in my daddy's kitchen 

No foreplay just drop shorts and let him in to spunk in my guts 

His wife would divorce him if he did that with her 

No babies no fuss just a willing ass to be used and pounded hard

 

[PozPumpDump]

Women don't know how to let top men use their holes like bottom guys. I have no personal limits to how a top uses me and that's the difference. 

[hntnhole]

On 3/11/2026 at 10:51 PM, indianowned said:

my owners allow users to do things to me that their partners would not tolerate to be done to them.

That's an interesting observation;  why do you think that's the case?

[leakyhole]

Because the "so called straight" men are mostly just surpressing their true sexual needs. And once they have it, they go wild because they don't know when again will they have it. As my 47 yr old straight friend, father of two,  recently said just before breeding me: "Only "kids" and gays actually do fuck!"

[Mikey69]

Chicago

[princemb95]

Love getting fucked by married cock. So much pent up, perverted sexual rage. They’re more than happy to release their sperm into a willing cock whore who will do whatever they ask.