How many men have you had sex with?

[tallslenderguy]

It's a fun topic, and i  jokingly chose a random, high number.   After a day of cruising, it was not unusual for me to have  difficulty remembering how many guys that day, let alone how many over a lifetime. 

But honestly,  it's never been about the numbers for me.  It was about the craving for connection in that magical way with another guy. The bonding of mutual desire and a very intimate level.  i cannot think of any other experience where two people can touch each and have a soul exchange with an otherwise stranger, in a relatively short time.  

The saying: "make love, not war," comes to mind.  Imagine if mankind spent its hormonal energy fucking instead of killing and destroying what a different world this would be?  The act crosses so many boundaries.  Definitely better and more effective than a handshake. 

[hntnhole]

7 hours ago, tallslenderguy said:

 it's never been about the numbers for me.

That's true for me too. 

It's the connecting with my bros ... sharing our lusts, our depravities, our hunger, and being sated by giving my abilities, and receiving theirs.  Besides .... I couldn't possibly come up with any where near an accurate number.  Even if I could still blush, and someone-in-the-sky actually told me how many guys I'd fucked, I doubt I could manage a blush-ette.  

Those that were spectacular for one reason or another I definitely remember, even from undergrad days, and that was decades ago.  

[Slipitupme]

Been having regular sex since I was about 20 which is 50 years ago. I like it anonymous, just a cum dump. I guess with the saunas, toilets and cruising spots, I've averaged about three cocks up me a week. So that's about 7500!

BTW, at 10cc per ejaculation, thats about 75 litres of cum!

[BruxoCub]

On 10/23/2025 at 3:40 PM, NJRawDaddy said:

How many men (or people if you prefer) have you had sex with?

YES. 😅

[NLbear]

I have really lost count. I have been having sex for 48 years. And lots of it. Certainly in my late teens and 20s I had sex almost every day. And not just with one guy. Multiple meets and/or multiple guys on the same day. My 30s on average 4 times a week. It slowed down a bit in my 40s and then suddenly I was a popular "Daddy bottom" in my 50s and still am. Now I bottom 2-3 times a week for a hunky 20s guy with a big dick, a thing for daddies and a high sex drive. I almost don't have to go to the gym anymore. Plenty of exercise at home 😉 But I love watching the hot guys at the gym pumping their muscles. 

[ccmmss]

Not nearly enough. But I have time. Probably about 75

[bbslutdanny]

More than 1000

Sometimes in one week I can do like 50 ... 

[Guest Ronnie]

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More than 5,000, and always looking for new dicks

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[PozToxVersPig]

Have I already answered this?  It's really innumerable.  I can't even estimate.  There are big chunks where I have no idea because I was in a dark room with my ass up for hours.  I think this needs to be a question where we select a range....

It is definitely over 1000 and maybe under 10,000 for me.  There have been approximately 11,000 days between age 15 and 46 which is my sexual activity range.  That's approximately 1570 weeks.  Assuming 2 a week that's 3000 but that's low for many stretches of time (my 20s, my 30s, 15-18).  

I think I have to assume that if I average out sex party nights, massive load taking events over all those weeks, let's say I averaged 4 a week, that's 6,280 dudes.  I still think it's higher than that, but there's my reasoning.

[PervBugChaser]

To me, oral or handjob is not real sex. Only anal sex counts. So my number is 600+.

I started sucking and jerking off for other boys at young age. Don't remember how many cocks I sucked or me got sucked. But it was in China. Gay sex was very prohibited, although I still tried to organized some group sex when I was in Beijing from late 90s to early 2000s. After I moved to Canada, I started to get loose. I started to make an Excel sheet from 2012 to record the people I fucked or fucked me. My goal is to get 1000. 

[lecheroxxl]

I estimate between 1800 if I include oral sex. Almost all of them without a comdom.

[Boy4gift]

well over 1000 , started in middle school 😈🥵

[sammotogrindr]

I would say somewhere between 1500-2000 in last 15ish years

[Willing]

Im the low man on the pole, I've only had oral, but it was when I was 8, my 13 year old friend use to feed me after church on Sundays. 

[Willing]

1 minute ago, Willing said:

Im the low man on the pole, I've only had oral, but it was when I was 8, my 13 year old friend use to feed me after church on Sundays. 

Getting old so I need to make up for lost time. 💧💋💧