Staying horny

[coloroftherainbow]

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

[Marlin]

1 hour ago, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

I think its just how we are wired. Some guys lose all interest after orgasm, others not. I for one lose interest unless I'm with someone I'm really into. As Ive gotten older I do not have near as many random hookups, but a few fuckbuds who I really connect with. After I cum I still enjoy continuing sex with them even if I'm no longer hard.  Chemistry has a lot do with it

[J-raw]

Ten years ago I would stay hard as a rock after cumming and could cum back to back then late 30s I started to need to make a breather between rounds but am still a multiple cummer. On hookups when I was a top it was always frustrating when the bottom wanted you to pull out after he came. Now that I'm a bottom, I've orgasmed twice during several encounters. Have noticed since I got 40 and also had Covid that my sperm count and thickness is nowhere what it used to be, but I can still orgasm multiple times. Others may can offer some perspective. When I was 30 and new to guys I could cum multiple times even if I wasn't really into the guy that much but now a connection  definitely helps, because, otherwise, I just feel like I'm going through the motions. 

[RubberAustria]

2 hours ago, coloroftherainbow said:

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

If you have any fetish I would suggest to change outfit or add something. This might get you in the mood again. I am a multiple cummer. A soon as I add gloves to my rubber outfit I am ready for an ultimate shot on/in a whore.

[Guest]

I Ran into this problem earlier today. I was fucking this really cute bottom and he came mid way through. He layed in my cell floor for a few seconds and ask for a towel. He was spent! He asked if I wanted a blow job.? I said No.  I want to cum in you! So we got up on my bunk and cuddled and talked for a few mins.  After talking about how much I could cum . He was hard again and was begging for my load.  So long story short.  Just take a little break and most of the time your ready to go for round 2.  Now as for me as a top.  My Testosterone level and pumping iron over the years has turned me into a cumming machine!  

[blackrobe]

3 minutes ago, HossGa said:

I Ran into this problem earlier today. I was fucking this really cute bottom and he came mid way through. He layed in my cell floor for a few seconds and ask for a towel. He was spent! He asked if I wanted a blow job.? I said No.  I want to cum in you! So we got up on my bunk and cuddled and talked for a few mins.  After talking about how much I could cum . He was hard again and was begging for my load.  So long story short.  Just take a little break and most of the time your ready to go for round 2.  Now as for me as a top.  My Testosterone level and pumping iron over the years has turned me into a cumming machine!  

That was a great way to handle it with this guy.

Still, it's hard for me to imagine being done when my top is still horny and has more cum heavy in his balls.

[ThisBoyBottoms]

As a bottom myself who can keep going after he's cum, I'm going to agree with some of the others here that it's all down to how you're hardwired. I've had multiple tops tell me that quite a few bottoms cum and then are done, and that's fine. I'm not sure if you can change that, but it'd be interesting to hear about if you can. Good luck!

[xxbjn2]

5 hours ago, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

years ago I met a top in a park in Berlin, he jerked me until I blew, then proceeded to fuck me. As a bottom, I did what I had to and learned then that the job isn't finished until the top says it is.  The knowledge that I was being used for his pleasure, not mine was new to me then, but fuck did I jerk off many times over that one experience. It taught me my place in the world and I'll be forever greatfull.

[408curious]

10 hours ago, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

Don't cum then!

Chastity maybe.

Or get involved from the guys in the backroom on this site.

[Alpenasub]

Yeah don't cum,  I rarely do and I stay horny all the time.  Enhancements help.  

[BadBob214]

Once I cum I'm horny again within twenty minutes to half an hour depending on where I am. If I'm at a sauna and there's more cock readily on offer it can be that quick. I'm 63 and my libido is almost the same as when I was twenty. All guys are different. One guy I meet fairly regularly says he only gets horny every two or three days and he's only in his forties.

[hntnhole]

One possible mental aspect is to reduce your focus on your own load, and try to expand your focus to other men's Cocks.  Try to fool yourself into already being a cumdump, telling yourself that your load doesn't matter as much as the other guy's loads do.  

If you can postpone shooting your own load long enough to take a few off other Cocks, it might help you overcome the focus on your own load - which could only help achieve your goal.  Focus your attention on the Cock that's fucking you, and avoid thinking about shooting your own load.

There's one bottom in the darkroom at Slammer that always says "ahhhh - you're here again tonight" or something like that.  I've never seen his face, nor he mine, since he's always in the same place, on all 4's.  He only recognizes my Cock when I shove it to his Hole.  He's never said anything when I eat his Hole first, which I always do - it's only when I start to rut that he recognizes me. 

Thus, in his mind he's reduced me to only my Cock ... which is fine by me.  Nothing else matters in joints like that except Cocks and Holes. 

[LeatherNeckPig]

On 3/16/2024 at 2:33 PM, coloroftherainbow said:

So I have this problem. I want to be a massive cumdump, but as soon as I cum, I'm done and the game is over for me. Sometimes I just can't help myself. How do I prolong the experience. I don't mind cumming, I mean, who does, but I want to stay horny so I can keep sucking and being fucked.

Any advice from the more experienced guys?

Just an Observation: "Breeding Zone" is an excellent 'tool' so use it!, on a slack day edging to BZ and BB Porn is a way I use to stretch. Hydrate and pace are useful methods for a variety of endeavors.

 

[NWUSHorny]

I find being at an active fuck club or orgy, that I can stay horny for several hours on end.

I'm versatile, and love few things more than breeding a guy then immediately flipping over and letting him breed me in any setting. In an active setting with other men fucking all around me, I can easily fuck cum, get fucked, fuck and cum again 3 or 4 times and then continue to be horny enough to keep bottoming for several hours after I'm completely spent as a top. That's why I love active group play spaces in bathhouses and orgies where the fucking is almost continuous for hours. I make a point of traveling to areas where I can find those places a couple of times a year.

[bbpigbtm]

Hope this helps, but alot of sex is mental. How you think 🤔 of sex, and letting go. I think men loose interest in sex after they cum, because we felt( or was told ) jo& sex bad dirty, wrong, ect. I think  men can have many hats in life, a our sex life can be different to whst we show the world. I have great husband who a life partner, but i can be a btm cumdump for a alpha . I know when i need to be just a fuck hole.