Do you ever leave the bathhouse/sex club with a raging hard on?

[hntnhole]

17 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I really can't tell if the I made the wet spot on the to the bathhouse or after I left.

That doesn't matter in my book.  What does, is you display a wet-spot for all to see, as you Proudly walk from or to your car ... maybe take a walk around the block just to make sure you're noticed.  

[NWUSHorny]

On 1/30/2023 at 2:33 PM, revemupman said:

Never happens with me. Anytime I enter a bathhouse seeing all those beautiful asses in jockstraps I’m instantly hard. When I leave I my cock is spent. 

My point exactly, that is how sex establishments are supposed to work!

[ellentonboy]

Not to sound mean, but if you leave a bathhouse/sexclub/sauna etc. with a hard-on, then that is on you.  From my experience, a patron is given 8 hours to find some fun,

Now keep in mind when you are going, a Tuesday afternoon with temps in the single digits may not draw a big crowd.  But seriously, a weekend, (at almost any time) there has to be SOMEONE to provide you some relief.  Granted you could go in there and want to get off a number of times, and maybe you have cum once or twice and are hoping for a third.

PACE YOURSELF GUYS.  Come on, you have plenty of time to find at least one guy,  I realize we don't  all live in major metropolitan areas so our choice of fuck joints can be limited, as well as your selection of guys.  But I cannot image being in a bathhouse for eight hours and not finding ONE guy, not ONE, who will do the TRICK?

In my case, the answer is no, I have never left a bathhouse with a hard-on. 

[ErosWired]

38 minutes ago, ellentonboy said:

Not to sound mean, but if you leave a bathhouse/sexclub/sauna etc. with a hard-on, then that is on you.  From my experience, a patron is given 8 hours to find some fun,

Agreed. Even on the slowest day I ever spent at a bathhouse, there was never a moment when a hole was unavailable. If you’re too picky, too timid, or too embarrassed to take advantage of what’s right in front of you, you have no one to blame but yourself.

As to the suggestion some have made that he might have taken a Viagra, a couple of things to note: Firstly, Viagra has no effect on erection in the absence of sexual stimulation. An erection occurs because nitrous oxide naturally produced in the penis when stimulated relaxes the smooth muscle tissue in the corpus cavernosum, allowing more blood to enter and swell the organ. Viagra simply enhances the effect of the nitrous oxide, but there has to be nitrous oxide produced for it to have anything to enhance. In other words, you have to at least be thinking about fucking for Viagra to do anything. Viagra doesn’t force you to have an erection, unlike treatments such as Caverject (which requires needle injection directly into the cock), which hardens you no matter what you’re thinking.

Secondly, the peak efficacy of Viagra after administration is approximately an hour, and then the effect rapidly diminishes. By about four hours, the compound is largely metabolized. So in order for this dude to have a Viagra-induced aching hardon, he would have probably had to take it within an hour of getting ready to leave, and that makes little sense, especially given that he turned down an offer to fuck.

[Guest]

re-visitng and hot for this chatter.....this faggot likes having a hard-on in a pair of tight booty shorts or stretchy jeans....if you're going be hard show it....

[NWUSHorny]

8 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

Not to sound mean, but if you leave a bathhouse/sexclub/sauna etc. with a hard-on, then that is on you.  From my experience, a patron is given 8 hours to find some fun,

Now keep in mind when you are going, a Tuesday afternoon with temps in the single digits may not draw a big crowd.  But seriously, a weekend, (at almost any time) there has to be SOMEONE to provide you some relief.  Granted you could go in there and want to get off a number of times, and maybe you have cum once or twice and are hoping for a third.

PACE YOURSELF GUYS.  Come on, you have plenty of time to find at least one guy,  I realize we don't  all live in major metropolitan areas so our choice of fuck joints can be limited, as well as your selection of guys.  But I cannot image being in a bathhouse for eight hours and not finding ONE guy, not ONE, who will do the TRICK?

In my case, the answer is no, I have never left a bathhouse with a hard-on. 

I have to agree with most of this. The only thing I would disagree with, is that there are Saturday nights when even bottoms that want to fuck are unavailable in Portland bathhouses, last Saturday was not one of those really bad nights.

[NWUSHorny]

7 hours ago, ErosWired said:

Agreed. Even on the slowest day I ever spent at a bathhouse, there was never a moment when a hole was unavailable. If you’re too picky, too timid, or too embarrassed to take advantage of what’s right in front of you, you have no one to blame but yourself.

As to the suggestion some have made that he might have taken a Viagra, a couple of things to note: Firstly, Viagra has no effect on erection in the absence of sexual stimulation. An erection occurs because nitrous oxide naturally produced in the penis when stimulated relaxes the smooth muscle tissue in the corpus cavernosum, allowing more blood to enter and swell the organ. Viagra simply enhances the effect of the nitrous oxide, but there has to be nitrous oxide produced for it to have anything to enhance. In other words, you have to at least be thinking about fucking for Viagra to do anything. Viagra doesn’t force you to have an erection, unlike treatments such as Caverject (which requires needle injection directly into the cock), which hardens you no matter what you’re thinking.

Secondly, the peak efficacy of Viagra after administration is approximately an hour, and then the effect rapidly diminishes. By about four hours, the compound is largely metabolized. So in order for this dude to have a Viagra-induced aching hardon, he would have probably had to take it within an hour of getting ready to leave, and that makes little sense, especially given that he turned down an offer to fuck.

I felt sorry for the guy. There have been many nights I have left extremely frustrated, including weekend nights, due to the complete lack of fucking which completely kills my hard on. With that said last Saturday was not one of those nights, so he really only had his own inhibitions to blame.

[inmyass262]

I try not to leave the bathhouse…

[ellentonboy]

17 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I have to agree with most of this. The only thing I would disagree with, is that there are Saturday nights when even bottoms that want to fuck are unavailable in Portland bathhouses, last Saturday was not one of those really bad nights.

I just have a question for you - do you have any other options?  Or does geography limit the number of locations you can frequent?  I just ask that because at times I have lived in cities with three bathhouses.  I know that is a rarity and I was fortunate.  I was just wondering if you might want to explore other opportunities.  Happy hunting...

[ellentonboy]

On 1/31/2023 at 7:01 PM, hntnhole said:

That doesn't matter in my book.  What does, is you display a wet-spot for all to see, as you Proudly walk from or to your car ... maybe take a walk around the block just to make sure you're noticed.  

Or,  if visiting Ft. Lauderdale, take a walk around the old Holiday Park, former tennis training center that has become, somewhat, a huge cruising ground.  I keep referring to Lauderdale because I miss it so much, sorry hntnhole.

[NWUSHorny]

6 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

I just have a question for you - do you have any other options?  Or does geography limit the number of locations you can frequent?  I just ask that because at times I have lived in cities with three bathhouses.  I know that is a rarity and I was fortunate.  I was just wondering if you might want to explore other opportunities.  Happy hunting...

There are 2 options here, both of them have the same issue. Last Saturday, was actually a really active night by local standards, I didn't get the amount of sex I get in a lot of other places, but did not leave frustrated for a change.

When I travel frequently, I usually don't even bother looking for hookups locally, it is simply not worth the frustration.

Edited February 2, 2023 by NWUSHorny

[barebackbro]

On 2/2/2023 at 2:56 AM, ErosWired said:So in order for this dude to have a Viagra-induced aching hardon, he would have probably had to take it within an hour of getting ready to leave, and that makes little sense, especially given that he turned down an offer to fuck.

@ErosWired, this was a great post, but the original post said the guy was young. I doubt he’d need Viagra or Cialis or whatever to get hard if he were sober, and he almost certainly wouldn’t have had it prescribed. But would an intoxicated young guy in a bathhouse take an erection pill, maybe in the wrong dose, and end up with a hard on that lasted hour? I can readily imagine that. Not that I’m speaking from experience …

Thanks for the thoughtful post.

[Fillitup57]

Yes, I did- in fact it was at a bath house in Portland-  am older and it just seems that is a problem for a lot of younger guys.  Was in the sling for a while and did get one load-was hoping for more. 

[hungry_hole]

On 1/29/2023 at 3:58 PM, NWUSHorny said:

I just don't get it.

It's not easy to tell why would someone leave  the sauna with a raging hard-on, but one possibility is that he had taken or swallowed a few loads which had him really horny, and he preferred to go home and jerk-off before falling asleep. I've done that when I've been to a sauna.

When I've wanted to shoot my load I usually go to a gloryhole and have some mouth swallow my load, and this guy with a raging hard-on could have done that, and because he didn't I suspect he prefers to jerk-off before going to sleep. Some times when I've shot my load at the sauna by the time I'm in bed I'm sometimes horny again and have trouble falling asleep. As shooting a load in bed relaxes me and can easily fall asleep.

[ErosWired]

13 hours ago, barebackbro said:

@ErosWired, this was a great post, but the original post said the guy was young. I doubt he’d need Viagra or Cialis or whatever to get hard if he were sober, and he almost certainly wouldn’t have had it prescribed. But would an intoxicated young guy in a bathhouse take an erection pill, maybe in the wrong dose, and end up with a hard on that lasted hour? I can readily imagine that. Not that I’m speaking from experience …

Thanks for the thoughtful post.

These are good observations, but even though he was young - I did see that before - I can still see a young guy taking it for a couple of reasons. First, there’s a prevalent way of thinking in our culture that if a little of a thing is good, a lot of it should be even better. The guy may be able to readily get a hardon, but he wants a raging hardon that doesn’t go soft, so he pops a pill. Second, ED is not confined to the old. Not long ago I had a 21-year-old come to me because he wanted to Top but couldn’t keep an erection. It was purely psychological, but it was still ED. At one point he was a little inebriated, so I gave him a tic-tac and told him it was a low dose of generic Viagra - *~boing~*! No more soft cock. (I don’t make a habit of deceiving gullible people, but I thought I would give the placebo effect a try.)

It’s unlikely, as you say, that he could get a prescription, but a guy can score just about any drug he wants on the street - so I’m told, I personally wouldn’t have a clue how to do it, and don’t want to know.

All this said, I’m not convinced that an ED med is the issue in this case, but wanted to respond to that speculation.

Edited February 3, 2023 by ErosWired