how to get to join an orgy

[Latinotop31]

Does anyone know of a place for orgies? I'm new to the subject.

[BootmanLA]

This is the Porn forum, not a general discussion, so you'd probably have better luck getting an answer elsewhere on the site in a more general discussion area. That said, the answer is going to vary widely depending on where you live. Most people don't go around inviting strangers who have literally no personal information in their profiles to a private sexual event, for good reason.

I note you posted a similar request for info in the cocksucking forum, which is not only off topic there, but you say you're "new in the city" and yet don't even drop a vague hint as to what continent and country that city might be in. There is no master list of orgies around the world that you can consult, if that's what you're looking for.

[PozBearWI]

Considering that our internet universe here, for which BZ is a comparatively small part; contains many others who are unhappy that people like us even exist; a single global link we can open to find where every orgy is will expose those orgies to great personal risk in many parts of our globe.  

[ErosWired]

Organized orgies are most often the result of social networks, and getting invited to them involves making connections with people. Even if someone advertises an open orgy for random walk-in strangers, what we generally find is that such things are generally poorly attended, and even if they do get enough people to have group play, the action is seldom as dynamic as when the group is composed of people with some social linkage.

One contact will tend to lead to others (assuming you don’t gain a poor reputation), but how one finds and makes that first contact is more than I know - I don’t do social and have no social network, let alone a network of orgy enthusiasts.

[Guest]

Orgies all the time, every major city. Check out [think before following links] https://www.cumunion.com/

[fuckholedc]

4 minutes ago, PozFetishTo said:

Orgies all the time, every major city. Check out [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.cumunion.com/

Cumunion + some well known parties are the closest thing to a centralized orgy directory that you can find.

[ErosWired]

9 minutes ago, PozFetishTo said:

Orgies all the time, every major city. Check out [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.cumunion.com/

I wouldn’t call any CumUnion I’ve been to an orgy as such, and what you get is hit-and-miss, but any bathhouse or sex club setting is going to be the best chance for orgy-like opportunities. There’s also the opportunities to be had at events like IML or CLAW, or Pig Week, or even event weekends at some gay campgrounds, but in my experience even in these cases access to the big, organized group fucking that one would technically call an orgy is still by word-of-mouth and invitation. Fickstutenmarkt or Rough Stock Roundup are certainly specialized orgies, but access to those is limited.

[Njn0mc]

I have found a few on Doublelist. One had decent amount of guys. Most had small fees to help pay for the room and supplies.  A couple of them had mailing lists so you get an email of events coming up..

 

[NWUSHorny]

I've always found being an enthusiastic sexual partner in random hookups, often several times with the same guy(s) was the best way to score orgy invitations. Moving around and traveling has taught me that the effectiveness of this technique varies regionally.

[NWUSHorny]

8 hours ago, ErosWired said:

I wouldn’t call any CumUnion I’ve been to an orgy as such, and what you get is hit-and-miss, but any bathhouse or sex club setting is going to be the best chance for orgy-like opportunities. There’s also the opportunities to be had at events like IML or CLAW, or Pig Week, or even event weekends at some gay campgrounds, but in my experience even in these cases access to the big, organized group fucking that one would technically call an orgy is still by word-of-mouth and invitation. Fickstutenmarkt or Rough Stock Roundup are certainly specialized orgies, but access to those is limited.

There are CumUnion parties locations that are regularly decent orgies. I suspect that the odds are better when they are held in venues that do not offer private rooms, and force everyone to play in the group play spaces, the ones held at Sanctuary LAX have been consistently very good for me.

The ones held at bathhouses that regularly see orgies that last several hours break out in their group play spaces also tend to turn into decent orgies, but don't require a CumUnion party to get an orgy going, the now closed Denver Swim Club was great for this.

In the PNW, as far as I have been able to figure out, a decent group orgy is all but impossible to achieve, in a private party, at a bathhouse, or an event like CumUnion. Both Portland and Seattle have held Horsemarket parties, but I haven't been able to attend one yet, but find it hard to believe they would work very well with out getting a significant percentage of the attendees from outside the region. They don't do group sex, they don't fuck with strangers on the 1st hookup, and a larger than average percentage of the gay population do not engage in any form of casual penetrative sex. 

[Read1]

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[hntnhole]

On 4/6/2023 at 11:54 AM, Latinotop31 said:

Does anyone know of a place for orgies? I'm new to the subject.

Bootman's response is spot on. 

However, maybe you could build your own?  Start with one fuckbuddy, and then each of you invite another guy to join the next time you meet to fuck. Repeat that formula for the next one.  Every guy won't be able to come up with fresh meat every single time, but that's ok.  If one guy never seems able to come up with fresh meat, drum him out - he's not sincere. If you find it difficult to find group Breeding, then there are likely a good number of other guy in your area in the same boat.  Keep it manageable though. 

When your number reaches the desired amount of Cocks/Holes, encourage a couple other members to start their own orgy-group, with the same m.o.  At some point, there will be two, then three groups of guys that are dedicated to raw sex, and your pool of available Breedbuddies will be that much wider. 

Nothing happens all by itself.  Put in the work, then reap the benefits. 

[VistaCaBB]

Participated in one I found off of the Adam4Adam app. 

[muscmtl]

Orgies on bbrt. You plan one, 30 guys say they re comming, 3 show up.

Cumunion, FUKd toronto, Pig Week, etc.. all good if you musc/hot, if not an orgy might be the loneliest you'll ever feel in your life.

[ErosWired]

1 hour ago, muscmtl said:

Cumunion, FUKd toronto, Pig Week, etc.. all good if you musc/hot, if not an orgy might be the loneliest you'll ever feel in your life.

This reminds me of a time at camp when I was bent over a picnic table taking loads. Everything was going fine until a muscled twentysomething arrived and bent over the other end of the table. After that, every Top who arrived on the scene went for that hole, and even stood in line for it, even though my hole was open and ready at the other end of the table.

 I wasn’t salty about it; of course they went for him, he fit the model of what gay men are taught is attractive. Besides, I was getting fucked plenty, I didn’t need to have it all. So I just stayed there and had fun watching his face as he was cunted. But, I have to admit that it stung a little to be 100% rejected as soon as muscle-boy hit the scene. I guarantee my ass was every bit as good as his and probably better skilled for experience, but those Tops never gave me a chance to prove it.