Guest Sub Asian boy LDN Posted August 7 Report Posted August 7 Being a total sub Asian twink bottom - I am so so curious about bareback tops. I started barebacking this year Recently I would say - more and more tops want me to be pre-loaded. To the point where they would not want to meet up with me but when I tell them I’ve been bred (usually within 30min - 1hr) they come over within 10 mins Mentally: what exactly is going through your head before and during sex with your bottom when he’s loaded with cum? Does it make it miles better? Why do you change your mind Physically - how does it actually feel on your cock compared to lube-spit? Quote
backtails Posted August 7 Report Posted August 7 It's not about the way cum feels as lube. It's close to spit except it lasts longer (spit dries up), very close to precum, but it's more slippery than oil based lubes that give you a kind of friction that you can pound through. I like that feel better. It does sound hot. Wetter and sloppier. It's about a couple of things. First, you're fucking a slut. You know he just took another man's load and he probably doesn't care too much about who fucks him. That removes the pressure to perform or satisfy and centers the experience on you and your dick. He's going to give you what you want. Let you do what you want, and like it. Screening for pre-loaded bottoms also means they're experienced and actively horny -- there are a lot of inhibited guys out there who rarely actually get fucked and those are likely to flake on you or not know how to take dick. Second, you're connecting with the other tops. Competing, in a primal way that activates when you feel another man's cum on your dick. You have to fuck harder and deeper and better if you want your sperm to win. It doesn't feel like pressure, it feels like motivation, and it's the kind of motivation you get rewarded for. Your balls automatically step up, you step up, the ass feels better, and when you cum, you cum hard. 3 1 3 Quote
anonCUMtainer Posted 1 hour ago Report Posted 1 hour ago On 8/7/2025 at 4:38 PM, backtails said: It's not about the way cum feels as lube. It's close to spit except it lasts longer (spit dries up), very close to precum, but it's more slippery than oil based lubes that give you a kind of friction that you can pound through. I like that feel better. It does sound hot. Wetter and sloppier. It's about a couple of things. First, you're fucking a slut. You know he just took another man's load and he probably doesn't care too much about who fucks him. That removes the pressure to perform or satisfy and centers the experience on you and your dick. He's going to give you what you want. Let you do what you want, and like it. Screening for pre-loaded bottoms also means they're experienced and actively horny -- there are a lot of inhibited guys out there who rarely actually get fucked and those are likely to flake on you or not know how to take dick. Second, you're connecting with the other tops. Competing, in a primal way that activates when you feel another man's cum on your dick. You have to fuck harder and deeper and better if you want your sperm to win. It doesn't feel like pressure, it feels like motivation, and it's the kind of motivation you get rewarded for. Your balls automatically step up, you step up, the ass feels better, and when you cum, you cum hard. Really well said!! All of it. Perhaps summarized by the modern expression - If you know, you know... And I agree a lot of guys are inhibited - and in their heads - and don't know what they're missing as a result. If more guys knew, they would probably also insist. However, I am wondering then... what percentage of men LOVE "SLUTS" like @backtails described?? Quote
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