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@blackholeson and @BareBack35 - there's definitely been an increase in racist postings and behaviors on most sites lately, perhaps in response to our political "leaders" making this kind of behavior mainstream. The trend seems to come and go through the years, sometimes the behavior is blatant and at other times it is more subtle, but unfortunately it never seems to disappear completely. I've been playing the field of gay sex for 49 of my 63 years so far on this planet and I've noticed the swings in such behavior over time. I'm fortunate enough to be 4th Generation New York City, an environment that allowed me to fully indulge my love of variety - as a Top/Vers with no upper limit on age, who finds men of all races and nationalities hot, and few limits on body type - NYC and environs are perfect for me in the vast variety of men that I have been lucky enough to play with. Having parents who raised me to accept everyone for who they are rather than what race/nationality/religion they were part of has been one of my great blessings in life, and was I in for a shock as I matured to find out how many of my friends were NOT brought up that way. My parents apparently, were outliers, especially in the 60's, 70's and 80's and I didn't know how many of my peers would have "issues" during high school and college when this Irish guy dated African American and Hispanic girls and then later in college Hispanic and African and Asian guys. Oddly, they were less concerned with my dating other guys than what groups they belonged to! Mind you, my parents didn't have a problem with ANY of them, so long as they were nice and treated me well. That being said, most of my life that kind of disapproval was very very subtle, not overt as it is currently, and it didn't seem to come with as much vitriol attached. By the way, try showing up at a leather bar at 19 when you are a blond, blue-eyed dance student and try to convince the men there that you are a top... In the late '80s between the musical productions I was in I worked for New York City's first gay computer dating service, I noticed a number of profiles that would say they would only meet men of certain ethnicities - and this wasn't restricted to just white guys only wanting white guys, there were lots of men of color who would only want other hispanics, or other african-american guys only, and asian men seemed to get the most negative comments from other groups. I was astonished. Then there were those profiles who would ONLY meet men from OTHER ethnic groups. (Funny story about one of those - we had an African-American member who was STUNNINGLY gorgeous and would only meet white men, and - stupidly in my opinion - not a lot of white members who were okay with meeting men of color. My boss said to me, "wait, your own profile says you are cool with meeting men of any race, would you date this guy if your compatibility profiles match up enough?" Hell yes, I would. Turns out our profiles matched at 96% and anything over 80% was considered a good enough match to go out on a date. So we had dinner, then went back to his place - he had an incredible body and like me he was sexually versatile and we fucked each other and had some very good sex. When my boss called him to follow up on how the date went, his response was that the sex was amazing, but that I was still "a bit too ethnic, you know, too Irish and Catholic, instead of a real anglo-saxon white protestant guy". I was disappointed, but the response did make me laugh. Never forgot him and years later we bumped into each other and had a few more really hot flip fucks before he moved out west to SALT LAKE CITY still trying to find the ultimate white boy...) I once tried to fulfill a fantasy for a bottom friend of mine who got himself all enhanced and blindfolded and wanted me to "force" him to take any of my top friends or any rando top and gangbang him - EXCEPT I was not allowed to invite any African-American tops at all. ????? He was himself Hispanic and lived on the border between Washington Heights and Harlem, and I'm like "excuse me?" First of all, like most guys who top a lot, I don't have a huge line up of top friends who want to schlep to someone's house and fuck for 5 minutes and leave, and in my case most of those guys would indeed be African-American, let alone those I would source on-line from the neighborhood, and he wants to be gangbanged, but leave them out? WHILE HE'S BLINDFOLDED? He never knew I broke the rule. 5 times. He would have only had one other top besides me... In the age of the internet hook-up sites went from having lots of those exclusionary profiles at first, to much less of that sort of thing overtly written in the profile. While this should have been an improvement overall, there were some factors that were less than positive. The number of guys who were okay with men of color fucking them and then leaving - the mythos of the BBC - increased dramatically, where the profile owner seemed to consider African American men as nothing more than living breathing dildos and objectified them to the point of forgetting their humanity. That has got to be extremely frustrating I imagine, much less annoying. After years of seeing less overt racism on the sites, it does seem to be on the rise again. THE PROBLEM STEMS FROM THE DICHOTOMY BETWEEN TREATING EVERY ONE ELSE FAIRLY AND WHAT WE ARE SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO. I am lucky enough to be sexually attracted to men of all colors, ages and most body types. But even I have certain limits where my attraction for someone wains. It may be "shallow" but I do not get aroused by extreme femininity or extreme morbid obesity. And I am talking extremes here - people who totally look, dress, speak and act like a woman don't turn me on as I am attracted to MEN and things considered masculine - more power to someone who genuinely identifies that way and is comfortable living that way, but that's still not going to activate my libido - I had sex - albeit unsatisfying - with a good number of females and that side of sexuality just doesn't turn me on whether the person displaying those traits are female or male in their genital area. It doesn't turn me on. And I tried having sex with a gentleman who was well over 300 lbs since we had clicked while having conversation, but I just could not rise to the occasion when we got naked. I wish I had, but his body did not arouse any desire in me. So I can understand that you really can't change what arouses you - but in my case at least, I tried to see if I could get past those two issues, but found I could not - while I think in the case of many of these restrictive racist type profiles that they've never allowed the possibility of seeing if someone of another race arouses them, put off by hatreds and fears instilled by their upbringing and that they actually FEARED finding themselves attracted to a man of another race or ethnicity they were taught were somehow lesser than them or were taught they should hate on sight. It's a tragedy, and I don't know how it can change in the macrocosm until we stop teaching our kids to be afraid of - or hate - those that are different. I know I would be more than happy to have a session with either of you two @BareBack35and @blackholeson other idiots don't know what they are missing. And, @blackholeson, welcome to the site. Enjoy!

Had a tiny minority of excuses with private meets. When it came to second/repeats a few said they only fuck once or their BF was back in town. (Although they were happy for sex if we wandered across each other at cruising grounds or saunas.) So (slightly off topic) when there was someone I didn't want a repeat with I said my bf was back home. The guys usually got mad about that!

I often found that guys VHS/DVD player had kinky leather bondage piss sling and BB porn paused from the last watch/wank. Guys were usually embarrassed and said oh that's the wrong film! I reassured them it was the right film and we carried on sleazy sex.

Firstly, when people come for you for the kind of sex you're having, what's happening is about them, not you. They could simply be a troll (Don't feed the trolls!), but I suspect something else is happening. Envying how much sex you have, and the kind of sex you're having that they want and are (unreasonably and pathologically) afraid of are strong starters. All kinds of projection are possible too. I challenge you to flip the script and see every ignorant, pathological, and pathetic word they type as evidence of their twisted psyche unraveling. I'd be tempted to find a well known mental health organization in their location and after every unhinged post they make on yours, I'd post something like "If you're in a mental health crisis, please contact NAME on CONTACT_INFO for help" and say nothing else. I had the same kind of fixated obsessive guy dogging me in a forum and in the end I robbed him of all the attention he needed by utterly ignoring him.

What about Daddy Ken [think before following links] https://xxxbunker.com/2468043

(continued) We walked past a room with the door barely cracked open with panting noise coming out. Opening the door a little we could see that the room had a bed in the middle with a sling suspended in a corner. In the sling was a college age jock getting reamed by an older black dude, and the man from earlier with the bio hazard tat getting sucked off by an man who appeared to be in his 40s. In the background was another dude with his phone appearing to video all that was taking place. My uncle motioned for me with his head to follow and we entered the room. The bio tat dude gave me a nod of his head with a smirk on his face. After a moment I thought, fuck it, give me some of that juicy cock I walked over, knelt down, and joined in with the dilf in servicing his mighty tool. I reached up with my hand and was caressing his abs with my hand rubbing his bio tat. My uncle looked over and watched me chow down on that piece of meat. Precum began to drip off the edge and the other dude and I took turns sharing the jizz. The man with the camera was buzzing around getting close-ups and distance shots. Suddenly, the bio tat guy pushed both of our heads off his cock and stepped aside. He obviously didn’t want to cum and was getting too close. About the same time the black guy pulled out of the college jock and my uncle stepped in to take his turn on the prime beef. His stud body, tanned and toned, was that of a porn star, and he acted every bit of the part. Working the college jocks hole, the sound of his balls slapping against the jock ass, the atmosphere was intoxicating. The video guy was getting a feast. After a good railing, my uncle turned to me and motion for me to move in. My cock hard and ready to go, I inserted by raging hard-on into the sloppy hole. The dude had clearly been in the sling for a while and had a number of loads dumped in. My mind raced to the fact that here I was, not long out of high school, fucking a college dude’s sloppy hole, with a group a men in the bathhouse making content. It was one thing to do this with my uncle in his dungeon and his friends, another with strangers in the bathhouse. It was hot! My mind was brought back when I felt hands on the back of my shoulders. Suddenly, I felt my ear being nibbled and turning saw my uncle at my back. Then he pushed me a little forward and a stopped with my cock in the jock as he entered my hole. My cock in a sloppy hole, my uncles cock beginning to work my ass. The bio tat dude moved to the head of the jock and he began to service his shaft. As I was plowing the college jock, my uncle reached around and began to tweak my nipples as he thrust into my hole. We continued this until needing a break and not wanting to cum, my uncle pulled out of me, and I pulled out of the jock. Without missing a beat, the bio tat dud moved in and began to fuck the college jock. Guys had gathered at the door and were watching the show we were putting on, so we parted them and moved back into the hall. The night was early.

Sounds like it's time for an alternative

As I read it, Dan's body (i.e., cock and bussy/pussy) is farther ahead of his brain on desiring/wanting poz sex and toxic cum in his ass. (How many times has his cock stiffened and his asshole twitched when thinking about poz sex/men?) Dan's brain will need to overcome the expectations that society has "taught" him about HIV and unprotected sex. This process is well under way. I think when Dan stops taking PEP, his brain will have accepted what his body already knows--having sex and becoming poz is Dan's destiny.

one of my moms gay friends. I was 15 and I think she knew. He was my fuck and absolutely incredible. OMG

ever since I was 12. Loved it. I could suck and swallow all day

if you can't block him - can you contact the site (somehow) - and report him as abusive? whether you can or can't - maybe you do need to leave the site .. but i would check if you can delete your posts and profile before you leave .. some users on many sites - you just wanna tell them - if you can't say something nice - SHUT THE FUCK UP! 😉

I tell them we're living through a huge sex revolution. And in the future when everyone is remembering and talking about this moment in time they'll be talking how people suddenly connected like never before with new compatible partners online, they're going to be talking about people like me who went out and had fun with this new freedom. Not talking about the people who stayed home talking crap about it. Who's going to care about the story of those guys? They'll be the guys everyone rolls their eyes at and skims over, like the people who said the pill was slutty in the 60s. Nobody wrote a book about them, there was nothing to say and basically nobody agrees with them now anyway. So I'm going to spend this very sexy moment in time having fun with as many sexy men as possible.

Certainly do. Even better if i am on my back, head over the edge of the bed and my Top is deep down my throat and His sweaty balls are banging on my nose as he delivers his load down my throat. i am in fag heaven.

Only once and I thought it was amazing. I do not know how many cocks I took. I was strapped to our spinning "crotch rocket" bench, anc headphones playing faggot training audio and a hood. I got dizzy from all the spinning and not having any way to orient myself, but that just added to the dissociation between my mind and my holes. This kind of sadistic shit is what my bf loves, I'm surprised he's only done it once.

Best wishes for a fan-fuckin-tastic time in PS. I'll go out to the (very private) back yard and perform the Ancient Rtualized Breeding Dance to hopefully help bring you good fuckluck !!! That dance can be dangerous though - just don't slip in all the loads it might bring you 😇

I don't think that's what he's saying. He's there for pleasure and you are too give it to him. If he can get more pleasure by watching porn, isn't that a positive? I find it gratifying that men get to do whatever they want with me. Letting them have me the way they've been fantasizing about is hot. I've had guys get off to some really weird shit, but if sex can't be a safe place to explore, what is?

Clarification: this was LONG before the internet with posted pictures, etc., though I don't typically show my face on hookup sites. I think it was a phone bulletin board (yes, those were a thing) or maybe a printed personal in a little "bar rag" as we called them (Hx and Next were their names).

Love older, almost exclusively. I had a really hard time finding someone who wanted to take my virginity. Where were you five years ago?