Meaning of wearing just a jock or assless underwear at fuck club/bathhouse/orgy

[jd13]

13 minutes ago, fuzzybttm said:

They're there to get used, get fucked, and they're not there to have their cock be the front-and-center star of the interaction... wearing it because they want to keep their cock put away and not be the focus?

Exactly this - I edited it a bit 🤣

One of the things I cannot stand in a public fuck setting - especially if I am wearing a jock - when I'm being fucked by some guy, and a third guy brings his hand around to grab my cock. I will literally grab his hand and throw it away. Like FFS don't disturb my flow - I am putting all my focus on serving the top here!

If the top who's fucking me grabs my cock that's fine: my whole body belongs to him to play with, but other guys? Don't fuck up my fuck focus! 🤣

[fuzzybttm]

3 hours ago, jd13 said:

If the top who's fucking me grabs my cock that's fine: my whole body belongs to him to play with, but other guys? Don't fuck up my fuck focus! 🤣

Honestly, for me, even then I kind of discourage it because I'm a chastity bottom, and I'm actively trying to not have my cock used, I want my arousal to come fully from my holes.

But generally speaking, point well taken

[Webster9]

"Looking to get fucked."  If they can't figure out from seeing me wearing a jock strap and bare ass leather chaps, totally exposing my ass, then I take it that they're looking for something else.

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

4 hours ago, fuzzybttm said:

Honestly, for me, even then I kind of discourage it because I'm a chastity bottom, and I'm actively trying to not have my cock used, I want my arousal to come fully from my holes.

But generally speaking, point well taken

Same here. I’m always caged now. As for this topic, I’ve changed more to thongs than jockstraps. But I’m a hopeless submissive bottom so either works for me. I am at a place to get loads. 

[Bokkierob]

Yeah, wearing a jock is definitely an open invitation to get fucked and it always works. Last week I was at the Vault. I went into one of the playrooms wearing my regulation white jockstrap - I hate those “fashion” wannabe jockstraps. I proudly bared my arse and was being groped and fingered and it only took minutes before I felt a hand on my back bending me over a barrel and a hard cock on my hole. Seconds later the first man was balls deep inside me. I got what I wanted

[swoll]

If I'm wearing it jock it's because I want cock in my hole. It doesn't mean I'll necessarily only bottom but I'll present as only bottom then fuck guys if I really like their arse

[cumfillme]

If I'm in a bathhouse wearing a jockstrap, I don;t want you playing with my cock, I want you you to fuck me and breed me!

[GuelphGuy72]

55 minutes ago, cumfillme said:

If I'm in a bathhouse wearing a jockstrap, I don;t want you playing with my cock, I want you you to fuck me and breed me!

Exactly!

[wonderfulwoof]

for street fairs  just chastity cage n black boots

bathouse chap less shorts

 

[BiBottomCockSucker]

Me wearing a jock or assless undies at a bathhouse means my ass is available to get fucked and loaded with cum. That invitation usually works!

[Tempusfuget]

Generally speaking, wearing a jock at a bath is a good indicator you want to get fucked. With that said, I am probably among the few that actually uses the small gym a Clubs provided bc I enjoy being watched when i workout. I am more of a Dom Top but wear a jock out of necessity when working out and enjoy feeling everyone watching me sweat. 

[BBKev]

When I wear a jockstrap to a sex club, it means my main goal is to get fucked and feel a guy's cum shoot deep in my ass. I'm cool with guys groping my bulge while they fuck me, but there's something so hot and dirty about wearing something that gives easy access to my hungry raw ass

 

[leatherpunk16]

I often wear my jocks at the gym, mostly because they don't ride up on me during legs day. And it's entertaining to make the old straight men uncomfortable by walking around the locker room in just the jock. LOL

But at a bathhouse, it's also about comfort. Going naked feels like I'm trying too hard. The towel isn't my thing, and frequently comes undone. So what are my options? Jockstrap. Shows the goods - a bulging pouch, and an available hole for those rare times a man actually has something to put in there. Can't say I'm successful with this method. For an attractive guy who has been in porno flicks, guys aren't interested in sex with me except for the kind that no one else wants to fuck, either. 

And I always end up breeding someone to get something out of the visit. I don't enjoy paying $40 just to do laps around the place for three hours when I could be at home, sleeping. 

My attire, or lack of, doesn't get me laid.

[CumPigDadSeattle]

I wear a jock to a sex club, bath house, or to a sex party to let guys know I want to get fucked. I want guys to pay attention to my ass, not my dick.

[NWUSHorny]

4 hours ago, leatherpunk16 said:

I don't enjoy paying $40 just to do laps around the place for three hours when I could be at home, sleeping. 

My attire, or lack of, doesn't get me laid.

That was why I asked the question last spring. Portland has guys that bring a bag full of underwear, some of them assless and jockstraps to the bathhouse, and put a pair on do a circuit around the bathhouse, change and do it all over again for 3 or 4 hours. I have asked several of them, that I know are committed sides if they knew it was an indictor that they wanted to get fucked in most of the gay world. One of them claims to have never known about it. I can actually understand why someone would not have known if their bathhouse experience was limited to Portland. My somewhat more limited experience is that Seattle and Vancouver are places where they may not have realized the association as well.