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why is cheating so prevalent in our community?
rawTOP replied to LABoundanddown's topic in General Discussion
I think the problem is monogamy, not cheating. Emotional monogamy is good, sexual monogamy almost never works long term. I think wanting monogamy is the reason why so many gay guys are single. You can be committed to someone and have sex with other people. -
I think what nude_tomBS is trying to say is don't engage her. It's futile. Anderson Cooper is one of the best interviewers out there and he couldn't get anywhere with her... But publicity is good, for a time... There's a point where people have seen it and are over it though.
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So, I've finally picked a name... Randall Topper aka Randy Topper. Since noone got that exact name I'll give a (lightly used) DVD or a month of BBRT to the two guys above - subtenor got the name "Randy" first, and raw_n_toxic got the last name, "Topper"...
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I saw that... I wonder if she knows she's being interviewed by a gay guy? When you listen to the entire thing you realize it's just irrational hatred. They hate us but don't know what to do about it. She sorta acknowledges that the ideas her pastor is suggesting to deal with the situation (put us all behind a fence - isolate us until we die), is ridiculous on it's face and will never happen. But she just seems frustrated because she seems to think something should happen, but she can't define what it should be. But you're right - we have already won. The ironic part is while they talk about isolating us and letting us die off, having them die off is exactly what will change the situation. We just have to sit and watch history unfold. There are only so many people who have that level of hate. The others will not want to be associated with them and will gradually come to our side of the fight.
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Just got done giving a load to a 30ish Latin cub who spent an inordinate amount of time in the bathroom afterwards, presumably trying to shit my load out of his ass... Full details on my blog - http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2012-05/found-a-last-minute-cumhole-on-a4a-radar
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I had a fun hookup last night. Went over to this guy's place and discovered he already had 9 loads of cum in his ass. I was in heaven felching him - he just kept pushing out more and more cum and then his hole was perfectly silky when I fucked him... Full details here: http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2012-05/felched-lots-of-cum-out-of-a-bottoms-ass
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I gotta disagree. There are bottoms I've fucked that were indeed that anal and had enough money that the cost wouldn't be a big issue. Mind you, they're not very good lays - too uptight. I can also see it being used on porn sets - so maybe we'll see more bareback porn with neg guys as a result. I'm not sure the legality of that though - they'd have to consent to their HIV test results being shared with the other models before they knew the result. Imagine if one of them tests poz and then people know about it immediately 'cause the other models start telling friends...
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Yeah, don't back out. If you've gone this far in the planning, then you want it. You'll regret it if you back out and you'll royally piss off the top who's organizing stuff for you.
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I should probably mention that I put up a bunch of blog posts yesterday about recent fucks... http://www.rawtop.com/blog/ My sex life is FINALLY returning to normal. And tonight a fuck buddy from way back is coming for a 3 way with my bf
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Tops - how many different holes have you seeded
rawTOP replied to robup4it's topic in General Discussion
I've kept a spreadsheet since early 2006. In those 6 years I've given 217 loads to 131 different guys. I need to step it up now and give more loads... My goal moving forward is to average 2 fucks a week. -
Bottoms have dicks? If I never see the bottom's dick I'm fine with it. The worst for me is when I feel like I have to get the bottom off after I've given him a load. It's tedious.
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My boyfriend uses them with some of his tricks sometimes, so there are still some in the house. But they're all very much past their expiration dates.
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I cheated on my boyfriend and he found out
rawTOP replied to forevergreen's topic in General Discussion
Why do you have to move to a new city? There (probably) is a middle ground. Relationships are good, but the whole monogamy thing is a bit of a problem. The ultimate question is which decision will you be happier with in 5 or 10 years. Only you can answer that. -
THANK YOU! I owe you one... That's the answer I needed when I started this thread. Who knew you have to pick ltr for hookups?
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Being a 24/7/365 slave is beyond that... Sure there are moments like what you describe, but it's not so much about the scene as the lifestyle. The ideal slave is one who wants to give up control of his life and let someone else call the shots. At the same time the slave needs to be attentive and reasonably intelligent - a lazy slacker is a bad slave. There's also the potential 'boy' side of things, where there's a bit more independence than a slave would have, but once again that's not about an intense sexual experience - it's about a lifestyle of living with a daddy... I guess what I'm trying to say is you're talking about scene or maybe a weekend. I'm talking about full-time. Either a slave or a boy could work well, but whoever we take has to be into it for the long haul.
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My standard is "don't lie". I don't feel poz guys need to disclose unless asked and even if asked they can evade the question - especially if they're undetectable (and hence there's no significant risk to the other person). Being poz is a personal matter, but whatever you do, don't say you're neg when you're poz. The corollary to that is that neg guys have to be responsible for their own health. They shouldn't be taking loads if they want to stay neg (period). And they shouldn't assume someone is neg. They need to ask pointed questions and assume evasive answers = 'poz'. It's not enough to ask status. They need to be asking when the last test was and how many sexual partners there were since then and the nature of those sexual partners - did the person fucking them take loads from other guys, etc.? Ultimately, staying neg is a the job of the neg guy - he can't reasonably expect every person he has sex with to know he's neg and look out for his best interests.
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Personally, I think PrEP is a really bad idea. I wrote a blog post about all the problems I saw with it a while ago... http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2009-09/prep-is-a-really-horrible-idea
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You're hot boy, but I worry about immigration issues with you, and healthcare is a big concern since you're poz...
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Just thought I'd mention that I sorta put the search for a boy/slave on hold while we were busy with renovations. But they're over and things are getting settled, so if the right boy comes along, my bf and I would consider it... Lots of details to work out and we're going to be sorta picky, 'cause we don't want to ruin what we've got going, but now feels like a good time to find a boy
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Looking at the poll - only a little more than a third of you are undetectable... Wow... That many of you are off meds? Or do your meds on get you below 250? In that case then I'd have to include the next group and it's up to 56% where the viral load is under some sort of control. If you're off meds - when do you plan on going on meds?
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We finally moved into our new place and things are calming down for me. For the past year or so I'd jack off just to deal with the stress - it would calm me and let me focus. Now that that's over I'm going to try something new - and not jack off. If I'm successful it means all my cum will go in guys' asses. [i should start wearing my PA again - it helps by making it difficult to jack off.] Any other tops want to join me in a "all loads go in the ass" pledge?
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OK, I've decided to refine the parameters a bit... The initials of the name need to be R.T. (for obvious reasons). Richard would be a good first name since the nickname would be Dick, but I'm not limiting it to Richard. Here are a few options... Richard Topper Richard Topps Topper and Topps were some of the few surnames that started with 'top' that were somewhat common... But I'm not tied to a last name that starts with 'top'...
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The person who sets up the poll specifies whether it will show user names or not. Sometimes it's useful. The default is to not show user names.
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There are professional reasons why using G+ is important to me (gaining trust with Google helps me get more traffic from Google). And unlike some of their competitors Google goes to court before turning over private information.
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As of this weekend, yes, I now live in Harlem. Working off what you've said I could see something like Richard Upton... But it doesn't feel quite perfect yet...
