Size of big dicks

[muscmtl]

I just checked bbrt and looked at NYC, Atlanta, Wilton Manors and LA

Blows my mind that less than 2% said they had a small dick. I knew that small-dick guys took themselves off the market because why bother, never gonna pass the "bid dick?" road bloc, but this is insane.

And not surprising, bid dick guys constitute the majority (58%). Love the fact that sizequeen BBRT owner separated the big category in 3, because big dicks are worthy or more info, but small and average dicks got only one category.

So, hope you all answer the poll. If a guy tells you he has a big dick, that means?

 

Steve Beeferman

[viking8x6]

Well, I guess I should have read the text of your explanatory post first, because I answered the wrong question, slightly.

The question I answered was, "What actual size dick do you is appropriate to label 'big'?"  I said 8 inches - mine is a little under that with a tape measure and nearly everyone I've met thinks it's legit big.

If a guy tells me he has a big dick, I actually expect it to be over about 6 inches. I wouldn't expect over 8 unless he tells me it's "huge".

Not that I had a ruler with me, but the largest ones I've ever actually seen in person I'd estimate have been around 9-10 inches.

[ellentonboy]

I think there is some kind of "growth" inflation when it comes to dick size.  When I first started having sex with other men, anything above 7 inches was considered big, nice, acceptable, appreciated.

I remember traveling and being in Brazil and came across 8, 9 inches and I thought, okay, now those are big.

I happened, later in life, to be in Europe.  My God, 8 was small, 9 was average, and 9 plus was not uncommon.  I was there two weeks.  My entire prospective on what constitutes  a "big dick" really changed.

Then you come to hook up sites like Barebackrt.com, and look in metro area like NYC or San Francisco, and 8.5 seems to be average, 9 is fairly common and 9.5 and larger is not uncommon.

So, do men with large dicks migrate to large, metro areas to find other men like themselves?  Has porn really changed our  expectations  in our potential sexual partners?  There is no rhyme or reason for this, they come in all color and nationalities.  I don't believe in stereotypes because every time I think one way about certain men, I am proven wrong.  I don't know I agree with guys "throwing in the towel" because they don't "measure up".  

Guys will always want to fuck, and I don't think guys with average endowments are going to sit on the couch watching Netflix, alone, the rest of their lives either.  I think there is a place for everyone, though for 99 percent of us it won't be the featured top in a Raw Fuck Club video.

 

[hntnhole]

Well said, ellentonboy !!  There's also this thing called 'Learned Skill', which some heavily-hung guys never had to learn.  The technique, experience, all of that counts for something too.  A modestly-proportioned Cock can put the BreedSweat on a bottom too, provided the Top knows what he's doing.  

[Daemon]

I am interested in the answers. I have a 6 inch dick. It is not impressive by any means but I always figured that because I’m not hung then I should bottom. I only tried topping twice so far but I’m curious if I would be a top if I had a larger dick

[RawNYTop]

I prefer guys with 5-6 inches and girthy, that's my favorite to suck, I can't deep throat anything longer.

I'm no bottom, so don't care about length, I prefer the average fat ones.

[blackrobe]

1 hour ago, hntnhole said:

Well said, ellentonboy !!  There's also this thing called 'Learned Skill', which some heavily-hung guys never had to learn.  The technique, experience, all of that counts for something too.  A modestly-proportioned Cock can put the BreedSweat on a bottom too, provided the Top knows what he's doing.  

It brings to mind a saying an old friend used to say to me... 

"Long and thin gets right in, but short and thick does the trick."

There are different average dick sizes in different countries. There are datasets that exist and can show what the average is for each. You can explore and get a more realistic sense of what is average at [think before following links] https://calcsd.info. 

[partying.hard]

1.  I don’t get it … why lie?  When you pull his pants off, you’re going to see the reality of it!

 

2.  I’ve said it thousands of times. The size of a dick makes no difference to me. I’ve had plenty of guys with the big dick who didn’t know what to do once they stuffed their cock up my ass. And there are plenty of guys with small meat, who have climbed on top and fucked me to the point that my eyes rolled back in my head. 

[Badguy56]

I totally agree Also think vers guys make the best tops as they know how it feels to get fucked. No matter size

[NLbear]

Not that it matters but mine is 7". Some called that big. I never thought of this size as being big. Maybe as just above average. Big for me starts with 8" and moves to Huge if it's 9" or more. I met a few guys who said they were 9" and I believed them. Never met someone with 10". 

[Cravetoxic22]

I think it depends on your own perspective. Huge guys will probably not think anything as big as them is huge, smaller guys will think anything bigger than them is, etc.
I think people lie because there's so much backlash against guys who aren't big that they just have enough rejection to try to pass off bigger than they have. Men being men will always exaggerate their assets (height, dick size) so until we can move past the superficiality we're stuck where we are.

[ErosWired]

3 hours ago, blackrobe said:

There are datasets that exist and can show what the average is for each. You can explore and get a more realistic sense of what is average at [think before following links] [think before following links] https://calcsd.info. 

Science, people. This thing has been studied very thoroughly, it being of such vital interest to men worldwide, and the data is quite, quite, quite clear - the average human penis is less than six inches long. Period. Bell curves being what they are, you would expect larger sizes to become drastically rarer the farther they get from the average, and statistics bear this out. There simply are not enough 8+ inch cocks on the planet to account for all the claims, or anything like it. Therefore it becomes glaringly obvious that men are willfully pretending that the obvious is not true.

How many men even actually know how to correctly measure a cock for length to compare to the accepted baseline? How many men even bother to use a measuring implement at all, and instead just spitball an estimate? (Before, mind you, deciding invariably to err on the high side.)

No, 8-inch cocks are not here, there snd everywhere. They’re just not. Not anywhere. Research studies place 8-inch cocks in the 99th percentile of length. That means that in the male population, only one (1) out of every hundred men will have a penis that long or longer. All the extra ones are either confused or lying.

Now, you might say, “But I see more 8” cocks than that around.” It’s entirely possible that the stigma around having a penis that isn’t a superlative size causes many or even most men to hide their cocks from view, and thus only those that can show themselves without fear are the ones on display - that might give rise to an illusion that large cocks are common, but the fact is that they are not. Porn certainly fosters that illusion, since the industry selects for large endowment. Its representation of this (and so much else) is far from realistic.

 I confess that I was inclined to reply to the poll that I consider 8” large rather than 7”, for two reasons: First, my own is right at 7” (and I do know how to measure it correctly) so to my own perception, ‘big’ would be ‘bigger than me’. But I also believe my view is affected by cunt-creep - having taken a number of legitimately massive cocks, I now have crossed an experiential threshold beyond which even a moderately large cock would fail to challenge me. I imagine that if I took huge cocks regularly, my assessment of what ranked as ‘big’ would edge still further upward, even though the human average would stay right where it is.

[ejaculaTe]

8 hours ago, ellentonboy said:

I think there is some kind of "growth" inflation when it comes to dick size.

No pun intended when writing that sentence, I'm sure.... 😉

[JamesL100]

Does anyone else think that an uncut dick looks bigger? So that it appears noticeably smaller when its foreskin is pulled back. Or an optical illusion with camera angle?

[ktopper]

I answered 8 inches. Then I dug out a tape measure and looked at how big 8" really is. I think 7" is a better answer. I have sucked some that no doubt were 8+.  I have never given enough of a damn to measure mine but I think it is certainly less than 7 but I still have guys tell me it's big. It's maybe a half inch more than what seems to be average, and I have played with enough dicks to kind of have an idea about that. GFs always act impressed by it but if I have learned nothing else about women I do know they can't always be trusted on such matters. I think gay guys might tend to be bigger than average. Straights tend to think of gay men as being effeminate, most are not and are, if anything, overly masculine. That's my theory anyway. One guy I remember from an ABS several years ago had an enormous cock, not only long but girthy as hell. I sucked him off one time and there was no way of deep throating that monster, half of his cum ended up on my face because when he nutted it just overwhelmed me. Another time there were several of us hanging out playing in a "movie room" in that ABS. I watched him fuck a guy, it was impressive, the guy had a hard time taking him but the big dick stud was gentle and took his time stretching the bottom out and they accomplished it. Two or three us us spectators then had a go at the bottom, I think I was the last and he was loose and very slick with all that cum squishing out around my cock. It was fun and one worth filing away in the memory banks.

As a top I don't pay too much attention to the size of a bottom but if they are noticeably large I like to fuck them facing me, either missionary or cowgirl, so I can enjoy the view.