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Feet! I don't like anything to do with feet. I know this is a specific one but I just don't like it. I don't like mine touched to the point I try to wear socks as part of my gear at all times. I don't like touching another guys feet, can't explain it, I just don't.

Was at a meet recently and one guy kept on about my feet and how he wanted to play with them etc. I politely declined but he wouldn't stop to the point I made my excuses and left.

A limit is a limit.

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I am probably one of the few men, gay or straight, who is ambivalent about being sucked... 🤷‍♂️ If I'm turned on by a man, I'm hard almost immediately! Conversely, if a man has to suck me to get me hard, I'm not all that into him...

AND kissing will get me harder faster than sucking will... 🤷‍♂️ I don't mind being sucked, but I will pass on a guy who is into oral only as that's not my preferred place to shoot my loads...

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i'm pretty adamant about vetting a Guy before getting together, i guess i've developed a feel for whether or not we're a match? idk, but i rarely ever encounter it not working once we get together... but it does happen when a guy is simply dishonest, which i think is so strange? 

i don't like any sex act that is not mutually desired. Not into just doing a thing because the other guy wants it, or just because i want it. Mutual want/lust/need is always an important part of the act for me.

While i will suck and enjoy it if the Guy i'm sucking is really enjoying it and giving me feedback, guys who want an all day sucker while they read a book or play on their phone are a complete turn off. And ideally, sucking is foreplay for fucking and breeding. Swallowing can be great, but it's never as great as fucking and breeding.

And side?  Never been with anyone identifying as "side."  i hesitate and do extra vetting with versatile guys to make sure they are okay with me being total bottom. Pretty blunt that i am not versatile and only wanna hook if they are in a Top mood, or whatever head space versatile guys go when they wanna fuck. i come right out and have the discussion ahead of time that i don't wanna top, or really, get sucked....

to me, getting sucked is a form of topping.   i do have a work around psychologically though. If a Top likes to suck me  only to get me horny, but never to make me cum, that can really work for me because He is not seeing me as having a "cock" like a Top has. Sure, i have a penis, but it's wired more like a clit, not a cock. It can feel good, but it's not wired to penetrate or fuck with.

Not into strong odors, any kind of pain,, force or bullying, and tit play is meh if it's more than a passing suck or lick. 

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I hate getting fingered.  Everyone has hangnails, and it feels like an exam, not a sex act.  One errant hangnail and boom, you have a fissure and cant bottom for weeks.

Riding/getting ridden. Not pleasurable as a top, and I can't relax as a bottom to get it in me.

People who don't communicate well.  If you don't like something tell me.  Equally, if you are hurting me, I am going to ask you to stop.  It's not personal.  I can't feel what you're feeling and you can't feel what I'm feeling.  Sex, even in anon encounters requires ongoing consent.  I get really turned on by people who communicate well in the bedroom.  

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1 hour ago, Sharpshooter13 said:

I hate getting fingered.  Everyone has hangnails, and it feels like an exam, not a sex act.  One errant hangnail and boom, you have a fissure and cant bottom for weeks.

Riding/getting ridden. Not pleasurable as a top, and I can't relax as a bottom to get it in me.

People who don't communicate well.  If you don't like something tell me.  Equally, if you are hurting me, I am going to ask you to stop.  It's not personal.  I can't feel what you're feeling and you can't feel what I'm feeling.  Sex, even in anon encounters requires ongoing consent.  I get really turned on by people who communicate well in the bedroom.  

Agere 100% with all you said there! Fingering is a pet peeve of mine too I really hate it, especially when guys are fingering my cummy hole and wasting the cum on their dirty fingernails 😂🤬

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For me, anything involving pain is out. Agree about fingering. Maybe a little but, hey, let's get on with it! Hate seeing a submissive and sluts treated poorly. I admire sluts and subs deserve to have fun, too. Don't mind being sucked but never gotten off from it - never had anyone really try actually - but I am certainly happy to suck a guy into a shaking mess! Love fucking, either doing it or receiving, preferably both. Dislike it when a guy agrees to swap but then refuses or runs after topping or being sucked off.

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Spit. I find it gross and lose all interest in continuing when someone tries to spit a lugie (sp?) in my face and especially tried to drop it in my mouth. If you’re into it, fine. Just don’t assume everyone else gets into it. 

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First, dildos are for practice when no man is around, so I don't see them as much of a sex act. Any form of eating ass is a no go for me. I know a lot of people are into it and I can see as a receiver that it would be pretty pleasurable but I can't get over my tongue to someone's anus. Nope.

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  • Getting my ass eaten 
  • Getting my dick sucked

Both do next to nothing for me. One of my regulars LOVES to eat ass. I let him get in there and chow down because it turns him on but the whole time I'm laying there like 😪 I moan and growl and act like it does it for me just to ramp him up. Sex theatre, as I call it.

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6 hours ago, Iker80 said:

I can't stand toys or fingers inside me. They always hurt. Real dick only.

Yeaaaah this is the WORST especially when you’ve been fucked by 20 guys and the next one seems to think that you really want some dirty fingers to hurt your tender hole and dry the cum up. FUCK no! 😆

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