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My 1st was in Toronto Canada, but I don't remember the name. We're talking 40 years ago. I think it was in the basement off Wellesley St., just east of Church.

I can keep at least one of your body parts warm. 😈

Can someone please encourage the owner or workers to turn up the heat just a bit this cold winter?

@viking8x6 was super quick to respond and made two small tweaks to my original text and it has been reposted on the thread. It was nuanced and he helped me make sure I was doing the right thing! 🙂

Agreed. All hotels in Chelsea and into midtown are blatantly racist and biased towards black men. Every time I've tried to enter a hotel lobby in these areas I'm scowled at and questioned by the front desk staff as if another homeless black man has just emerged from the subway...

I redacted the detail for discussion with the OP in a private message. The short answer here is Read the Rules - which are in the topic linked below (as well as separate detailed posts about specific rules, which are linked from there). These are the same rules that the moderation staff checks when we have to make a judgment call. If you are not sure whether a particular post complies with the rules, or for some reason you feel you need to push the boundaries to express yourself appropriately, the correct procedure is to do your best, make your post, and then report your own post - in the body of the post ask a moderator to review it. This notifies the moderation staff so they can work with you to get it sorted out appropriately.

Hawks is closed. I haven’t been to Entourage since Hawks closed. There has usually been a fairly active crowd when I’ve been to Entourage. I’ve also been there in the afternoon, and it wasn’t bad. As far as I know, Entourage is the only bathhouse left. Please correct me if I’m wrong.

I don’t see anything. You may have your answer. Lol

Mt. Morris Turkish Baths Harlem, New York City Between the 1920s and 2003, when it was closed by New York City officials, the Mt. Morris Baths was an important social center for gay African-American men and one of the longest operating bathhouses in New York City. [think before following links] https://www.nyclgbtsites.org/site/mt-morris-baths/

My first was Slammmer Club LA. It was pretty surreal because I had only heard stories about sex clubs

Moderator here. Welcome to BZ, @RogerPoz448! There aren't really any private forums here. A few of the forums (mostly the Backroom) are only visible to registered Members. You should be able to see those now. Everything else is (literally) visible to anyone on the internet. So, don't post things here that you wouldn't want your grandma to see... Though she probably wouldn't be reading this (though you never know). Getting banned or kicked off is actually pretty difficult. You can generally avoid it by following the Rules: TL;DR: Don't post Backroom stuff (HIV fetish and drugs) in other places; don't post straight/bi/transfem stuff except in designated areas; don't post scat, snuff, harmful things, or underage erotic stuff ANYWHERE on the site. Don't abuse other members. ...oh, and that's one delicious profile pic you have there! Woof!

@BlindRawFucker1 and @Labtmguy is the Las Vegas bathhouse experience kind of variable based on who is in town? I've been to Hawks a few times, and every time seemed completely different. That said I never struck out completely there.

In all probability, I've probably fucked you in Denver. I typically was at DSC or Midtown Friday night, Saturday night and Sunday afternoon, and usually once or twice during the week from 2000 to 2007. I rarely had a slow night, and while I didn't always manage to bottom, I don't think I ever left without finding a hole to fuck.

That's a nice fat dick, I go to CLUB PHILLY plenty of cock

Nobody has mentioned that he was openly touching your fucked hole. It should be expected that you should touch his dick directly, not through a towel. Don’t worry about it.

I'm with the "you did nothing wrong" crowd. I think it's regrettable that you inadvertently pushed his boundaries, but I can't think of any way you could have guessed that he had them at that particular point. I find it rather surprising that someone with a boundary there would be at a bathhouse in the first place (I'd expect it at a mall bathroom, more like), but hey - kids these days!

1998 - The Club in New Orleans a few blocks from Bourbon St. I was in town for a convention. Been to several since but most of them are gone (2 in Denver) since Covid.

I get the fact that it may have been his 1st time, I've definitely been there done that. However, it is both a very different time and place than the ones I learned the ropes in. My cruising style has been pissing off guys here for 19 years now (actually if you include visits before moving here it is more like 25 years). This kid is mostly likely a native and doesn't yet know that their is a less inhibited world of casual gay sex out there, that he's never had an opportunity to witness. I don't feel like I handled it correctly, but also don't know what I could have done differently.

I don’t drink. I’ve only been to one bar in my life. And I’m 38 in February.

You did nothing wrong, he just wasn't ready to be a part of what was going on. That's young guys for you, they don't have the experience to be comfortable with acting on their desires.

For me it's been 50 years of taking loads. There was an interruption in the early 80's until the 90's when I went back to bareback, sick of condoms and hungry for cum in my hole. This was a common question in the 90's together with "Can I cum inside?" Not all bottoms allowed it and some would get angry. I really liked the enthusiastic reaction of the guy fucking me bareback when I responded "Go deep when you shoot your load".

So it’s official. Two decades of bareback sex and taking loads started in January of 2006. I’ve taken raw on a few occasions prior. Mainly in the late 90s am it started once at the fire island nice beach of all places. Then once in a county park and a couple of times with an handsome Asian guy. We bagged it but I let him after the condom broke. No never came in me. Then 2000 I bottomed for a guy who broke the condom and came all over my ass. He said he might have gotten some inside me and btw he was hiv positive and didn’t start ART yet. Yikes! I ended seeing a specialist in NYC and did PEP for a month. In cash. It was super expensive and I was scared beyond belief. I bagged it the next 5 years. With the right top, cock size and lube it was great. But that was rare. It usually hurt like hell or I was paranoid the condom would break. Then I started reading about how barebacking is getting popular and you could sero-sort. The seed was planted. So 2005 comes and I’m having guys tease me before strapping up or have them pull out and blow all over my ass and it was hot. I loved the way it felt. Sometimes I’d just get dressed and not clean up just t soak my clothes for the trip home. Then Jan 2 2026 came along. I thought we were open at work but we were closed. Stupid me went in for nothing. So on the way home I stopped at an adult theater that was open in the morning. There were just me and like 2 other guys. This older guy was rock hard (Viagra) and was after me so we go into a dark corner and he has me blow him. As I’m blowing him he puts me in a headlock of sorts and a bottle of rush under my nose. I fought it at first but then it hit and bam, hooked just like that. Eventually he starts playing with my ass which felt really good from the poppers. So he’s living me up and starting to push in when I realize he’s not wrapped. So right then and there I said fuck it, I’m playing bare. I told him to pull out when he was close. He never came but the damage was done. I’m doing raw now on. So for the next few weeks I do just that. But the anxiety was getting to me. Then in another, much smaller adult, theater I watched this guy that I’ve seen around and jerked off with and blew a little playing with this other guy. He gets the other guy completely nude on the couch and fucks him raw. I never knew he did that so it was hot. When he was ready he said to the bottom “on you or in you?” The bottom said in and he breeded him. By their expressions it was so natural and stress free. The top wake t to use the bathroom while the bottom got dressed. We were the only 3 in the place. I asked him are you worried and he said no. He said the top said he’s neg and eventually it’s going to happen anyway and might as well enjoy it. That stuck with me. Reminds me of that Grateful Dead song. So, bottom leaves and the top comes back in and we make small talk and he’s hard again so blow him a little then drop my pants and get in the couch doggy. He jumps right up and lines me up with his spit and plunges in raw. It was amazing. The poppers and this weight off my shoulders was like gone. He’s getting close and I’m really close. On you or in you he says. I hesitate and he’s ready to blow and I chicken out at the last second and say on so he blows all over my gaping hole. I come instantly. He apologized saying he started to show as I said “on” so I got a little inside. I said no worries since my hole was drenched anyway and next time you don’t have to pull out or ask. I go back the next day at the same time and he’s there. I ask was the place busy and he said not at all and that he was hoping I’d show. We wast no time getting at it and I’m in position again and he’s close and asks again “on or in?” I reply in and never ask again and he bred me. It felt so good, natural and right. I was never going back after that. That late afternoon he bred me 2 more times. He fucked me at least 2 or more times a week for the next year before he found out he had it. I didn’t and still don’t. We still play to this day though the loads are less with age. In fact he was in me last week. I had taken a load from another guy we both knew and he’s like let me stir it up and tear you up. So I’ve been playing raw and being bred ever since. Have I had bagged since? Of course. I’m not turning down a good time and usually they dude leaves the bag and I still get the load. I’m a totally too. My body count could fill up a broadway theater and my load count would be a 2 or 3 night engagement. People say I’m nice looking but I don’t think so. People do say they love breeding my hole and I finally figured out that’s why I’ve been put on this earth. So for the last year I’ve been upping the ante and this year is no exception. At some point soon I’m going to slow down. I also want to breed a little more often and even though I know I’m gay, I started off life straight ish and have been with a few, very few women. I never bred one in the ass though so I hope I could experience that someday. And soon after that just stop. It’s been a good run being a free use cum dump bottom. A lot of good guys I’ve known never got the chance to be to be their true selves or even just be because of hiv. So that’s my story if you hung around this long, thanks for reading this. It’s my validation for now that I did do this and I do exist. If we hooked up on purpose or anonymously thanks for the ride.

[think before following links] https://www.attitude.co.uk/news/world/harry-potters-matthew-lewis-is-attitudes-new-cover-guy-284729/ unlike transphobe J.K., I am not horrified by Lewis and the hair he sports on his chin. Very hot.

Thought I'd post here since there isn't a Columbus thread. Willing bottom here looking for as many loads as I can get. Willing to travel (within reason).