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I'm just talking out of my ass and making assumptions (so take what I'm about to say with a grain of salt), but I would think a low libido = a low sex drive (in general). That would mean the bottom would just rather stay at home than go out and get fucked. But it's not a bad thing if a bottom feels like being a vers bottom. Better that both guys take loads than just one.

Reading the latest installment got me hard

So why is any of that in this thread? Don't post anything else here about them or I'll give you an infraction. It's off-topic for this thread. But to answer your question. Mania Media bought Bear Films in the last year or so. Anything you hear from Roger or Rob you can believe. Last I knew their lawyer was Chad, not Boyd. Pretty Sites has nothing to do with MM. MM does gay porn, not straight.

What does Mania Media have to do with Fuckbook? I've quite close to the Mania Media folks. If you have issues I ca get you in contact with people who can help you. Was the lawyer Chad?

BTW, I mentioned including fuck buddies to my bf - he's fine with it, curiously. He was just bemoaning that the few fuck buddies he's had probably wouldn't show up. So we'll see... I'll mix in a few and see how it goes.

Lighting and music is something I need to tackle before MAL in January. I've decided to do full on sex parties next year, not gangbangs so much. @PortaUrinal pointed out to me that the lighting, etc. sorta sucked last year. Actually he brought along red bulbs and we used those and it helped a lot - made me realize how much more can be done. Compiling a multi-hour sex party mix will be a challenge for me - but I'll work on it

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My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a party with just our gay friends while some (gay) friends are in from out-of-town next month. Not all our gay friends know I work in porn and even fewer know the sites I run. I've sorta put a limit of only gay friends who know, or would be cool with knowing, that I work in gay porn. Since it'll be a rather accepting crowd I'm wondering whether I should invite a few of the guys I've fucked who seemed like they could be more than fuck buddies. The guys I'm thinking of are a pretty select list - they're guys I've had decent conversations with, who I think would mix well with our friends. Still, the guys are more fuck buddies than friends and if one of our friends asked "So how do you know [insert my name here]?" The answer could be rather humorous/revealing. I mean my bf and I are pretty open about having an open relationship, but still… So I'm wondering how many of you have made similar transitions with your fuck buddies? One issue is my boyfriend. I can see these sorts of transitions would be easier if I were single. Hell, if I were single I'd throw a party with just fuck buddies - it could be fun But mixing fuck buddies with "real friends" is the issue I'm wondering about…

Yup. All Done.

When it comes to your sex life… If you knew then what you know now, what would you have done differently? I'll start with a few examples from my own life… #1 - I would have come out sooner. It wasn't until my last (5th) year of college that I came out. If I knew... I would have come out and started having sex as soon as I moved to Austin (2nd year of college). #2 - I would have been more sexually active in college. I experimented with going to parks for anonymous hookups, etc. If I knew... I have done WAY more of it. #3 - I would have gotten my fissure fixed faster. I waited 20 years to get my fissure fixed. If I knew... I would have been aggressive about it and gotten it fixed right when it happened. Of course, then I wouldn't have been rawTOP - would have been more like RawVersGuy or something. #4 - I would have continued to escort. I was escorting in grad school - started a few months after moving to NYC. It was easy money and I had sort of the perfect scenario for escorting - a hustler bar that catered to high end guys and johns, and then later a madam (a guy) at a high end escort agency who liked me and believed in me. In hindsight I should have continued escorting. #5 - I would have gotten into porn. I did do a PlayGuy shoot when I was in grad school, but I turned down doing videos when it was offered to me. If I knew I'd wind up in porn I would have done it just for the fun of it - and to help my escorting (see above). #6 - I would have hunted for sleazy sex after coming to NYC. There was a lot of raunchy sex in NYC back in the day. It all around me - there were sex clubs, and parties, etc. I did do some of it - I loved the darkroom at Limelight - I'd leave there covered in a mix of sweat and cum. But if I knew… I would have done a lot more - especially the raunchier side of things. I should have sought out GMSMA sooner. Should have gone to bathhouses sooner, etc. #7 - I would have refused to be in monogamous relationships. Monogamy really slowed me down. If I knew I wasn't cut out for monogamy I would have ditched the idea far sooner than I did. #8 - I would have gone completely bareback in 1996. While I was topping raw in bathhouses in 1997, if I knew… I would have become a versatile bareback slut in '96 as soon as protease inhibitors were available. I was pretty hot back then and there weren't a lot of cumdumps available. More guys were comfortable being bareback tops than bareback bottoms. I bet I could have gotten a lot of loads if I had just let myself be a cumdump. I mean I was going to bathhouses 2 or 3 times a week. Imagine if I had just laid ass up and taken loads... #9 - I would have started a chat line in the early '90s. Chat lines made TONS of money back in the day. People paid crazy money to be on them. Given that I don't really like to talk on phones I never liked them, but I could have made a lot of money if I started one at the right time. #10 - I would have gotten into running porn sites in 2002 (if not sooner). I was seriously under-employed most of 2002. It was the heyday of making money in porn. If I had gotten into it back then I could have made a lot of money and had a lot of fun. Of course, if I had done all (or even many) of those things I'd be a different person today - and be in a different position today. Of course if I went back and did it over there are non-sexual things I would do differently as well - like buying real estate earlier after moving to NYC. (If I had escorted more I would have had the money to buy real estate). But the bottom line is if I did all those things I'd be a poz, versatile slut and possibly a fairly well known porn star. It would be a very different life. Too bad you can't go back and try things. I wonder what it would have been like to do all those things… And to be clear - while I'm curious how things could have been different I don't look back at my life in regret. I've had a good life (with some seriously difficult times). I really can't complain. That's my list... What would you have done differently?

Not sure why I didn't do a thread like this sooner, but… my tube site has been up for a while - RaunchyFuckers.com - and I've casually mentioned that folks should upload to Raunchy Fuckers, but this is my formal appeal for you guys to upload your videos. Consider this your "engraved invitation". For starters there are separate sections on Raunchy Fuckers for amateur videos, professional videos and my videos. [And yes, I need to follow my own advice and upload some of my own videos - I just need to find the time to do some video editing.] The point is - your videos won't get lost in a sea of professional videos, and if you're only interested in amateur videos they're easy to find on Raunchy Fuckers. Now a few words of caution… You should only upload amateur porn - preferably video of you or video you shot. There's a separate section for professional porn and we take care of that (all those videos are cleared for use on the site). Everyone in the video should be OK with the video being public. Hidden camera videos are risky and often illegal - especially if the guy sees the video and says "hey, that's me!" and feels his privacy wasn't respected. Everyone in the video should be 18+ years of age at the time the video was shot. You take responsibility for proving that the models are 18+ in the (highly unlikely) event that a government agency asks for proof of age. If we see someone in the video who looks really young we may ask you to prove to us that they're at least 18. Do not upload watermarked video unless the watermark is for your personal blog, etc. And just so you know, once the video is up you will have the ability to edit the title and description of the video and even take the video down if you need to. To login and upload videos to Raunchy Fuckers simply use your Breeding Zone user name and password. Raunchy Fuckers is an extension of this site. If you need any assistance please contact wolfJD on here. He's my tube site manager for Raunchy Fuckers. He can even upload the videos for you if you encounter problems. Hell, if you're shooting good porn and don't feel like editing it, we'll even do that for us - just give us the source video and we'll take care of the rest. Also, please help get the word out about Raunchy Fuckers. If you're active on Twitter if you include the URL for a video page there will automatically be a "view summary" link under your tweet that will show the video preview pic as well as the title and the first 200 characters of the video description. For those of you who are posting your own videos and are also on Twitter - just let me know and I can credit you in the view summary for everything you upload to Raunchy Fuckers - so if someone else tweets about your videos, people will associate it with your Twitter account as well. (You can see that in action on many of the tweets we do on @rawTOP for professional videos).

It's been up for months - this is an old thread. But I need to publicize it better on here...

So upload some amateur stuff of yourself! And encourage other guys to do the same. In the meantime we're keeping you supplied with pro stuff.

I think the hottest compliment I've received are all the guys who want me to poz them. I'm neg, so it can't happen (so far), but being chosen as the person people want as their poz daddy is a pretty big honor.

It's a little hard to answer. I go from getting 2 or 3 in the course of as many months to not having any for 6 to 9 months...

At least around NYC black guys like the Jack'd mobile app. See if that helps.

I think he means it helps guys get over their fears about taking loads. Neg bottoms are notorious about not going through with bareback hookups in my experience. So PrEP should help them get over those fears…

Sorry for not getting to some of these sooner, but... Done. That name is taken by another user. Done. Done.

I see in your profile you're vers and OK with becoming poz… So, with those parameters there are some basic things you should know about bathhouses… First off, go when it's busy. Weekend nights are best - Friday, Saturday and to a lesser degree Sunday. Find out if the bathhouse has a 1/2 off special, etc. during the week - often that can be a good time to go as well. Second, laying on your belly nude or in a jockstrap means you wanna get fucked. Head towards the door means you wanna suck before getting fucked. Head away from the door means sucking dick isn't important to you (though you may still do it - but just to get the top hard enough to fuck). Of course, you need a room to be able to lay on your belly. So always get a room. I always find it hot when the bottom never looks back to see who's fucking him and just keeps his face buried in the pillow. But that can be counterproductive. A lot of tops need encouragement to know it's OK to enter - that you want them to fuck you. Next, there will be condoms in your room (or one will be given to you when you go in). Just thrown them in the garbage or under your mattress. Laying on your belly with no condoms in sight makes it clear you want to get fucked raw. Unfortunately some tops will carry their own condoms around with them. Always reach back to make sure there's no condom on when the top starts fucking you. Often when you refuse the condom guys will just take it off and fuck you raw, so don't think saying 'no' is the end of sex with that guy. And don't assume he's neg 'cause he's using a condom. Often poz tops feel weird about breeding guys so they rubber up, but as soon as they know it's OK they'll totally get off breeding you. It's not a bad idea to make it clear you want the load in your ass since some guys may pull out to cum. But realize that if you way "Cum in my ass" they may think you said "Don't cum in my ass". Phrases like "Gimme that load" or "Breed me!" are less likely to be confused in the heat of the moment. Otherwise just relax and enjoy the experience. Don't concern yourself with whether you're going to become poz that night - it'll happen soon enough if you keep going. As far as topping while you're there… Be assertive, but not aggressive. So if you like what you see, start to enter the room. If the guy shakes his head 'no' - don't think anything of it - just go on your way. And don't forget to check out the public areas of the club - steamrooms, slings, etc. Have fun!

Just curious what you guys think of guys who are on PrEP (taking HIV meds while neg to avoid becoming poz). I mean guys on PrEP can take a lot of risk without really suffering the consequences… Is that a good thing ('cause more guys can be piggy), or is it sorta seem like cheating?

I'm on PrEP. It's only effective when it's in your system and the studies have been marred by the fact that many of the guys in the study don't take their pills. Most of the guys in the studies who became infected did not have the meds in their system when they came in reporting symptoms of initial infection. When you're healthy it just doesn't seem important to take meds I guess. Regression models (not actual studies) suggest 90+% efficacy when you take PrEP daily. I've written about this and other PrEP stuff on my blog... http://www.rawtop.com/blog/tag/prep

Biggest ring I have is 9mm 1" diameter circular barbell. It's pretty big There's an album of pics of my PA on my profile page here.

Didn't know that... I know they struggle with funding and with keeping staff.

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