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There's a little hooking up on here. It's not as good as I'd like it to be and it's one of the things I want to improve this year.

Douche really well. If you have a small portable douche take or refillable enema bottle - take it with you - you don't want to end early because you're dirty. Wednesday probably won't be the busiest of nights. Friday and Saturday are usually much better at bathhouses, so don't be discouraged if it's a bit slow... Get a room, not just a locker. If they ask you which room you want just say you want one in a busy part of the club. Take a piece of chalk - there is often a chalkboard at the bathhouse where you can write a message like "No load refused - room 123". Wear a jockstrap or just go nude when walking around the halls - you'll stand out more that way. If you need a towel, hold it in your hand. Plan on staying a while... The longer you stay, the more dick you can get. Keep your ass lubed until you have enough cum in you to do the job for you. But don't use too much and use a type that doesn't taste bad in case someone wants to rim you. Experiment... If there are guys in the steam room hang out there a while, etc. If there's a dark room, spend some time in it - especially if there's a place you can lay ass up. If there's a sling, climb in and wait a bit... But your best chance to get loads is to lay ass up in your room. But you can switch it up by laying on your back with your legs spread playing with your hole. On all fours with your ass towards the door can also be good. If you lay with your head toward the door it means you want to suck before you get fucked. If you lay with your head away from the door it means your OK with more anonymous sex... You can experiment a bit between looking back to see who's coming into your room and just burying your head in the pillow. Tops like to know you want them (or that you don't care who fucks you). So it can help to motion to them to come in. A smile, a nod, even a hand gesture for them to come in. Make sure there's enough light in your room that they can see what you're like... Be assertive, but not aggressive. So when you're cruising the halls and see a guy in his room, either wait for him to signal that it's OK or just go in slowly giving him a chance to say no. If you're in a steam room or a dark room and you're playing with a guy's hard cock - just turn around aim it at your ass and push back. Remember - the other guys are often just as scared/inhibited as you are. If you break the ice and make it clear you'll take their raw cock - they'll usually go for it. But no means no... If a guy says he's not interested, leave him alone. Related to that - tell guys it's OK to cum inside you. That will be apparent once you've got 3 or 4 loads in you, but before then literally tell them you want their load... You're young, so a lot of poz guys will pull out thinking you don't want poz cum in your ass. Have a bottle of lube on the little table. If there are condoms in the room hide them under the mattress. If things aren't working out with a guy, don't be afraid to cut things short. "I'm going to walk around a bit" is a good way to get rid of them. If a guy pulls out a condom just look back and shake your head. Half the time he'll proceed to fuck you raw. Don't be choosy... Only say no to guys you really just can't stand. Basically your goal for the evening should be to get a load from every guy who's remotely interested in you... Let us know how it goes!

I LOVE being called Daddy (or Papi if the bottom is Latino). But it only works with guys 15+ years younger than me - someone who's young enough that I could actually be their daddy... [Though Papi doesn't need such an age difference since Latinos use Papi pretty liberally in casual conversation.]

Just a practical question - where do truckers find enough privacy to douche properly? I can see getting fucked by a trucker, but as a top, wouldn't I have to worry that trucker bottoms are habitually dirty?

You'll never be happy with condoms ever again... You're going to want to repeat that experience over and over...

If you're in the NYC area you may have seen Erik Rhodes online before he died... He was FistFuck82 on BBRT... Apparently he had another profile on BBRT - does anyone know what it was? I remember being hit up by a hot guy in Staten Island not long ago - wondering if it was him... But I've got too many e-mails to go through them all trying to figure out which one might have been him...

Well, I doubt he has access to PEP in Chile... Maybe towards the end of the next fuck session you should ask - "so how do you stay neg when you get fucked by poz guys?"... See what he says...

Back in the day we used the word "uninhibited". But I see mild to wild on bareback sites like BBRT - bareback is assumed there...

Including HIV... Everyone on this board should get vaccinated against Hep A & B (Hep A is important for guys who like rimming), and against HPV (the cause of anal warts which 40% of gay men will get at some point if not vaccinated). Hep C isn't always treatable... It can be as big of a bitch as HIV. In the past it was always associated with IV drug use, but apparently there are cases of sexual transmission recently - though I wonder how many of those guys just don't want to fess up to IV drug use...

There was a time a while back (not on this thread) where you stepped over the line in calling someone out. Generally you don't, but even you go too far sometimes.

It's under Settings (top right corner), Then "General Settings" under "My Account" and then "Default Thread Subscription Mode"...

You would think, but often that's not the case. I like the categories here much better - avoids all that murkiness...

Hopefully you've hooked up with more than 3 guys... I get a lot of guys on sites like Adam4Adam and Scruff who want to use condoms or just want oral. My Adam profile is really clear that I want to fuck raw and cum in their ass and they still ask... But generally BBRT is great for raw hole, and Adam4Adam is great too...

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On my list of other things I see in hookup profiles that I'm never quite sure about is the term "mild to wild". It is usually used by the PNP crowd, so I'm assuming "mild" = sober and "wild" = chem sex. Or am I totally off base and it means something completely different?

To me kink = BDSM, and I'm pretty sure none of the guys who say they want to freak want to get tied up, flogged or have their balls tortured, etc.

I notice a lot of hookup site ads (often by black guys) that say they're looking to hookup with "freaks" or looking to hookup with someone "who knows how to get freaky"... Being a white boy, I sorta understand what they're looking for, but can someone please give me a good picture of what guys mean when they say they want to hookup with a freak? What are the chances that I match that description?

IMHO, a jockstrap makes the bottom look most fuckable when it's got a small pouch and small straps. Like this one (click to see bigger image)...

I think there is a point where you should go on meds, but provided you haven't gone past that point, what the meth guy was doing is far worse.

Gave a semi-anonymous load to a skinhead(ish) bottom this morning - nice way to get my week started.

The best I've had lately was HungryHoleUWS - by 7pm his ass was already filled to the brim with cum - I was his 10th load of the day and I passed the 11th in the hall as I was leaving.

I know the type... They tend to have more ritualized sessions with carefully planned and executed forms of punishment. What the OP is referencing sounds more dangerous - random, spontaneous brutality. There's a line and when you cross it, it makes a huge difference. People in the S/M community always talk about "safe, sane, and consensual" - it's important the top understand his responsibility to keep the bottom safe and out of real danger.

Well said.

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