austin_submale Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 (edited) 21 hours ago, Guy4GuyCoSpgs said: Hi Guys, Just curious how many tops will breed guys who can't get hard for what ever reason? Most tops like to see their bottom get hard...I think. As a guy who had cancer 8 years ago I can't get hard and when top guys hear that, they drop me like a hot potato. So wanted to get others thoughts. Thanks! Honestly, I rarely get fully hard or stay fully hard except when stroking myself. I've never really had an issue with tops seeming disappointed in that or for that matter really that interested. Some actually seem to prefer a bottom to just have a tiny little nub like I do. Edited March 21 by austin_submale typo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueSaphir Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 (edited) As a bottom, if I am hard-it means I am totally into the top. He’s also giving me maximum pleasure with his size of cock, the way he fucks. Most of the time I don’t get hard. It doesn’t bother most tops. Only few I met like I stayed hard and some have question why I don’t get hard. Edited March 21 by BlueSaphir Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phukhole Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Some guys don't mind, but others do. Some think it means I'm not enjoying myself, which isn't the case. I reassure them that I'm solely focused on my ass and how he's making it feel, but sometimes it's not enough. For THOSE tops (if we've played before and I know beforehand), sometimes I'll do some trimix and then I stay hard for him. It's about managing expectations and making the top feel like the king of the world. If he's happy, he'll fuck me good and give me a huge load. Some guys actually get off on me NOT being hard. Usually those guys like a little humiliation too (which isn't always my thing), so its a double-edged sword. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 17 hours ago, Phallarchist said: His genitalia don't matter. I can't fuck them Bluntly said, but 100% true. I don't care if the bottom his hard. Often they are, often they aren't ... what's important to me is how the Hole tastes, how it opens up, how it feels on my Cock, all of that. It's not that I ignore the bottom - I don't. But I can't say I care whether he's hard or not. Some of them take those "boner-pills", and if that's what they like, fine with me. It doesn't affect what I am interested in. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy4GuyCoSpgs Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Thank you all for your replies. When I talk to guys on grindr, scruff, etc, they are the ones who won't go any further. Perhaps it's just those sites. Again, thank you all for your replies! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Labtmguy Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 I am all bottom and all though I have had tops rub my balls I have never heard one complaint that I wasn’t hard. As a full bottom, I have no thoughts of using my dick so hard or not it doesn’t much matter to me. Yes it does get hard if I want it to, but what type of sub-bottom would I be with a hard dick! lol. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
408curious Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 On 3/20/2024 at 7:23 PM, Phallarchist said: His genitalia don't matter. I can't fuck them. That's the only reason I'm commandeering his ass. In stark contrast, my penis occupies all of our attention. It's amazing, so it's understandable when he can't help having a female orgasm. Sometimes when that happens, his cunt grip changes in a way that I enjoy. Mostly, I just chuckle and continue the sexual act as if nothing happened, because nothing of any importance did. Excellent comment as usual, Sir. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guy4GuyCoSpgs Posted March 22 Author Report Share Posted March 22 Knock me up sir! Own me and pimp me out for your pleasure! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VistaCaBB Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 I tend to go soft or get off very quickly when I bottom. So far Tops don't seem to really care. Some of them want nothing to do with my dick and wouldn't even know what happened and that is fine by me too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SFCumdog Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 I could care less about their dick and whether it stays hard, so long as their ass works and gets me off. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nullo-sub-N8 Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 I never get hard when being fucked now but that's obvious reasons. When I did have my cock and do T I would always get tina dick and it would never get hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davidc Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 Doesn’t make any difference to me , as a top I just want to cum. most guys seem to wear a jock and as I fuck doggy style they can’t wank anyway 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TightBott7 Posted March 23 Report Share Posted March 23 Tops have taught me to stay soft while serving them, that I should concentrate on giving them pleasure with my holes so that my dick is totally irrelevant preferably hidden under a jockstrap. And while it took some discipline and training I’ve learned to will my dick soft to please the top. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FallenLad Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 I'm nearly always limp when being fucked. And if a top can't pick up that I'm enjoying myself from my body and the dirty talk then they're just not paying attention. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VersGuyAnon Posted March 25 Report Share Posted March 25 3 hours ago, FallenLad said: I'm nearly always limp when being fucked. And if a top can't pick up that I'm enjoying myself from my body and the dirty talk then they're just not paying attention. Exactly 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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