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  1. Back in the day I was too scared to go to Mount Morris Baths. One of those things I regret - I really should have been sluttier back then. I now live in Mount Morris Park. The bathhouse is long-closed, but up until about 6-9 months ago the sign was still there. I snapped a picture of it before they took it down and started renovations on the place... Back in the late '90s West Side Club was a lot of fun. How long ago was it that you went? I haven't heard many people talk about it lately. I thought it was pretty dead.
  2. My boyfriend has started talking about taking it. I'm not sure if I'd recommend it for someone like him or not. He doesn't like anonymous sex, doesn't have sex with that many different guys, he's a total top, and half the time he uses condoms (but doesn't like them). So he's having sex with just a few guys who he typically knows pretty well. They've talked about status. And he's topping. IMHO I'm not sure his risk level is high enough to warrant PrEP. HollywoodSlut - sounds like you're also pretty low-risk. How do you draw the line for when PrEP is warranted? I mean there's a real risk in just taking the meds - they're powerful and there can be side effects. Or do you just back off if there are side effects? But will the damage be done at that point?
  3. Well, assume the time machine that takes you back will bring you back to the present when you're done whoring around But yeah, antibiotics would be one requirement for me to go back and stay in a time period. I mean the STDs would be pretty awful without modern meds.
  4. You are now WiredMouse.
  5. All the name change requests since my last post have been done.
  6. If they start sucking you, just tell them "Thanks, but I'm just here to get fucked". Should do the trick. As far as jockstraps - there are many different cuts - find one that looks good on your body type. Some have straps that attach further back, so the straps are a bit more vertical. They may won't cut so much into the softness of your butt. Like this one… Buying a size bigger might help - but you don't want it so loose that it looks like a diaper either. I'd also suggest one that doesn't have one of those push-out pouches - you don't want to draw attention to your cock.
  7. If you could travel back in time on a sex vacation to the raunchiest place and time for gay sex in all history where/when would it be? Late 70s? NYC? San Francisco? Berlin? A particular bathhouse? Or would you go back to the time of the Greeks? Or maybe to some culture where master tradesmen regularly fucked their apprentices?
  8. Added those two to my instant queue. Thanks. I've watched that. Other than when the prison guards are fucking the inmates there's not much of what I'm talking about. All in all didn't like that nearly as well as Weeds. Weeds just had a sense of humor that is lacking in Orange. Not sure I'd recommend watching Orange.
  9. Just thought I'd start a thread with good gay erotica on Netflix. I've seen a few things on there that were pretty racy. Sebastiane - It's a gay "art film". All the dialog is in Latin so who knows what they're saying, but there's a fair amount of full-frontal nudity and TONS of near nudity (and rear nudity). If you're having a gay party and want something playing as a visual in the background it's a decent choice. Given that it's in Latin, it's not the sort of movie you sit down and watch end-to-end. It's available via streaming, not just DVD. Taxi Zum Klo - I LOVE this film. It's German about a Berlin school teacher who gets into some rather hardcore sex. It's available via streaming and DVD. I hear "Gay Sex In the '70s" is good. I've got it in my DVD queue. Unfortunately it's not available via streaming. So what films have you guys found on Netflix? When you list your films make sure you mention whether they're available via streaming or just DVD.
  10. rawTOP

    Choices....

    You can become poz using condoms. You can become poz on PrEP (even taken correctly). A lot of it is about numbers. Take enough risk and no matter what risk-reduction method you use you will become poz. In a way PrEP is sorta just drawing things out. If a guy would become poz after 6 months of being a slut, now it might take 5 years. So instead of 6 months of bug chasing he's bug chasing for 5 years. It probably depends on how you define bug chaser. I think a lot of people probably look at it differently than I do and say that if the person takes some form of risk reduction then they're not a bug chaser. I look at cumulative risk. So I see the safe sex bottom who got gangbanged every weekend at the bathhouse as a bug chaser. But PrEP definitely changes the equations. Puts more power in the hands of sluts and wanna-be sluts.
  11. How many sessions do you need? Or how much is accomplished in a session? Do you do a session of Endermology every time you do the Ultrasonic cavitation? Are the results permanent? What do you mean you don't lose weight? How can you lose fat and not lose weight?
  12. Since you've done it - how much does it cost? Did you do the ultrasonic or laser?
  13. Damn! The guys with no pronounced love handles are lucky bastards!
  14. How do guys manage to be beefy but not have love handles? Is it genetics? (click thumbnail to see bigger pic). I mean that guy's not thin - he's carrying some fat, but when I have that much fat I have some serious love handles. Does he just have good genetics? What's his secret? Does anyone know?
  15. My bf and I have been together for 15 1/2 years. Having talked to a lot of other long-term gay couples almost none of them are monogamous after about the 7 to 10 year mark. For all practical purposes all long-term gay relationships are "open relationships". In fact I would say guys who demand monogamy simply don't have long-term relationships. Period. So assume that he's hooking up with a variety of guys on a regular basis. Also assume that he wasn't cheating on his boyfriend. There's probably a 50/50 chance the boyfriend knows he fucked you (and is OK with it). "Married" gay guys are great if you want a no-strings-attached fuck. But if they've been together for 17 years don't kid yourself by thinking he'll leave the guy for you - almost never happens. So not a good place to look if you're looking for a boyfriend, but great if you just want sex and don't mind working around his schedule ('cause his boyfriend will come first most of the time). And pulling out is lower risk, but it's FAR from low risk.
  16. I recommend 23AndMe - they do a few different tests that are related to whether you're resistant/immune or an HIV controller. Plus they show you a shedload of other results you'll find interesting. They're the leader in genetic testing/profiles - with financial backing from Google, etc.
  17. Yeah, I'm thinking of having people say where they stand on the romantic -> raunchy scale and have certain things only show up depending on where they are on that scale.
  18. No, as mentioned branding it Breeding Zone would be detrimental. Initially I'll brand it "Some Name by rawTOP" or "rawTOP's Some Name". I don't want the rawTOP branding to be too strong - but it needs to be there for the reason you mention.
  19. Pics are definitely fine. Since you're bi, I'll just mention that you shouldn't post pics of you with a woman - except in the bi/straight area. Ditto of descriptions of sex with women - keep it in the bi/straight section. Otherwise feel free to post pics in threads or in an album in your profile.
  20. I hadn't realized that TIM paired neg bottoms up with poz tops. That's news to me - always thought the bottoms were poz. Of course if the top is undetectable, it's not a big deal, but still I can't imagine they didn't talk about status before the shoot.
  21. TIM is a poz4poz studio - they do no testing AFAIK - just assume everyone is poz. He's an idiot - it's not like he was working for Sean Cody or something where everyone is rigorously tested. I mean, has he watched any TIM porn?
  22. Happens in the straight world too. We had a female friend who did a booty call with a guy - "just sex" - fast forwards a few months - they get married. He was actually a really good catch - an entrepreneur who later sold his company for millions. Fast forward a few more years and they get divorced and she's now pretty comfortable financially because she hooked up with the right guy years before. Go figure.
  23. Start here… https://breeding.zone/forums/149-PrEP-Discussion As far as cost - it depends on your insurance.
  24. Some of those actually make sense to me - or at least I think they're useful… Some people do have lines - or something similar. Trust me. What it really means is the person may go out of their way to hookup with you if you match those criteria, but don't expect much effort on their part otherwise - which is useful to know. Of those two #4 is at least being modest (sorta). Sometimes a face pic isn't an option. As far as Hot4Hot - that's useful to know - because it tells me they're more about appearances than good sex. So I like seeing #9 - it helps me avoid people who are going to be bad lays. I get this one. They want to, but probably won't - at least not yet. You gotta be patient with people like them 'cause give them time and they'll get into it. Plus, like hot4hot it's useful to see so you won't waste too much time on them. Don't try to understand sexual desire. Some guys just will never be into you. Better to know it upfront.
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