hungry_hole Posted Tuesday at 10:16 PM Report Posted Tuesday at 10:16 PM On 1/5/2026 at 3:00 PM, miticax said: ...bottoms when in doggie they sit mostly still, as in just taking the pumping from the top... Dogie is more impersonal and it feels good to just be hole for the top's pleasure and cum. The top has complete freedom of movement and can enjoy using the hole for his pleasure. After all, when getting fucked in a gloryhole is always dogie for the top to use your hole. Quote
TightBott7 Posted yesterday at 02:21 AM Report Posted yesterday at 02:21 AM Since I gravitate to Alpha tops that take total control, I gradually learned that they generally dislike their bottoms to initiate or enhance the fucking in their own.  They are selfish and don’t want the bottom to engage in any activity that appears that they are enjoying it. And that’s just fine with me. Quote
NLbear Posted yesterday at 02:48 AM Report Posted yesterday at 02:48 AM 22 minutes ago, TightBott7 said: Since I gravitate to Alpha tops that take total control, I gradually learned that they generally dislike their bottoms to initiate or enhance the fucking in their own.  They are selfish and don’t want the bottom to engage in any activity that appears that they are enjoying it. And that’s just fine with me. That really depends on the top. I had many tops who loved it when I showed initiative and started to ride them back when they fucked me doggy or stradled them and bounced on their cock. I'm older now so I don't usually stradle guys anymore LOL! You need to "read" the top. Some don't want you to move at all when he fucks you. Others do like a bottom who is a bit more active. 1 Quote
TommyTheVirgin Posted yesterday at 05:06 AM Report Posted yesterday at 05:06 AM As a bottom it depends. If I ask him to fuck me I'll do most of the work. If he asks to fuck me he does most of the work. 1 Quote
blackrobe Posted 22 hours ago Report Posted 22 hours ago In any fuck, I'm a participant, not a prop. I'm a total bottom who loves to please and connect with a breeders vibe. I'm instinctively reading his body, thrusts, and movements to try and anticipate and give him what he needs. It's like dancing (the Baptists got that right at least) and everyone needs to be paying attention so you can flow from one moment to another. Someone leads and someone follows or you swap places multiple times during the fuck. You can tell if a breeder needs you to hold your ass still for them to pound you out, or if they're inviting you to slut out into a deep arch, or thrust your ass back onto their dick like you need to own every inch. You can feel how their movement changes when they feel you react to that thing they did and moan like a wild animal. It's about being present, paying close attention, and listening to your instincts. I'm not sure what a breeder is looking for in a bathhouse ass-up situation, but when I've been ass-up in my room I'm working on feeling the energy in the music in my body. It means I move a little, not much, but hopefully enough for breeders walking past to see I'm reacting to what's happening and might be a fun hole for them to spend some time in. There's lots of things a bottom can do to make doggie more interesting and fun and many of them come from reading the energy of the fuck. Sometimes when a guy is absolutely wailing on my ass with my shoulders on the bed, I feel he's clearly challenging me to match him. That's when I grab the sheets and push away to make firm handholds and walk my hands back to flex my body up onto all four limbs and back even harder onto his dick and hips. It gives me more ability to throw back into him, and lots of those guys seem to find another gear when they realize you're a lot stronger than they thought. Some of the best fucks I've had have been dominant guys who really love how submissive I am, but who get startled and then really turned on when they hit my button and see how I get much more primal. In doggie, there are moments to just take it like a helpless hole and moments to up the ante. Paying attention is how you don't miss them. 1 1 Quote
hntnhole Posted 19 hours ago Report Posted 19 hours ago On 1/5/2026 at 4:22 PM, NordicBtm said: My big issue is though that many tops will pound very hard without gripping the hips properly That's just one of the issues Tops need to learn. There are too many guys that think that just because they Top, they don't need to hone their skills, and just hammer away.  I'm all for a Top learning/making certain techniques "his own", but just banging away at a hole doesn't begin to cut the mustard. Topping is a "skill", and we're not born with it. We Tops may be born "to it", but we need to learn our skills just as we expect bottoms to learn theirs. And, just banging away, without a shred of finesse, is amateurish at best.  That old saying "make love, not war" (from the Nam days), applies equally, and across the board.  I want a bottom that knows his craft, and expects the same from his Tops. 4 1 Quote
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