TOPS - why another man’s load as lube?

[Guest Sub Asian boy LDN]

Being a total sub Asian twink bottom - I am so so curious about bareback tops. I started barebacking this year 
 

Recently I would say - more and more tops want me to be pre-loaded. To the point where they would not want to meet up with me but when I tell them I’ve been bred (usually within 30min - 1hr) they come over within 10 mins 

Mentally: what exactly is going through your head before and during sex with your bottom when he’s loaded with cum? Does it make it miles better? Why do you change your mind 

 

Physically - how does it actually feel on your cock compared to lube-spit?

[backtails]

It's not about the way cum feels as lube. It's close to spit except it lasts longer (spit dries up), very close to precum, but it's more slippery than oil based lubes that give you a kind of friction that you can pound through. I like that feel better. It does sound hot. Wetter and sloppier.

It's about a couple of things. First, you're fucking a slut. You know he just took another man's load and he probably doesn't care too much about who fucks him. That removes the pressure to perform or satisfy and centers the experience on you and your dick. He's going to give you what you want. Let you do what you want, and like it. Screening for pre-loaded bottoms also means they're experienced and actively horny -- there are a lot of inhibited guys out there who rarely actually get fucked and those are likely to flake on you or not know how to take dick.

Second, you're connecting with the other tops. Competing, in a primal way that activates when you feel another man's cum on your dick. You have to fuck harder and deeper and better if you want your sperm to win. It doesn't feel like pressure, it feels like motivation, and it's the kind of motivation you get rewarded for. Your balls automatically step up, you step up, the ass feels better, and when you cum, you cum hard.

[anonCUMtainer]

On 8/7/2025 at 4:38 PM, backtails said:

It's not about the way cum feels as lube. It's close to spit except it lasts longer (spit dries up), very close to precum, but it's more slippery than oil based lubes that give you a kind of friction that you can pound through. I like that feel better. It does sound hot. Wetter and sloppier.

It's about a couple of things. First, you're fucking a slut. You know he just took another man's load and he probably doesn't care too much about who fucks him. That removes the pressure to perform or satisfy and centers the experience on you and your dick. He's going to give you what you want. Let you do what you want, and like it. Screening for pre-loaded bottoms also means they're experienced and actively horny -- there are a lot of inhibited guys out there who rarely actually get fucked and those are likely to flake on you or not know how to take dick.

Second, you're connecting with the other tops. Competing, in a primal way that activates when you feel another man's cum on your dick. You have to fuck harder and deeper and better if you want your sperm to win. It doesn't feel like pressure, it feels like motivation, and it's the kind of motivation you get rewarded for. Your balls automatically step up, you step up, the ass feels better, and when you cum, you cum hard.

Really well said!! All of it.

Perhaps summarized by the modern expression - If you know, you know...

And I agree a lot of guys are inhibited - and in their heads - and don't know what they're missing as a result. If more guys knew, they would probably also insist.

However, I am wondering then... what percentage of men LOVE "SLUTS" like @backtails described??

[bbslutdanny]

It smells and feels good 🐷

[wilbnl28]

Do you guys still like to rim a pre filled ass?

Edited Friday at 05:15 AM by wilbnl28

[BadBob214]

It feels fantastic. Like sticking your cock into a warm bath. I love the squelchy sound too. Feels very sexy and dirty as well. I love going in second or third.

[NWUSHorny]

It feels, tastes and smells fucking fantastic. Plus odds are in your favor that the loaded hole is a bottom who knows what they are doing. There are a lot of bottoms who tap out after only a few strokes or feel like fucking a vice, so if you have the option of fucking an experienced loosened and naturally lubed slut who is into it, why wouldn't you?

[hntnhole]

On 8/7/2025 at 3:09 PM, Guest Sub Asian boy LDN said:

Mentally: what exactly is going through your head

Thanks for this question. 

There are "bottoms", and then there are cumdumps.  The second - the cumdumps - are bottoms, of course - but they're also so committed to their skills that they find total satisfaction in servicing cock after cock after cock.  They are very special men - men who have embraced their lusts to the ultimate degree - entirely embracing who and what they are, and that's achieving a successful life. 

They truly love themselves for their ongoing commitment to servicing hard raw cocks, one after another after another after another - secure in their sense of self-worth.  They simply know that it's answering their calling, and find fulfillment in that calling.  They are literally "in love' with who they have become, and why they've become so.  Cumdumps don't give a rats ass about all the other facets of the lives of those they service.  They care only that they service as many men as they possibly can as often as they possibly can.  When there's a hard raw cock up their sperm-holes, it's because they need the load - not because some other guy else needs to pump it up their guts.  

A true cumdump has the most flavorful, tasty, lovely hole than other men.  Eating out a cum-filled hole is one of the true joys of life, before adding one's own sperm to the mix.  

There is another, more ethereal facet to what a cumdump has to offer, which is connection to every other Top that has bred the hold prior.  What could possibly be more "connective" for a Top, dedicated to his own lusts, than tasting/consuming/ "connecting with" the sperm of his (unknown) brothers that have already sated that particular hole?  It's hardly all that different from a cocksucker that loves sucking off cock after cock after cock.  The thrilling difference is, the essence, the sperm, of all the previous cocks is still there, inside the cumdump's gut.  And, by extension, all the men that have ever pumped their sperm up that hole.  In that sense, we're all literally "connected" - across national boundaries, across oceans between us, with no possible divisions amongst us.  

 

[NordicBtm]

How beautifully said @hntnhole I feel 100% like that but only part time of my life as it would consume me whole if I allowed it. So I release the cumdump 2-3 times a month and longer on certain trips… since I also value my life outside of the bedroom.

That being said, I could NEVER be in a relationship with someone that didn’t accept me as a cumdump and enjoyed me getting loaded and whored out.

[hntnhole]

NordicBtm, you have indeed found the magic balance in your life.  It's easy to slip into something that we crave, but which can also consume us.  By restricting your cumdumpery to only what you can control, and thus keep balance in your life, you're an excellent example of to others.  

I restrict exercising my lusts to Fri and Sat nights - with only an occasional "slip" every once in a while.  By doing that, there's plenty of room left for other interests, responsibilities in my life.  Plus, by waiting for the weekend nights, the fuckjoints are even more full of cock-craving men - and who wouldn't like that?  

btw .... that's a very enticing photo .... 

[PozBearWI]

On 8/22/2025 at 12:15 AM, wilbnl28 said:

Do you guys still like to rim a pre filled ass?

I certainly do.  Maybe with a bit of felching mixed in.  

[RawRumner]

On 8/22/2025 at 5:12 PM, NWUSHorny said:

It feels, tastes and smells fucking fantastic. Plus odds are in your favor that the loaded hole is a bottom who knows what they are doing. There are a lot of bottoms who tap out after only a few strokes or feel like fucking a vice, so if you have the option of fucking an experienced loosened and naturally lubed slut who is into it, why wouldn't you?

I wish I could be more like that ideal slut.

[KindaBasic]

Have you seen the price of lube lately? Got to cut corners somehow. 

[UnsureAboutThis]

21 minutes ago, KindaBasic said:

Have you seen the price of lube lately? Got to cut corners somehow. 

I like how you think. Lol

[KindaBasic]

5 minutes ago, UnsureAboutThis said:

I like how you think. Lol

In this economy, you got to do what you got to do to survive.