TOPS - why another man’s load as lube?

[Guest Sub Asian boy LDN]

Being a total sub Asian twink bottom - I am so so curious about bareback tops. I started barebacking this year 
 

Recently I would say - more and more tops want me to be pre-loaded. To the point where they would not want to meet up with me but when I tell them I’ve been bred (usually within 30min - 1hr) they come over within 10 mins 

Mentally: what exactly is going through your head before and during sex with your bottom when he’s loaded with cum? Does it make it miles better? Why do you change your mind 

 

Physically - how does it actually feel on your cock compared to lube-spit?

[backtails]

It's not about the way cum feels as lube. It's close to spit except it lasts longer (spit dries up), very close to precum, but it's more slippery than oil based lubes that give you a kind of friction that you can pound through. I like that feel better. It does sound hot. Wetter and sloppier.

It's about a couple of things. First, you're fucking a slut. You know he just took another man's load and he probably doesn't care too much about who fucks him. That removes the pressure to perform or satisfy and centers the experience on you and your dick. He's going to give you what you want. Let you do what you want, and like it. Screening for pre-loaded bottoms also means they're experienced and actively horny -- there are a lot of inhibited guys out there who rarely actually get fucked and those are likely to flake on you or not know how to take dick.

Second, you're connecting with the other tops. Competing, in a primal way that activates when you feel another man's cum on your dick. You have to fuck harder and deeper and better if you want your sperm to win. It doesn't feel like pressure, it feels like motivation, and it's the kind of motivation you get rewarded for. Your balls automatically step up, you step up, the ass feels better, and when you cum, you cum hard.