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  1. There is a group I call "the worried well" (a phrase that had rather different implications during the AIDS crisis). The Maverick Men guys are part of the worried well. They use layer after layer of risk reduction - which I suppose isn't a crime in and of itself, but they're so manic about it I think it's psychologically unhealthy. And then on top of everything else they're rather judgmental of anyone who doesn't think the same way they do with IMHO is the really irritating part.
  2. How much does the ceiling height change things? I've got an area in my cellar I'd love to install a sling - there's a cool arched brick ceiling right in that area, but at it's highest point it's probably less than 7 feet high and then it slopes down from there. I've also wondered if the sloping would be a problem since the chains would be different lengths and it wouldn't swing quite uniformly...
  3. I often hookup in the middle of the day or early evening. If I know someone is coming from work I always ask if they'll be able to clean out first. If they can't clean out before coming over I'll often pass and hookup another time when they are able to clean out. While sometimes I can push past the odor, etc. I really don't like shit on my dick.
  4. Breeding Zone was born 3 years ago. It's been a good ride so far as you can see in the graph below traffic to the site continues to grow and nearly 1.5 million people have visited the site over that time... (Click to see a bigger version of the graph). It's not just about how many people visit the site. More important than visitors is people participating. On that front it's great that the day with the most logged in users ever happened in the last week - 1404 in one day. There are now nearly 24,000 members but that's a bit of a fake number since a lot people aren't active. Still, nearly 4,700 have logged in at some time in the past month which is pretty decent. So a big thanks to all of you who've made this site a success. Please remember to tell your fuck buddies about it so we can grow even more. And if you wanna give a gift in honor of Breeding Zone's birthday - find a neg bottom and give it to him
  5. IRMA just tweeted an article I find pretty interesting... http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/10022664/Scientists-on-brink-of-HIV-cure.html Even when you're undetectable HIV likes to hide out in certain parts of your body - meaning ARVs can never get rid of all the HIV in your body. Well, scientists in Denmark think they've figured out how to release the HIV from those hiding places so it circulates more generally in your body at which point it can be killed off. Unlike a drug trial the results of this study won't take years to figure out. They could know the results pretty soon. If nothing else, this is why governments need to fund scientific research. Drug companies are focused on treatments they can sell and make a profit on. The Danish government has invested $2.1 million in this research so far. I see two questions here... First, are they just being optimistic or is there really a chance, after all these years, that we're going to see a cure of HIV/AIDS? It almost seems unreal and so many scientists before them have been optimistic about other approaches and failed. Second question... This isn't a vaccine - so people will still get HIV. In fact someone could be cured and then get it again. So how will this affect behavior? Will this replace ARVs? Will guys get into a cycle of getting HIV and clearing it like they do with other STDs?
  6. You may not think it's the start of not caring about the kinds of loads you take, but you just took a big step - from neg loads to undetectable poz loads. I've seen this happen over and over again. One day you'll realize you really don't know what sort of loads you're taking - you're just taking guys at their word. And then the next step after that is you realize you're rewarding guys who lie about their status and tell you want you want to hear and you're punishing the guys who are honest. And at that point you'll realize since you don't really know the status of the guys fucking you, you might as well let just about anyone fuck you. That feeling you have - how you love taking those loads - it's only going to grow. It's a one-way street. Just accept it and let fate take it's course.
  7. Why would you want to turn off Javascript? A lot of things will stop working on most sites when you do that. It's a bit like banging your head against a wall and complaining about the pain. Just stop banging your head against the wall...
  8. Echoing what others have said... I've organized a fair number of gangbangs. A few bottoms have lied and said they get fucked regularly when they don't - it never goes well with them. You gotta build up to a gangbang or else your fantasy will go badly and you'll piss off the tops. A better idea is to go to a bathhouse and lay ass up on the bed and let guys fuck you. Clean out REALLY well before going and then plan on spending as much time as you can at the bathhouse - 8 to 12 hours if possible. See how much cock you can take during that time. You'll learn a lot about your ability to bottom and if you have to tell a top to stop they won't be upset since they can move on to another bottom.
  9. Too bad you're not in NYC. I have a wonderful colorectal surgeon.
  10. A year or two ago I had someone offer to pay my way to IML (in return for some sexual services, I'm sure). I forget why, but I couldn't/didn't take the guy up on his offer. Anyway, with no spare cash for trips this year, it doesn't look like I'm going unless I get an offer like last time.
  11. You're assuming something that is just flat out false - that condoms = safe sex. Condoms are only effective 90 to 95% of the time. That means 10 to 20 fucks with a condom is the same as 1 raw fuck. Over time that adds up. Let's say your friend is 40 and has been sexually active for 20 years getting fucked by one guy a week during that time. So that's roughly 50 fucks a year times 20 years = 1000 fucks. That's the equivalent of 50 to 100 raw fucks. So don't assume the worst - that someone stealthed him. It's not necessarily someone's fault. People can do everything right and still become poz. The worst thing your friend can do right now is try to find fault and blame someone. He needs to come to peace with his new status. There are many many poz guys who are living very healthy, productive lives. His "rough road" is all in his mind. It's within his power to change his situation by simply accepting his situation and moving on.
  12. I thought it was the other way around...
  13. There are weekly poz parties at The Ritz (2nd floor). They're currently on Fridays, but they'll be moving to another night in the near future. I went once a few years ago. Poz-friendly neg guys are welcome. Contact Josh pozalliance@gmail.com for more info. Let me know I referred you.
  14. Sounds like it should be in the hetero bug chasing section. If you put it in the regular hetero section contact HungLatinDom and he'll move it for you. Just give him the URL and explain what happened.
  15. Yeah, they're probably just trying to show that the flu shots they gave out went to the people who most needed them. It may help them get flu shots in the future when there's a shortage. If they can say 90% of the ones we give out go to the highest risk groups then it strengthens their position. [but just guessing with all that.]
  16. I've got pretty broad tastes. Yeah, my favorite type is young, thin and Latino, but I have sex with all sorts of guys. You're on my buddy list on BBRT. I think we've exchanged messages in the past couple weeks if my memory serves me correctly. And yeah, this is my site.
  17. lol - You sound a bit frustrated... We've talked about hooking up before... Guess we should do it. My brain is definitely bigger than my dick.
  18. Just as a moderation note - you picked "Tube Site" for the category for this post when your post had nothing to do with tube sites. Please don't create moderation problems - you'll piss off the site admins and get banned.
  19. Unfortunately, not really... I sorta forgot about islands when I was coming up with areas. Gotta think about how to best handle it. FYI - there were 349 visits from Hawaii in the last month. I find it a little funny that 10% of them were from Hickam Air Force Base
  20. I've heard some great things about the Horse Fair from PortaUrinal. I'm a little jealous of you going... Have fun!
  21. DO NOT DO THAT! If you do it, the moderators will find it and combine it. All you've accomplished by doing that is pissing off the moderators. Years from now the two parts will be nowhere near each other. Keep them together in one thread.
  22. New story = new thread. Continuation of old story = reply to current thread. If you put it in a new thread the two halves of the story will get separated and people will get confused.
  23. Honestly, I'm not sure. In other parts of the friend system you uncheck a check box and hit save (say to delete a friend). But the friend system is bi-directional - you can friend someone who doesn't friend you in return.
  24. Hit me up - I'm in Harlem - easy to get to from the Bronx (or vice versa). Would love to be the one who gives you your second load.
  25. Would LOVE to fuck you. Not sure how I missed this thread when it was first posted... But definitely wanna give you a load and help you on your journey
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