Who Breeds Guys Who Can't Get Hard?

[Guest]

Hi Guys,

Just curious how many tops will breed guys who can't get hard for what ever reason?

Most tops like to see their bottom get hard...I think.

As a guy who had cancer 8 years ago I can't get hard and when top guys hear that, they drop me like a hot potato.

So wanted to get others thoughts.

Thanks!

[drscorpio]

I'm not sure where you got the notion that tops want you hard. There are a number of tops who post on this forum who never want to see their bottom hard. 

I seldom stay hard while being fucked. I never get complaints about it. I would suggest not making a big reveal out of sharing your issue. If he asks why you aren't getting hard, you should tell him. But he might not even notice. 

[pupHawaii]

i don't remember ever getting hard while getting fucked - my dick does leak a lot though .. i figure all the blood goes to my ass and that's one of the reasons it feels so fucking good!   never had a top question why i wasn't hard .. 

[Guest]

Its not a big deal for me. As long as the bottom is great full for the load I'm about to give him!

[Bimarried001]

I don’t get hard when I’m getting fucked and I’ve never heard anyone complain. When I did top years ago I did prefer to see my bottom hard but that’s because I love cock. That’s why I’m now a full time bottom. 

[Guest]

Often when I’m fucking it’s dark and he’s bent over so I don’t look or care if he’s hard. 
when I’m getting pounded it’s usually bent over in a jock and never stay hard after the first couple of minutes. Especially when the brown glass bottle comes to play 

[Heir2012]

I usually get hard when I'm fucked, but I've had guys who don't want me, as the bottom, to be hard. It's a domination thing. Others like it and grab my cock, jerking me off as they fuck my ass. 

When I top, I like to grab the guy's cock and jerk him off, but if he can't get hard, no problem. Sometimes they still cum from hitting their prostates. 

Since I usually go after mature men, it isn't uncommon for many of them to struggle either getting or maintaining an erection. If they can't, I try to make their holes feel incredible instead. 

If a guy rejects you because you can't get hard, especially since it's due to something outside your control, then he's a piece of shit. He doesn't deserve your ass or mouth. 

[BareBackBubbleButt]

I was trained in by a total top who refused to let me get hard when he fucked me. He would remind me that there was only one cock in our bed: his. Most dominant tops don’t want the bottom to get hard. It’s one more way to show how much more manly the top is to the bottom. Us bottoms are meant to have small soft cocks. 

[ktopper]

It isn't a big issue for me. I like when a bottom does get hard because I think it's sexy but if he doesn't I'm gonna fuck him anyway.

[Phallarchist]

His genitalia don't matter. I can't fuck them. That's the only reason I'm commandeering his ass.

In stark contrast, my penis occupies all of our attention. It's amazing, so it's understandable when he can't help having a female orgasm.  Sometimes when that happens, his cunt grip changes in a way that I enjoy. Mostly, I just chuckle and continue the sexual act as if nothing happened, because nothing of any importance did.

[Guest]

I've gotten hard a few times from being fucked, but I'd say mostly my cock stays soft while servicing a top unless he starts stroking and sucking on my cock. Then it gets hard. My cock is not the principal point. It's servicing the top's cock with my mouth, hands, and hole. I'll play with my cock later when I can play with the load(s) in my cuntpussy. And the more cum I take in my pussy, the harder I become when my cock is serviced.

[BBDreamer]

5 hours ago, Heir2012 said:

I usually get hard when I'm fucked, but I've had guys who don't want me, as the bottom, to be hard. It's a domination thing. Others like it and grab my cock, jerking me off as they fuck my ass. 

When I top, I like to grab the guy's cock and jerk him off, but if he can't get hard, no problem. Sometimes they still cum from hitting their prostates. 

Since I usually go after mature men, it isn't uncommon for many of them to struggle either getting or maintaining an erection. If they can't, I try to make their holes feel incredible instead. 

If a guy rejects you because you can't get hard, especially since it's due to something outside your control, then he's a piece of shit. He doesn't deserve your ass or mouth. 

I would be hard for sure if you were fucking me. 

[VersGuyAnon]

When I'm being fucked I nearly always soft. Not just that, but my cock often shrinks to almost nothing, depending on certain circumstances.

I've virtually never had a top reach for my cock, but I don't recall being soft being an issue.    

[tj87]

Hit and miss whether I get hard or not; depending on the head space and how horny I am. I can get performance anxiety and concentrating on taking a big cock can make me lose it - or I just wanna get loaded up, but not really in the mood to cum. I've found most guys are happy to breed me whether I'm hard or not, but I agree with the OP: the tops I vibe with most do tend to prefer it when I get hard. They like he visible feedback and enjoy that they're pleasuring me, rather than solely using me to pleasure themselves...

Sometimes I pop a Cialis first to make sure I'm at maximum throb.

[mdol1980]

I don't get hard when I'm being fucked, even if it gets to the point of making me spurt, only from jerking myself solo. I've had the occasional guy be dissatisfied that he couldn't masturbate me with any visible result (and one memorable occasional when a guy watching my cam got upset that I was 'wasting his time' if I wasn't going to get hard and cum for him, even though I was just showing my body around and never said I'd do anything more, so that left me in a great mood...) but even ignoring the local dark room and glory holes where it's not even a factor, I've had far more tops either not care at all, or at least not consider it any kind of deal breaker.