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The reverse is a lot more difficult. It's easy for a bottom to take 10 loads a day - all he needs is a lot of tops. But a top can't cum 10 times a day. So a house filled with tops wouldn't work as well. HOWEVER, the fuck house could have a "guest room"...

It's not easy to get condoms to break with oil based lube... Not worth the effort to even try - chances are it won't work.

I was talking to a porn star the other day. He's a neg bottom who insists on safe sex. He doesn't escort and one of the reasons why doesn't is because he says all the johns assume he'll bareback and/or do drugs with them... So basically from the sounds of it pretty much all escorts are bareback escorts... Now if we can just get all the regular guys to bareback as well...

Here are some gratuitous pics of Lito from Hot Barebacking (he's the top in the pics below)... And a gratuitous shot of his beautiful dick...

At least they said you shouldn't worry about it. Imagine what your Christmas would be like if they didn't say that bit... I'm guessing it's an "inconclusive" result.

I've done a number that were 5 to 7 minutes... They're good fucks. The key to being quick is to not take off your clothes, just unzip and fuck.

I can do it...

I think the point is that Treasure Island's primary business is porn, it isn't running community web sites. They could violate free speech all day long and their porn would still be incredible. So who cares if they don't protect free speech? They're still a great porn company... And as others have pointed out, there is no right to free speech on forum sites. Free speech means you can start your own forum site and the government can't censor it (in most cases).

There's a guy here in NYC who always advertises on Craigslist saying he's taken sleeping pills... Not quite the same as unconscious, but close.

Funny you mention Treasure Island and Asians... The last scene I featured of theirs had an Asian guy bottoming. And my (Asian) fuck bud Jayson Park has done videos for TIM... I don't think TIM is particularly racist. Mind you the Asians they use seem to be more mixed race - they're not into the "typical" stereotypical Asian... But big deal - each studio has their "look" and they do find Asians that fit their look... As far as the forum posts - did they delete Dawson's comments as well? White guys from Boston (e.g. Dawson) aren't the most open minded when it comes to racial minorities. I had a Latino boyfriend who went to college in Boston - he liked white guys but said Boston was a challenge... It's not Treasure Island's fault that one of the performers is a bit racist. Personally I can see where a studio wouldn't like that whole conversation on their forum - it's not compatible with their brand... In that way Treasure Island's forum is a bit of a problem for them 'cause the conversation on it can tarnish their brand... I (clearly) don't have those sorts of issues... You can discuss racism all day long on here if you want (and I'll probably agree with you most of the time).

I've been noticing the past couple weeks that I have zero libido and I'm sorta "blue" - not really depressed or anything, but just sorta numb and going through the motions. It's not the first year I've felt like this around the holidays. I definitely get the Christmas blues... I'm not particularly close to my family and my bf's family just isn't the same... I think it's just a swirl of unconscious emotions... So I guess it's sort of a multi-part question... Do you get the holiday blues and if you do, how does it affect you sexually? Are you less sexual or are you more likely to bottom, etc?

LOL... That's just silly reasoning... The buildings are heated - so what's the difference?

I just ordered the test from 23andMe.com - $173 with shipping and the year's subscription prepaid... After 12/25 it'll cost $400 more - though they do seem to keep running these $99 specials (plus 1 year membership). Will be interesting so see what they find.

MAL is smaller, but they allow bareback studios to participate in the vendor area and the guys who go are definitely into having a sex filled weekend. For bottoms there's less competition, but still some competition. This year it's at a different hotel - not sure how that will change the chemistry.

It's the International Mr. Leather Contest which is held in Chicago every year over Memorial Day weekend. There are thousands of leathermen who go each year - many (most?) go for the sex more than the competition.

You want to stay in the host hotel - that's where all the action is. I know bottoms who do a lot of "sex tourism" say it's the weekend each year when they get the most loads. So for a bottom it's definitely worth the trip. HOWEVER, a lot of the bareback community were sorta boycotting it last year given IML's refusal to allow bareback porn producers and sellers into the Leather Mart.

Some bottoms really like the taste of cum. I find those guys will do ATM not so much to clean off my dick, but to try to suck out the last few drops of cum.

I've actually been looking into this and have been thinking of getting tested to see if I'm immune. 23andMe.com seems to be the leading place to get tested - both Google and Genentech have invested in the company. HIV resistance/immunity is one of many things they test and report back to you. They have a big sale on at the moment - it costs just $99 plus $5/month for a year (total is $159).

I've added your blog to the ones I pull into the site. That'll get your blog exposure... BTW, great blog... You sound like a really good bottom...

The Leatherman on Christopher is a great place and you can definitely talk candidly with the staff. However, for leather clothing I strongly recommend David Menkes. He can do custom leather for about the same price as the Leatherman and it looks way better than off-the-rack.

If you cut the tip they can make a decent cockring... Great if you left your cockring at home...

I agree with you. The metal hits your teeth and HURTS. It's the reason why I usually take mine out pretty quickly unless I know the bottom wants me to leave it in.

I've looked deeper into what's allowed and what's not. What it's going to come down to are the rules set by whoever I use for payment processing. The software I planned on using supports CCBill, so I started there, but they're far too restrictive. They don't even allow you to piss on someone else (which is pretty mainstream these days and 'safe sex'). I'm in the process of moving my servers to the same company that hosts Dick Wadd Fetish and it'll take more time to set up, but I'm going to try to get them to process credit cards for me. So if you see it in a Dick Wadd movie, it will be allowed... Which is pretty lenient. However, scat (shit) is out. Rape is out. Basically anything non-consensual is out. Extreme violence is out. Of course everyone has to be at least 18, and so on... But there's still a lot of pigginess that will be allowed. That said, what you do in the privacy of a private chat room is your own business (for the most part). And moderators just can't see everything all the time in the pubic chat rooms. Still, if we see you consistently breaking the rules that will be grounds for banning you from the site. The tube site that will be launched after the cam site will have similar rules but because the videos are persistent the rules will be applied more rigorously (every video will be moderated before it goes up). There will also be certain terms which won't be allowed in descriptions... You can't even imply underage sex (even if the guys are over 18), you can't imply force/rape or non-consensual sex, etc. As far as PNP... There was someone who got 10 years in jail and part of the evidence against them was a video they posted of themselves doing drugs. You've got to be pretty stupid to post videos of illegal activity. That said, I'm not trying to police the sexual activity in your bedroom. Perhaps you're smoking a cigarette you rolled yourself. Or perhaps you're a diabetic injecting insulin... In other words, if you're clearly doing illegal drugs, the video won't get up on the tube site. If I think you're doing something else, then it might get up...

Question for you... I went to 0 gauge a few months ago. (Not going to go to 00 'cause it completely fills my urethra and I don't want to stretch my urethra.) Anyway, I'm having a bit of a problem with 0 'cause precum dries on it and then irritates the piercing. It's actually pretty painful and pretty frequent. Dried precum wasn't nearly as big a problem with smaller gauges... So I'm wondering whether you've experienced the same thing and what you do about it?

I've got a guy pushing me to work with him on a bareback hookup site. If we did it, it would be a lot like Water Boys which is a watersports-oriented hookup site the guy put up for Dick Wadd Fetish. Dick Wadd didn't promote Water Boys enough so it never took off and it's pretty much dead. Water Boys does have some interesting features - like separate lists for "favorites" and "contacts" and the ability to add "guides" which are a bit like the cruising listings on Squirt.org - listings of sex parties, bathhouses, cruisy parks/bathrooms, etc. If anyone wants to take a look at Water Boys and tell me what they think of it, I'd appreciate it. Remember that the look and feel can and will change. At this point it's more about how useable it is and the features it offers... If that's a good place to start then I'll pursue the idea further... Oh, and if I did a hookup site I'd want to model it on Adam4Adam - so a completely functional free option that's ad supported and then a paid enhanced membership for heavy users who need really big contact lists, etc.