how to take a big dick ?

[ShaneJF]

I know a guy who's really cute and id like to have sex with him, but he has a really huge and hard dick. 

in porn the bigger the better, but in reality I find it difficult to take huge dicks sometimes, so I wonder if you have any advice on how to take big dicks ? or any preparation I can do to help me take that dick ?

[Philatanus]

Man Up!

 

Plenty of lube!

 

Grunt and bear it!   

 

Enjoy the ride!

[barenekkid]

Practice this with a dildo: flexing and relaxing with your kegels. When you push out with your anal (muscles?) you open your hole up. So as he’s penetrating you, that’s what you do. Then once the head is in you can kind of do the opposite and pull him into you. It’s a game changer. 

[downtownswallow]

You'd be surprised how much dick will fit if you have time to prepare.  It has nothing to do with "gritting your teeth and being a man."  Anal can be very painful if you're not properly dilated and lubed.  There's all sorts of anal plugs that can get you ready.  Several Tops I get together with are very experienced and not into causing the Bottom pain.  

 

It's your body and as a Bottom you're a participant in any session of sex you choose to be in.

Edited April 8, 2023 by downtownswallow

[Guest]

No one ever explained to me how to take a dick when I started out.  It would have been nice having you guys around when i was 23....if you were even born yet!

[NWUSHorny]

I have found that if I am really attracted to a guy my hole will open up and take it with minimal pain and effort. The 2nd guy to ever fuck me was huge, and taught me the joys of flip fucking on our 2nd hookup.

[PozWhore]

When not being fucked I use a medium sized dildo every couple of days. Also use your dildo after cleaning out and before a hook up or use a butt plug. Your fuck hole will be supple but not loose and you'll find that you can then take bigger cocks without too much difficulty as long as they're well lubed and take it very slowly at first. I've taken 20 plus cocks in a session, and some were big, and could still have taken more. With a bit of preparation you'll surprise yourself what you can take up your ass.

[tallslenderguy]

Over time, my hole has become more of a slash for fucking/receiving than an asshole for retaining and expelling. Getting to a place where i can take any Cock has been an opening process over the years. But that's just part of it.

The anus is made to dilate,  i think the problem most have is to much to fast. A lotta Tops know how to open Their bottom as part of the fuck, others are oblivious, and others still don't care. Most of us bottoms want to receive a Man, no matter which of those categories He may fall into. For me, a Man's need and desire to penetrate, fuck and seed me supersedes any skill level He may or may not have.  If He doesn't have the knowledge or inclination to open me, i open myself.

i had one FB in Virginia Who wasn't particularly long, but His girth was exceptional (to say the least).  He also had a passion/lust that pushed all sorts of my buttons and opened me wide psychologically, so He was gonna get me one way or another. After the first fuck, part of me demurred the next time He wanted to breed me. He liked to go right in without any preamble, and it was honestly painful till i could finally open from His fucking and presence inside of me. He had the kind of Cock and demeanor that can make me come hands free. i learned early on, as soon as He would contact me, to plug myself and begin the opening process. That fixed it for me. He still opened me, but He was not too much too soon after that because i was already partly opened to receive Him.  We had lots of babies together. 🙂

[backdoorjimmy]

6 hours ago, ShaneJF said:

I know a guy who's really cute and id like to have sex with him, but he has a really huge and hard dick. 

in porn the bigger the better, but in reality I find it difficult to take huge dicks sometimes, so I wonder if you have any advice on how to take big dicks ? or any preparation I can do to help me take that dick ?

How much time will you have with him? I ask because sometimes the best way to work yourself up to taking a monster cock is to take your time with it and enjoy it in other ways while your ass waits its turn. Make sure you use a good sized dildo and plug, and keep the plug in while you suck that big dick and appreciate everything about the guy you're so into.

When it's time to ride him, still take it slow. Have him lay on his back and straddle him, then put the head up to your asshole and gently grind your hips around so you both enjoy it. Let your ass open up naturally and accept as much of him as you can until the helmet pushes past your ring. Then grind your ass around some more until you have all of him inside you.

YMMV, but that's the best approach from my experience.

[11bi11guy]

Why not buy a bigger toy and practice solo? That’s what I did, and I have no problem taking big dicks. It might take some time to work up to a really big size, but it’s worth it. And a real penis will almost always be squishier than a dildo, even the dual-density silicone ones. If you can fit a dildo inside you, you should have no problem fitting a real cock that’s slightly bigger than that.

[totals]

Poppers and real excitement will help you relax

[Guest]

Bigger isn’t always better. I love a hung guy but I’ve had my share of hung tops that were awful . Trust me, there are lots of tops blessed with a big cock and don’t know how to use it. In a lot of cases they are too rough and lack rhythm and smoothness in their stroke.

my advice about taking big cock is 1) ask top to slow down to give you time to get comfortable and used to the feeling 2) as dumb as it sounds, a lot of deep breathing helps. I find taking some large breath in and out helps a lot. 3) learn to relax. The more relaxed you and your hole are, the less resistance you give the top. The goal here is to get your body to a state of no control and not resisting and you can get there by just taking your mind out of the fact that it’s a big cock. Your goal is to be as relaxed and resistant for top to fuck

[Njn0mc]

Dont like the big cocks. It can be painful but when its in deep wow it does feel good. But the journey to get there can be hard. If its very large i will instruct the top to not move and use a lot of lub. I will push me ass into his cock at my pace slowly. Most tops do like it. Then as its in keep slowly pushing you ass till your balls deep. 

[tighthole64]

The ass is an amazing muscle!  Hopefully he takes it slow letting your ass get use to it.  Once fully in, just stays still before pumping.  

You could also ride his cock to control how deep his cock goes in you.  

Of course plenty of lube and poppers help!

[BBButtSlut]

Get a thrusting dildo or fuck machine. I use those for anal exercise and keep my sphincter stretchy and strong. The more time you spend training your hole for sex the more you’ll be able to keep men satisfied and wanting more.