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I don't agree. Service top is another one of those terms that's been conflated with being dominant *and* being submissive. While a service top may be somewhere on the power dynamic spectrum, the litmus test of a service top is one who is focused on the bottom's *pleasure*. I reject the idea that a top who wants to pleasure his bottom is inherently submissive or dominant. Service tops take great pride and satisfaction in their ability to read a bottom and give them a memorable and pleasurable fuck. We don't talk about service bottoms because bottoms are already expected, by their natures, to serve and cater to the pleasure of breeder tops. This is why the idea of dominant bottoms going against that perceived norm melts so many people's brains. The same is true for submissive tops. A submissive top can be motivated by being objectified, used, demeaned, dominated, and controlled without any agency being exerted on giving pleasure at all. Any pleasure for the man using them is a by-product of their obedience and submission to that man's will, and not a first order goal. Language is always in motion, but when words lose the precision or essence of their meaning, the ideas they express become confused or lost completely. Inevitable digression, but perhaps illustrative: The term "side" is a great example. For a long time there was a group of men who didn't identify as top, versatile, or bottom because they didn't have penetrative anal sex - at all. There was a missing term that defined these people that did everything but fuck ass, and Dr Joe Kort came up with "side" to capture it. Today, hook-up apps have implemented "side" as an option along side the top to bottom continuum, but the apps have allowed it to be multiple choice. Today, we have top, bottom, and versatile men who are also sides. As a result, the term "side" has lost has its defining essence of having non-penetrative sex *exclusively*. As a bottom I'm not at all interested in men who don't have penetrative sex, so being able to filter out "side" men potentially has great utility in a hook-up app for people who *want* penetrative anal sex. There's a line of logic that says instead of top, versatile, bottom, and side being thought of as identities that signify activities, they are actually activities themselves. I'm sympathetic to that line of thought up to a point. Where it falls down for me is that it was a missing and unacknowledged sense of identity that Joe Kort was looking to name and allow people to claim that got us here. The crux of the issue is that Dr Kort was looking to capture people who *exclusively* have non-penetrative sex. This was needed because, for everyone else, the non-penetrative sex stuff was already on the table. To borrow and expand on Dan Savage's schtick about oral, the non-penetrative sex stuff "comes standard". Instead of "side" being a useful way for people who *don't do anal and do the other stuff exclusively* to identify themselves to similar folks, everyone who does the other stuff as well as anal is, in my opinion quite erroneously, using it too. As with "side", so it is with terms like "service top" - precision matters or we all end up meaning different things with the same term.

My first ever gay fuck was BB and they guy told me to concentrate as he spunked deep into my hole. I felt his cock pulsating and he dumped his load. He then slapped my bum and said 'Welcome to gay sex, no going back now'. How true.

Who cares? Cock is cock. Just be hard enough or able to get hard. Anyway it’s funny. I remember that in Australia I was the star because of my uncut dick. And also, how confused I was when I was face to cock with my first cut dick. It lasted only a second and then I swallowed it till the balls.

Hi @ All, Will be in Berlin for Pride - anyone else? Open for fun? I am looking for some nice [banned word] fun in public, in my hotel (close to checkpoint charlie), in a bar or anywhere else. Let me know, I am 35, sporty, vers, got 20x6, bb only, ch friendly.

[think before following links] https://lthrbtmboi.gay/smells-like-goon/ Is it just me or do poppers make you pig out in the sack....Love a top that shoves popper up my nose and totally wrecks your man pussy!

This morning I chatted up a really sexy 24yo bottom who invited me to his place. I didn't have much time as I had a train to catch, and had spent the night on a bus, without much sleep nor a shower/change of clothes, so when he was finally done douching I didn't think about much else besides loading up his firm round ass with my itinerant seed. However, I did first take a piss (hadn't all night), and immediately noticed his bathroom was crawling with roaches. I don't mean one or two but dozens, plus many flattened roach carcasses on the tiled floor. Somehow it turned me on to be in this dark filthy place with a slim smoking hot bottom boy, but after I had blown my load up his tight hole, I did begin to panic a little. I started to worry that his many roommates (which were also crawling around his bedroom in numbers that defy the imagination) might hitch a ride with me and infest the family vacation home I traveled to after saying goodbye. Is there a big risk of this happening? I frantically checked my luggage and clothing for bugs, even went into the bathroom on the train to strip naked and turn my clothes inside out, but didn't find anything. Still, I had never seen anything like this before. To me cockroaches were something distant, not a lived reality. This was the first time I was confronted not only with an infestation, but one that went beyond any measure I'd thought possible. Btw I do feel sorry for the guy. I hope he finds a way to deal with them. He is young and seems to be an immigrant (we exchanged few words and those in a language I'm not fluent in). But selfish me is mostly worried that this infestation is going to spread to our vacation home and we won't be able to get rid of the little fuckers (not to mention the embarrassment of knowing it was my quick fuck with a random stranger that unleashed it). Kind of a niche question but any help would be much appreciated.

Def older experience tops for me that are on a mission to plant their seed balls deep!

Do you let cut fuck you?

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No preference. As long as they are hard and full of cum to flood my holes. 💦

In Europe, most guys are uncut. But that doesn't really matter. What matters is sucking cock and the taste of cum.

Hello beautiful, Two things I want to talk about tonight: dating and piano. I’ve gone back into the red sea of dating. There’s a question I used to ask myself whenever I exited a relationship: “How do you know when you’re ready to date again?” It’s an interesting one because the answer is different for everyone. You kinda feel it in your bones. Back then, I used to think I was ready when I felt excited to meet new people again. And maybe that was true at the time. But I’ve realised now that after a breakup, we often gravitate towards others—sometimes new, sometimes old—just for company, to feel desired, to feel special again. I think that’s what drew Phil and Suf to me. Having someone close, someone to reflect their worth back to them. And over time, as they begin to rebuild their confidence and self-worth, the relationship shifts. I become a good friend. A supportive character in their next chapter. But these days? If you asked me that same question—how do I know I’m ready to date again—I think I’d say this: I’m ready when I’m willing to risk being hurt again by love. That’s not something I could’ve said a few months ago. Back then, I was still healing. Still licking wounds that were too raw to reopen. But I’ve been hurt so many times since the breakup in January, and still—I keep standing. I keep choosing love. And I want you to remember that, buddy. Love is worth it. Always. Now, onto piano. I’ve been thinking about changing my piano teacher. I’m not sure he’s the best at explaining things. Sometimes when I ask him questions, you can see this internal tug-of-war—he wants to answer, but he holds back, afraid it’ll lead us off track. Other times, I can tell he knows the answer, but just struggles to articulate it clearly. That’s why I’m not sure he’s the right teacher for me. But… I also like how strict he is, especially with timing and using the metronome. He keeps me in check. I’ve noticed I get a little cocky sometimes—skipping ahead to harder chapters instead of mastering the basics. He’s the one who reels me back in, like a grown-up catching a cheeky kid sneaking cookies before dinner. For that one hour, he manages to rein me in, and oddly enough, I don’t mind. It’s a kind of unprofessional, slightly dysfunctional relationship—but weirdly, I enjoy it. It makes the lessons feel human. For example, he wants me to learn the next three songs in Book 1—which I find super easy—so instead, I went rogue and bought Book 2. I started learning pieces from there and, surprise surprise, I’m struggling. I can already picture him pulling out the classic “I told you so,” and weirdly, I’m kind of looking forward to it—with a mischievous little grin on my face. I could find a more professional teacher, sure. But I have a feeling the lessons would be less fun. So… there’s the dilemma. I think I’ll sleep on it for a couple more nights. My next lesson’s coming up soon anyway. In the meantime, stay awesome, buddy. Chat soon xx

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Hey. Greetings from Vienna. I signed up here to meet like-minded people. I'm looking forward to nice chats, new acquaintances with hot guys, and a few tips on where to find good BB porn, for example, on Telegram.

Like the title says, what’s it like to get fucked by a pierced cock? I’ve been fantasizing about it lately so I’m curious.

It wasn’t until I was much older. Late teens, that I met some other subs. My man at the time used to get to gather with friends and the other men would bring their boys. We would all sit together and talk away from the men. I really liked it. We would all sit around and discuss our experiences. It made me realize there were others like me. They were also hiv positive and we could relate on that level too. I am still friends with most of them to this day.