Big Dicks

[BlindRawFucker1]

I’ve been wondering.

 

On any gay sites, it seems as if almost every guy wants or has a huge or large dick.

 

Is that a fantasy, or do most gay guys want a large dick fucking them?

 

If so, that is another way in which I’m not normal.

 

I’m perfectly happy with an average or smaller dick.

 

Let’s hear the truth about what you truly want when it comes to dick size.

[hntnhole]

I think a lot of guys conflate "big dick" with skill in using that 'big dick'.  There's nothing at all under the sun wrong with owning a "big dick" - and there's nothing wrong with owning a modest dick.  We have what we have, and everything depends on the learned skill with which we use what we've got.  

[Iker80]

It's hot in porn, it makes you think wow that must be intense! But it's not important in reality, lots if things affect how much you like a guy and how well things are going. I don't rate dick size as a meaningful way to tell how much fun you'll have with a guy.

[phillygwm]

Not speaking as a bottom but, orally at least, I can take a small guy balls deep.  He's more likely to blow down my throat, which is what it's all about.  Someone huge is hot to look at but harder to get off.

[Falls727]

It’s always great to fantasize about guys with huge cocks. In reality, it’s ultimately about the connection with the guy. My husband does not have a large penis, but knows how to use what he has. I know it sounds cheesy romantic, But when we make love and I am inside him, it’s all about the connection and the passion we share.  That’s what gets me off. It’s that special bond that he and I alone share. It was different before I was married. I would fuck and suck any and every cock under the sun, the bigger the better. This gets old after a while. It’s much sexier to have the connection with the man you love and have given your heart to. Just my opinion.

[YVRbugchaser]

I'm good with pretty much any size.  I can make it work.  What I'd love through, is honesty in advertising; some guys have a very skewed notion about the size of their dicks. 4" becomes 7" (and that's now "hung") and bigger dicked guys inflate the size of theirs too.  Stop guessing... It's obvious you're not the size you say you are.  Accept what you have and be proud of it, whatever size it is.  

[viking8x6]

I agree with @YVRbugchaser that there's a lot of "size inflation" going on. It's so bad, in fact, that I do it (gently) myself because I finally realized that people were expecting me to be smaller (based on "large") than I actually am (which is substantially above average). 

Personally, I have enjoyed dicks of all sizes. The ones I haven't enjoyed are generally ones that won't get/stay hard (disappointing) or won't cum (also disappointing) or that are attached to people with a lot of attitude or other offputting characteristics.

[bbpigbtm]

Ok, my husband is larger( 9.5x6) real. But it about the connection with the other thats the best!!!! ( but that ass too wall(say gh) its about load) but connection 👍🏻

[BarebackedBear]

All peckers are good peckers. I've had everything from 9.5" and thick down to below average, maybe 5" on a good day, and enjoyed them all. My favorite regular is maybe 5.5" or 6" but a little thicker than average, and more importantly, knows how to fuck.

Size queens have a lot less fun than guys who don't get hung up on size.

[NYBBGUY58]

My main criteria is can the dick reach far enough inside to deliver the load...it can? GREAT! Your place or mine? 😏

[Guest btmdad]

I like to get fucked by a bigger dick.  I enjoy the feeling of being stuffed.  But for oral I pefer a mouthful.  If I can't go balls deep it's not as much fun.  I also find that guys with really big dicks can not usually get as hard.  That might just be my experience but I rarely have found a really big dick that gets rock hard.   As for fucking, a small dick is fine as long as the head can get  in all the way, otherwise it just feels like it is poking me in the butt.  All of that being said.  I will never turn down a dick, big or small.

[Phallarchist]

Rectally, it's just a fact that the biggest was also the best. I was on the edge of a cunt orgasm within the first few of his thrusts.

Orally, there's a girth beyond which teeth get in the way, but I appreciate a man who forces his huge penis into my throat as far as he can.

I am perfectly capable of worshipping men with smaller penises, up to a point, as long as they're dominant and aggressive. They need to compensate for having unremarkable genitalia with something.

[allrise]

Over the years I learn to respect and enjoy  all hard cocks, large or small. My purpose is to give the top pleasure and hope they will unleash that load preferable in my hole but happy to swallow.

those with smaller cocks do tend work harder and great to feel this. Of course it is good to feel a large cock stretching you and  pulsating as they unload.

in an app, I tend to look more at what their interests/fetishes are. In face to face, then more chemistry, but any hard cocks get my attention. 

agree if you go looking for large cocks only, you are missing out a great deal. It is more what one delivers and less the size.

[TT2025]

Big dick is fun to look at, but not so much to fuck with.. 

Average is neat all purpose.

'Big' means long/thick/both? If its longer than average it's fine, but if it is too thick it is not that good in my opinion - I can't deepthroat it, my jaws ache when I suck it for longer.

I like 1.5-1.7 inch in diameter the most a and length 6-8 in.