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Hi all, I’ve been reading this forum for a long time and love it. I’ve usually been fairly tame / selective about hook ups. I find myself wanting more and more cock though. I have swallowed 7 loads in the last 2 days which is a lot for me. 
 

im looking for advice on how to get more cock, and how to be safe about it? I’m just using Grindr and have lowered my appearance standards which has helped of course. I just want more cum! I’m gonna be bottoming more soon too. BB is so hot but also scary, I’ve only done bb when I’ve been in a regular fuck buddy situation.

any advice would be appreciated, thank you!

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For me the words "selective, safe, & tame" are contraditory to being a slut or thinking like one.

Personally i think its in out genetic make up and the experiences we've had over the years. You may grow into being a slut but there' s risk 

You have to do what is right for you and what your comfortable with, and what your mind and body tell you to do.  so if safe or safer sex is what you are comfortable with then go with that.  I can't imagine safe oral sex but there have been a couple guys  (which i told to take a hike)  over the years that wanted me to blow them with one on. Only had a couple fuck me when i was young that used one on me. 

i'm poz 28 years and although i didn't pick my daddy i cant imagine being any other way but my mindset is that i need a Mans seed growing in me for real now and NOT just ONE

Most of the stds are curable except HIV

There are as many TOPS and DOMS that are as selective as their are subs and slaves.

Finds the places where their are MEN which it sounds like you are and go from there.

Follow your instincts

 

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You need to just stop being picky and screw around with any and everyone. Young, old, fat, skinny, etc. Do whatever you need to do to please them too. I'm not much of a rimmer, but I ate this guy's ass for his load. Another guy wanted to throat fuck me & I'm not good at it, but I learned how to deep throat him properly for his load. I love being naked in a restroom stall & making it obvious what I'm there to do. 

 

You simply need to stop fantasizing and start doing. 

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I'll take some of this advice for sure, and fantasize less / go out and meet right away more. I got another load of cum last night too, he face fucked me til I had tears in my eyes and every drop went straight down my throat. I have another guy coming here in an hour and a half to top me. I didn't tell him I'm wearing a cock cage, cause it turns some tops off, idk why. Mayyybe I'll let him breed me. He seems on the dom side, I hope he is!

 

Leatherman, I wish I was comfortable at clubs, I've never been. Having someone to go with would be nice, maybe help me find loads too :) I'm in Troy NY and its not a small city, but not big either. Just throwing my city out there in case any of you are close :)

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20 hours ago, NewToBeingaSlut said:

how to be safe about it

First, and most importantly, get all the inoculations that are available against std's.  Get on PReP or whatever hiv-preventative your internist recommends.  If you don't trust that he/she is competent in this area, find one that is.  Once protected as fully as possible, realize that there are std's that you will pick up occasionally - we all do - so plan on a very regular testing regimen.  The sooner they're caught, the sooner they'll be treated, the sooner you'll be back in the pigpen with the rest of us.

Since you (perhaps?) envy what some of us do, once you're as fully as protected as possible, let your Lusts be your guide, and join in. Fear is a terribly debilitating thing to live with, and there's no reason to allow your inborn nature to suffer because of fear. It doesn't sound like you're dealing with too much cultural baggage retarding your progress in your sexual life, and that's a good thing.  Be the man you need to be, and do it with Pride and Confidence.  Love yourself, in your wholeness.  Then, we'll seeya in the fuckjoints!

Only take all the preventative steps first.  

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8 minutes ago, hntnhole said:

First, and most importantly, get all the inoculations that are available against std's.  Get on PReP or whatever hiv-preventative your internist recommends.  If you don't trust that he/she is competent in this area, find one that is.  Once protected as fully as possible, realize that there are std's that you will pick up occasionally - we all do - so plan on a very regular testing regimen.  The sooner they're caught, the sooner they'll be treated, the sooner you'll be back in the pigpen with the rest of us.

Since you (perhaps?) envy what some of us do, once you're as fully as protected as possible, let your Lusts be your guide, and join in. Fear is a terribly debilitating thing to live with, and there's no reason to allow your inborn nature to suffer because of fear. It doesn't sound like you're dealing with too much cultural baggage retarding your progress in your sexual life, and that's a good thing.  Be the man you need to be, and do it with Pride and Confidence.  Love yourself, in your wholeness.  Then, we'll seeya in the fuckjoints!

Only take all the preventative steps first.  

Insightful as always!  There are some guys I'd consider sluts, and even as much as I know you love seeding a hole, you're not one of them! TRUE sluts just like giving or taking loads.  Not that anything particularly wrong with that though.  You loose your slut status for giving others sound advice!  You just love what you do! And that's breeding or giving helpful thoughts!

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I'll have to get all the vaxxes and stuff now. I got the load from the guy that just came, his dick was so big and def dom and pounded for over an hour. Here are a couple pics. I could hardly take it, i asked him to finish up and he bred me deep. Left his load deep in me. I have another guy, 20yo coming soon. I hope he doesnt mind a cum filled ass lol 

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I guess I'm feeling extra slutty today. After I got bred, the 20yo came over and fucked me for a while, pulled out and came on my back. Another guy came next, I gave him head and then he fucked me w a condom. I gave another guy head too and then.....

 

I met up with a guy at a hotel who pounded me bareback for hours. He showed me a neg test and was on prep. I got on my knees and gave him a bj at first. Then he grabbed me and threw me on the bed. He got on top of me and didn't get off until he bred me so deep. It was on the edge of pain and pleasure, so fucking hot! I think my hole is well stretched and a bit raw. I could feel him thrust extra deep and then the pulsing of his cock as he unloaded cum was great. We did the same thing again a half hour later lol. Maybe I got the slut out of my system, idk

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Just my opinion, but one doesn't become a slut...it's something within you.  After a 3 month fling with my 1st man, I spent the night of my 18th birthday at the baths and that's when my SLUT gene kicked in.  I was with man after man and the more I got the more I wanted.  If you're worried about hiv, get yourself on prep.

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In becoming a slut, I would look at the definition of slut! the dictionary states one who as too many sex partners. I certainly qualify as a slut! I have been having sex since my teen years and always with strangers and different men, the more recent ones were two men fucking me taking turns. when a male calls me a slut I am pleased because it defines me perfectly a SLUT one who gets fucked all the time by different people. Its certainly not a term one gives oneself but given by others mainly those who fuck me. I have to admit i do enjoy being called a slut and when I spread my legs for his cock to come in. I am inviting any men who wants a piece of ass. and promoting myself as a full fledged slut!

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Hi again, just posting an update. I had a lot of fun around New Years. I’ve been sucking a lot of cock since then too and loving it! I decided not to bottom on hookups for safety reasons.

That turned out to be a good thing because I LOVE tasting cum. When a guy unloads in my mouth I like to savor it, swish it around, swallow it a little at a time and get a pic of it on my tongue too. I swallowed 32 loads in one weekend which was wild. Mostly just from Grindr. Idk if I can beat that number but I’d like to try sometime, idk how lol. Maybe try to set up a bukkake?

I have been sucking way more cocks cause I stopped being picky. My convo is almost this simple….

ddf?
Want a no recip bj?
Here’s my addy / where are you hosting

i have a few guys now who hit me up regularly too. It’s fun to be on call. One guy in particular is really hot. He will message me and say “come suck my cock now”. I’ll reply “yes sir I’ll be there in 15 minutes” he has me walk up to his apartment in only my underwear and a jacket, then strip when I enter. He’s always sitting on the couch and gives me a nice load. He said he’d want to hold the key to my cage too.

When hooking up, I usually ask for a cock pic too. I usually only decline if they seem sketchy/too aggressive/maybe on drugs.

grindr takes a lot of time to line up guys to suck though, and one at a time. I wish there was an easier way to get more loads all at once

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