Do you feel masculine when you bottom?

[verbalBTTM]

Why should I feel any different, it takes a man to satisfy the cocks I seak

[StlBottom]

On 11/14/2024 at 2:19 AM, ChicagoObject said:

i prefer to feel like an object there to be used to get the loads out of cocks especially when the top understand and gets into being selfish fucking for only his enjoyment.

Same with me, just an object for the Top's pleasure, the more they make me feel like an object the better

[hntnhole]

I suppose that the definition of "masculinity" is somewhat fluid.  Some would define it as "butch", "domineering", etc, but masculinity can also be defined in terms of "submissive", "needing to please", etc.   

It may be entirely "butch" to fuck another guy, but it can also be entirely "masculine" to bend over for a hard, raw Cock.  I think we sometimes fall prey to the relevant, "straight" cultural pressures, instead of defining ourselves sans any input from those unlike us.  I've fucked all kinds of guy, and, truth-be-told, I prefer breeding masculine guys, or at least not feminine-acting guys.  

There's nothing wrong, and everything right about masculine men needing hard raw cock up their fuckholes too.  

[NWUSHorny]

I feel just as masculine when I bottom as when I top. I'm still make and being driven by testosterone. I'm not at all submissive, and really don't care for that kind of act as a top either. Let's all just fuck, breed and be merry!

[Pozzible]

2 hours ago, hntnhole said:

suppose that the definition of "masculinity" is somewhat fluid.  Some would define it as "butch", "domineering", etc, but masculinity can also be defined in terms of "submissive", "needing to please", etc. 

If being masculine means being butch or domineering, then I never feel masculine.

[PupBoiRapeSlut]

I’m too pale smooth and pink to ever be masculine as top or bttm

[Sfmike64]

12 hours ago, Falls727 said:

I always feel masculine when I bottom. That doesn’t mean I don’t become submissive when a man has his cock deep in my bowels. I think we always associate submission with femininity. This does not have to be the case at all. I can submit to my husband and his desires but still maintain my masculinity. I’m not a woman, I don’t identify as a woman. I’m a gay man who likes to lose control to my man and fulfill his deepest desires. This often means that I let him take charge and have me bend to his will. The whole thing is incredibly erotic and when we switch positions, e.g, when I’m on top (which is most of the time) I assert my dominance and he submits to me.

This is why I love the idea of "himbos." Big muscle dudes who are total submissive cumdumps. Normally I'm not that into big muscles, but seeing some big muscle jock with a big dick (in a cage of course) dripping loads is HOT HOT HOT. And he's totally masculine but a complete subby cumdump. Such a great, hot mind fuck.

I also love porn with younger/twink/smaller guys fucking bigger/older/jock dudes.

[wyobtmbnk]

Yes. I love men, love cock, love cum. Rough hard poundings are my favorite and yes when my hole is getting a hard rough pounding I feel absolutely masculine. 

[Leatherman667]

7 hours ago, NWUSHorny said:

I feel just as masculine when I bottom as when I top. I'm still make and being driven by testosterone. I'm not at all submissive, and really don't care for that kind of act as a top either. Let's all just fuck, breed and be merry!

Very well said! My feelings exactly.

[Warmnsalty]

11 hours ago, StlBottom said:

Same with me, just an object for the Top's pleasure, the more they make me feel like an object the better

Ad me to this list. Never given it any thought about masculinity. I'm very alpha in my daily life. When I'm with a guy whether I'm sucking him or getting fucked I'm still that guy who's type A in business I just choose to turn it off and be used. LOVE feeling like a slut just there for another guy or groups pleasure. I'll have loads dripping off my face, look in the mirror, love the view, never once thought, "you're not a man" LOL  Everyone is wired differently, I'm wired as a man who loves cock and cum. 

[MattQueen1]

No. However, I don't want to feel masculine. I want the top fucking me to feel that

[Room4ustwo]

I haven't read every entry in this thread, but I have little or no interest in dressing up like a woman when im going to get fucked.  I want to be a masculine male, but submissive in that I want him to use me as an object to give him pleasure resulting in an orgasm for him.  And I hope he will use my hole for that purpose.   I do not want to dress up for him however.  If he needs that for him to have the pleasure he wants, im not the person for him.  

[ChiGymGuy]

I do feel masculine when I bottom and have been told by guys who have fucked me that they were surprised I bottom because I didn't fit the feminine stereotypes (often seen in porn). I love watching a masculine, muscle bottom give his ass up and take a good breading.

Recently, I have also been turned on by the thought of a younger twink fucking and using my muscle hole for his pleasure in public 

[hungry_hole]

I started getting fucked and taking loads in my early 20's, and it was very easy for me to get loads not only because I was young and in good shape, but because I was also very masculine.  In those days bottoming was seen as something for the effeminate guys, while the masculine guys were supposed to be the tops. 

I would usually walk around the place, sauna or YMCA, and guys would notice me, and follow me into my room. In those days top and bottom wasn't a thing, maybe active/passive, so once inside my room I would get them horny by letting them touch my muscles and my masculine demeanour. 

I used to feel very masculine while presenting myself as a bottom, and felt proud about it because it helped me get loads. There's something very sexy about a young masculine bottom.