Question for anyone who bottoms

[EuRawBull]

Under what circumstances do any of you who bottom, irrespective if you label yourself a bottom, vers, top or variations of such, will refuse a big cock top? - other than the dick wrapped in celophane, obvious signs of STDs, or abusive behviour

[Loveitraw]

If I don't click with the Top and it has to be mutual, if one party isn't into it then its not going to be a good time.

I've met guys with big dicks who think that alone is a free pass, so I'll pass thanks. Then I have met guys with porn star dicks who lack confidence because to them its a hindrance, they tend to be patient and attentive and all the better for it.

I know there are bottoms who seem to live by the "no cocks refused" creed, but personally speaking I have to have some measure of liking for the Tops I hook up with, and so far it seems to work.

[Johnjohn]

Assuming that I have 'clicked' with a guy who is a top, I can think of no reason why I would refuse to let him breed me other than his insistence on wearing a condom, having a sexually transmittable disease or unreasonable behaviour. A bottom has to do what a bottom has to do.

[11bi11guy]

I’ve never turned down a dick that doesn’t meet the additional criteria you mentioned. Unfortunately there have been a couple abusive assholes—pro tip: don’t forcefully throatfuck anyone who you haven’t spoken about it with ahead of time—and a couple dudes with bumps/sores, or just had really bad hygiene. But I’ve never turned a guy down because his cock was too big. I seek out cocks that are too big so they can stretch and pound my cunt.

I did have a guy with a huge dick at the bathhouse recently that I had to give up on. Ran into him out in the club and started drooling when I saw what he was swinging. Don’t want to pat myself on the back too much, but I can give a great blowjob (the number of guys who give me 2 loads back to back has outnumbered the guys who can only give me one load, and it’s been like that for awhile now). Asked if he wanted to go back to my room, he declined but leaned back for me to suck his cock, and I proceeded to give him a great blowjob. For about 15 minutes. Guy seemed to be really enjoying it but I couldn’t get him to cum or agree to go back to my room to fuck me. Another guy started playing with me so I started them both back and forth. Big Dick got up and left.

After taking a few more loads around the club and in my room, I ran into him again. Same thing happened. After giving him another good blowjob out in public, really inhaling his cock, he again declined to come back to my room and again had me give him a long blowjob in the sauna. Not super comfortable on the knees. After another 15 mins, I had to get up and leave. Didn’t want to waste my last hour before going home without getting more cum.

Maybe he had already cum a couple times (he had no problem staying hard). Maybe he was a bottom (I didn’t get that impression when other guys came around). Maybe he wanted me to take the lead and hop on his cock out in public. If that was the case, I guess I’d say guys with big cocks should assume that a bottom who can take them might need to have access to his lube shooter 🤷🏼‍♂️

[LetsPOZBreed]

As mentioned by others above, the man attached to the big dick has a major impact on whether or not I allow him to impact me (so to speak).

As far as sexual specifics go, trying to go in me sans lube is a big no-no (to guys of any size, but especially the well hung ones).  If he approaches my hole wrong, I tense up and it just isn't going to happen.  

Big pluses go to the hung men that know how to use their contours, curvature, and length/girth to really work me over.  If he starts off gentle and really opens me up, then I'm perfectly fine letting him get a little more intense as things go along.  To me, size alone is no reason to refuse a guy, as I've taken one as big at 10" once.  It's all about how he approaches me that makes all the difference.

[ErosWired]

I have never once denied a Top the use of my cunt - to completion - because of his size. (I would for obvious signs of an STD, but I haven’t faced that, mainly because I usually never get a look at them at all). There have been three or four memorable occasions where I was very proud of myself for having been able to endure it, but I’ve never failed to take one.

In my cunt.

My mouth is another matter. My mouth isn’t that big, and my jaw doesn’t open very wide, and I can look at a cock of a certain size and think, All he’s going to feel is teeth. I know there isn’t going to be any room for tonguework, I know I’ll be gagging every two seconds, I know I won’t be able to stand having my airway blocked, and by far worst of all, I know I’ll give him bad head.

Nothing’s worse than bad head.

So I tell them straight up that I’m not saying no, but they won’t enjoy it, and will get much better service from a different bottom with better oral skills. And for those reasons I do turn down Tops interested only in oral. They deserve better than what I can give them.

[NLbear]

I will not have him if he seems to be agressive or abusive or under the influence of something (and I don't mean viagra....!)

If we have met before and he's the type that thinks having a big one is all it takes (and he doesn't know how to use His Majesty).

If we have met before and I know he fucks not even for 5 minutes, shoots his load and is done.

Otherwise: bring it on 😉

 

[tallslenderguy]

23 hours ago, Loveitraw said:

If I don't click with the Top and it has to be mutual, if one party isn't into it then its not going to be a good time.

I've met guys with big dicks who think that alone is a free pass, so I'll pass thanks. Then I have met guys with porn star dicks who lack confidence because to them its a hindrance, they tend to be patient and attentive and all the better for it.

I know there are bottoms who seem to live by the "no cocks refused" creed, but personally speaking I have to have some measure of liking for the Tops I hook up with, and so far it seems to work.

This is pretty much me too, verbatim.  For me (and i think for a lot of guys), it's not just a physical cock i am looking for but His desire to use His cock in me. His lust/desire/need triggers and fuels mine, and i've seen signs that the same is true for Him, that my lust/desire/need triggers and fuels His. 

[Jude]

I have never refused a top access to my cunt. It's there to be used and hopefully please the user.

[VersGuyAnon]

For me it would be encountering a huge cock (especially mega thick) having just arrived at the sauna (which is where I normally get fucked). In an ideal world, I like to start with smaller cocks, to open me up. After two or three fucks, that mega cock would then be very welcome. 

[phukhole]

I've been known to refuse a cock (irregardless of size), if he's been an ass to me or to someone else, or if he starts in with a "I'm god's gift, you should worship me" crap. I'll usually laugh out loud and walk away.  Other than that, I pretty much will let anyone fuck me.

[Bibttmmiami]

I think I’d only refuse if I thought his cock was so big that it would damage me. I have no desire to end up in an emergency room trying to explain why my ass is all torn up. 
 

if that was the case, I’d do my best to take care of him in other ways. If he was cool and didn’t mind going slow and helping me stretch my hole, I’d probably give it a try though. 

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

if I’m not able to clean out, or not clean otherwise, I’m NLR.

[versamarried]

I have only every truly met with 2 tops that had cocks of sizes that initially gave me pause. However I never turned them down, or even gave mention I was hesistant to take them. Instead I would do my darndest to accomodate them because I really really wanted those cocks to wreck my whole while they filled me with their superior large cock dna. 1 I was able to accomodate more easily than I expected and had amazing multiple meetups with where he used my hole over and over again. He practically rearranged my guts and had me pining for his thick long cock in me to the point I almost thought about ditching my marriage in the hopes it meant I could be more exclusive to him, not living together or anything like that but more his slut to use at his leisure. The other cock is more recent and he is much larger than the previous mentioned top. Unfortunately for me he is much older and the only thing keeping his cock out of my ass is ED. He does fine when I give oral but I think he really is afraid to hurt me so he goes soft in the attempts. But I have made it my mission to get that rod in me sooner than later.

[wbekk85]

size doesn't matter. what matters is how responsive he is to my needs, what will he allow me to do to him, and how well can he use that thing between his legs. if i like how good he makes my ass feel, it's his to fuck repeatedly. if he doesn't know how to fuck with that thing and causes pain or injury, or could care less about my needs, he's going home with blue balls.