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It's ironic to me that this post telling us to be careful was the first thing I read this morning when I logged on. Over the weekend I received an email from a guy demanding $1700 and that it needed to be deposited into some kind of crypto currency account. He actually started off with "Hello Pervert" and said he had video of me jerking off to "questionable" pornography. He said he had access to all my contacts and would send out videos of me, and that I better not go to the "coppers" (that was his word, not mine) or else he would know and all my information would be released. He gave me the name of where to send it, along with an account number that had to be 50 digits long. You can't respond, or reply. Funny thing is, the email went to my junk file and it had a red "blocked" icon next to it, so obviously he had tried this with me before. I wanted to tell him he was welcome to send out any fake videos he has of me, I don't turn on web cams and jack off to kiddie porn or anything like that. He said I made my error by clicking on a link and he was able to send a virus through my computer and attach it to my phones and all my other devices. I highly doubt this. Has anyone else experienced this lately? I get the impression, just by the way he worded his email and certain icons he used, that the threat came from Europe or outside the US. I really am not concerned, but it did come to my main email address that contains my legal name, that was the only thing that alarmed me. Anyone have a similar experience as of late?

I've posted some less than flattering things regarding my sex life and I am sure this one will rank right up there. I started to get a piece of paper out and when I got to a certain number I started to get sick If you live or worked in south Florida, or have lived in major cities like NYC or Los Angeles , you can relate. Men from all over the world are there for business and pleasure. If you ever visited that old Club Baths in Miami you can understand as well. I wonder if it is still there today? I used to live at the baths that were on Broward Blvd in Lauderdale. The first, as you headed towards downtown, was fabulous. Not just the patrons, but I did the majority of the staff as well. When they moved across the street, something changed. They were checking backpacks, I knew the security guard as he had previously lived in Sarasota (my town at the time). I never had anything in by backpack that would get me kicked out, but I did resent when they had their little raids, where you had to open the door, sit on your hands, and they searched the room. I don't know how long that went on but it turned me off to going there. I started going to the baths on Oakland Park Blvd (is that still there?). But at the Miami baths and the two on Broward Blvd, I swear I could be there for several hours at a time and never heard English being spoken, and they were not just speaking Spanish either. Talking about "fucking by numbers". I took (or was rather fleeced) by the Atlantis Travel Group and took a cruise out of Miami on Royal Caribbean's "Freedom of the Seas". in 2009. The total number of passengers allowed was 3,634. Now, no I didn't even come close to doing 1/4 of that, but I would say I did four a day. What was interesting is that they encouraged us to be friendly to our visiting "out of country" shipmates and I did just that. Something like 70 countries were represented, it was impressive. Talk about a "captive audience", there was no place to run or hide, there were nothing but gay men and the crew. Talk about "racking up the numbers". I am not about to ask guys to stamp my whore pass port, but I would say I have done a guy from almost every country in South America, that's easy. Central America - not sure if I did Nicaragua, but if you meet guys at resorts in south Florida you really don't know for sure. Most of Western Europe I have bagged, no doubt, including Scandanavian countries. Now, all those "Balkan nations", I am not so sure. Asia? Well Korea for sure, Thailand no doubt but some of those other countries I never visited nor did I really ask to see citizenship paperwork. One of my favorites had a parent from Honduras and a parent from Japan, he had this smooth skin and I just wanted to eat him up. He lived in my geographic area, was about 15 years younger than me, and don't believe everything you hear about Asian guys being "small" or wanting to be "bottoms". He certainly was not. Sorry for that rather stereotypical comment, but I had friends that saw me with him and I was always questioned about that. If they only knew. I was sad when his visa expired and he had to leave. I have been on eleven cruises in my life so most of the Caribbean I can say (with the exception of Haiti and Jamaica) I have gotten some DNA. Most of the guys from the Dominican Republic I bagged either in south Florida or where I live now, Those guys rate! Some of my favorites - Morocco, Algeria and dare I say Lybia. At the time things were not going well in that part of the world and I was in the Canary Islands, but they certainly had no problem having sex with Americans, and I didn't say no. I had sex with a number of South Africans, the accent always throws me off but I did have a FWB who would come up to NYC from Johannesburg for Fashion Week (?), a clothing designer, and he was well worth traveling to play with. If I were to write down every nation my head would hurt, or I probably would get sick to my stomach, but I can say I have been "around". I never made it to the Arctic Circle, or Antartica or somewhere that remote. But if you go to Lauderdale during "season" it's filled with guys from Iceland, I strongly suggest you sample them. I am going to take a wild guess and say maybe 40ish nations, maybe fewer, maybe more, but around that number. Sex, and men, are just like real estate. It's all about "location, location, location". 😉

I believe that may be why Christian is no longer making movies, but call me pessimistic.😉

Don't bother. After you cross the Sunshine Skyway Bridge and drive from Pinellas into Manatee county, the chances of finding guys dwindle as the average age goes up. Sometimes places like Palmetto (the DL crowd), Ellenton (the outlet crowd on Grindr) and possibly Sarasota if you are near the beach area, though the past two storms may have chased alot of the tourists away, at least for now. Personally, if you are in Naples or Ft. Myers (I call it Ft. Misery) just get in the car and drive across Alligator Alley and check into one of the bath houses In Laudedale. You would spend more time on your phone or laptop looking for a guy in your present area than you would if you just jumped in your car and started driving. Trust me I have lived in that area and it is like a dick desert. They are old or near death and the majority of residents haven't had an erection in years. Head to Lauderdale man....

Wait.....there are 24 hours in a day. If you wanted to take 1000 loads in a day that would be 41.6 guys per hour. They would each have to cum in about a minute and 15 seconds. Personally, I don't think I know 41 guys I would want to fuck me, but that's me. Granted I am not in San Fran or WeHo, or Fort Lauderdale, but 1000 in a 24 hour period sounds pretty ambitious. I did, I believe 18 in an 8 hour period at the baths in Fort Lauderdale, but this was during my peak. It was a week day too, or maybe I checked out, drove the other bathhouse, and then drove back to the original place on Broward Blvd and finished my tally. This was years back, God I miss Lauderdale.

That scenario you describe. of not saying a word and leaving, is more common than you think. It may have nothing to do with "enhancements" either, it can just be that the only reason that person was with you was to get off and go. Happens alot.....

Does anyone know if Bluesky is totally moderator free and not subject to the kind of scrutiny that Telegram is subject to?

I haven't watched local, network or cable news since the election. Netflix, and HBO have my time now,,,,,,,,I'm waiting for the first shoe to drop. I was horrified when I picked up my iPhone to see that Trump was going to pick Matt Gaetz as attorney general. Wasn't the House Ethics Committee investigating him for sexual misconduct? So now we have a sexual predator and an ALLEGED pedophile at top levels of our government. Great, just great.....

It's not [banned word], it's been going on for decades. Why put on a label on it? Just do what the two (or three or more) decide on..... I have never felt the need to get the approval of others when it comes to how I behave sexually, nor do I announce it to the world.

I have never had that fantasy as I am hardly the paternal type, but the first question that would come to mind would be "so who's the father"? I think many members of BZ would be asking themselves the same question.

Just to play Devi's Advocate here - do all BBC's want their bottoms or "boys" to behave like a sissy. Because several I know find effeminate men to be a turn-off. Curious here.....

I saw this video (and there are several of them) and always wanted to know exactly where they were shot and if they are still even still open (no pun intended). The casualness of the entire scene was not like anything I had viewed before (with the exception maybe of SlamRush videos) but it appeared to me that many of the guys participating did not know they were being filmed. Now I know the bottoms were aware. But some of the tops that walked in and just stuck their dicks in the nearest hole didn't look up or around, or perhaps they didn't care. I know people say these were filmed somewhere in the Czech Republic, (Prague perhaps?) but I saw at least three versions (or episodes). It also struck me that it was during the day time, and not at 3 am, but I could be mistaken. I would be surprised if a place like this survived Covid, I know I saw parts of these videos prior to the pandemic. One of the more original porn productions I had seen in a long time. Anyone have further information????

Did you ever think of shutting up and letting people express their opinions before you try to prove them wrong? It might make some posters more willing to “share” before you get on your high horse and start judging people? Don ‘t think that your constant correcting of people has not been brought to the attention of those above you? You work for free, and I respect that… but I know of a number of posters who are going to the OP of this forum and tell him either you go or we go. Be careful Missy!

I went to Vancouver for the specific intent of seeing. one guy. I knew he was married, had children, and was hung like a horse. He met me at my hotel every night at 5 pm, he fucked me, shot his load inside me, and didn’t say much else. We never had a drink, or dinner or did anything social.. Thar we my fault . I talked to other guys in the Vancouver area, and they told me no such individual existed. I know he did, I got off with him riding his horse during the day , knowing he would fuck me at 5 pm. He was never late, and I was always prepared. I do hope ICU will come back, but I know it will never happen. It was a strange time, I know it will never happen again….

If you play your cards right I will give you the exact location.......via PM of course.

What I was referring to is that if misused, trimix can land you in the ER. That script is written for one person, and one person alone. The situations that caused me angst were guys that knew I had trimix, went in to my refrigerator and stole it and did an injection, and then put on a silver or gold cock ring. That script was written for me, not them. Everyone is different. There were mixed results at the ER, a man in his 50s eventually had his erection go down, and there was no damage to his penis. On the flip side, a guy in his 20s left my place, and hours later his partner called to say his erection had not gone down, and I advised him to head directly to the ER. For him, it was too late, at that time I was told he was not going to ever have an erection again. That was a number of years ago but recently i had yet another friend use someone else’s trimix, and his penis is now not really functional for sex. I made the “EMT” and “box cutter” remark because the older man, whose erection went down, was told by the ER staff that box cutters might need to be used if his erection did not subside and the cockring would not come off. Thankfully his cockring came off and his dick was fine. Some guys have a happy ending, others do not.

Trimix is the key. Four hours guaranteed. Just for the record, I used Caverjet years back, and that worked well for me. I just always remember to administer that before I do any substances, and I NEVER use a cock ring that I can't cut off with a good pair of scissors. I went to the ER with two guys that used silver or some kind of metal cock ring and it was a nightmare getting them soft and then sliding that damn thing off. I did not want the EMT's to use some kind of bolt cutter on them!

I posted about my struggles with HPV in the past, and it really upended my sex life. I had at least five outpatient procedures in the past four years with an Anal and Rectal Cancer Specialist. It made me wonder if I would ever "be the same". One specialist, a straight man in a monogamous relationship with his wife, told me that despite the fact he was considered low risk he took the three step injection process of Gardisal 9. Getting someone to write you that script, and having someone administered that injection, is not an easy thing to juggle, at least here in Florida. However, my infectious disease specialist wrote the script, and the nurse administered the first two injections, the third time it was actually done at the pharmacy. Granted I don't use a chain pharmacy, they quickly shot me down. But the place where I get my HIV meds decided to give me the last shot, I am fortunate enough to have Well Care, pay for the three shots in their entirety. My EOB's show that each shot is about $250, if you have difficulties with your insurance company I would challenge them. It is a vaccine and most plans should cover this. I guess what I am trying to say is continue to fight. As sexually active as I am, and my doctor at that time knew it, he never talked to me much about HPV. My life came to a screeching halt, HPV is no joke. Right now my symptoms have subsided, no itching or pain. My doctor said I could have had it for years, which means I could have exposed a lot of guys to it unknowingly. Talk to your doctors and get vaccinated. Don't let them give you any crap about your age, if you are over 45 Walgreens or CVS will say no, but if your doctor will write the script more than likely he will administer it.

I had a lot of sex on the beach when I first moved to Florida, primarily Lido Beach, Fl. There was very little police presence at the time. Lido Beach was not that far from a gay bar in Sarasota. Often guys would go out there and fuck when they had no where else to go. I knew local officials got wind of the situation when they removed all of the lifeguard stands at the end of the beach. If you were climbing up with a trick someone would yell “occupied” and you had to find another location. Despite the lifeguard stands coming down, sex continued on Lido Beach. Though you wouldn’t call them dunes, there were areas that were more private. I often stumbled upon guys naked, just laying in the sun. Some gay beach goers would put up the pride flag when the put out their umbrella and chaise lounge. During the day much of the sex took place in the wooded area behind the beach. So many guys placed themselves strategically in that area to see who was walking back there and then the game of cat and mouse began. At the risk of running across a snake, many guys went back there to suck dick. Again, little law enforcement around or maybe I just never encountered any. I never saw guys arrested or lined up and photographed for a potential court date . So what ruined it? The development of million dollar homes built just beyond the area, and people with expensive telescopes who had nothing better to do than watch what was going on in and behind N. Lido Beach. Many of these people felt that area belonged to them, when in fact it did not. Things are less active sexually these days, but there is still a strong gay presence on N. Lido Beach.

Wow, such different experiences regarding All Worlds. I found that place to be fantastic, I only went outside the gates one time after checking in. For me, it was not during CumUnion, but actually the month of March. Perfect weather, a very sexualized atmosphere, especially during the evening. I may have posted about this before, but my luggage was lost by my airline. The manager at that time offered to have one of his employees drive me to get some basics from a Walgreens or CVS. But I really had only the clothes on my back so to speak. It turned out, I didn't need anything to wear. A towel was all I needed to get to my chaise lounge by the pool. It was management that told me they had spoken to the airline and my luggage had gone to South America . I didn't get it back until the day I was scheduled to leave, and it didn't prevent me from having a great time. Many guys, who were locals or staying at other resorts, had guest passes for the day, so the variety of guys coming into that Resort changed almost daily. There were Europeans that were there for a week, I remember hooking up with a number of them. Granted, I am not going to be having sex, outside in front of everyone at 1 pm, but the evenings were very wild and I left a very satisfied customer. Nice room, great staff and an abundance of men. One of my more memorable "Sexcations". I am sorry to hear my fellow BZ members did not have the type of experience I did.....

I don’t feel I am being selfish, it is the cheater that is. He has a wife that can do all the things I can do, plus give him children. But like I mentioned earlier, if I were to say no, another guy would jump at the chance to be with him. He was the one that disclosed he was married, I don’t ask personal questions like that. He has been coming over for at least four years, he now has a child, and I let him contact me, I don’t text him or do anything to jeopardize his marriage. Again, I don’t think I am being selfish, he’s the one that has to deal with that when he looks at his wife after being at my place. I put that out of my mind, it is his decision to play, I don’t force the issue. I am not putting a gun to his head, you know?

The third item I added was CVS’s acetaminophenPM 500 mg. I get a $25 dollar a month benefit from my secondary insurance, so it doesn’t cost me anything. I know it is not great on my liver, but my gosh, I go to sleep almost immediately. There is a problem with being almost unconscious, so I have decided just to stick with the Xanax and lorezapam. I tried last night with just the two and it worked fine. There have just been some nights I felt I needed something “extra” but I realize I should not be doing it every night. A great nights sleep is a wonderful thing, but with all the medication running through my system I thought removing one from that 24 hour cycle might be a good thing…

I am well aware. I used both those drugs and my viral load has gone up. The pharmacy called me, to advise me, prior to filling the tamsulosin, that my viral load would go up since I used Prezcobix. I did not care, nor did my doctor. i have had a viral load of over 2 million and lived to tell the tale. I don’t give a damn I am too evil to die. With that being said, we found out the cause of my urinary incontinence. I take 3 mg of Xanax and two mg of lorazepam every day. I had added a third medication, an over the counter sleep aid that basically knocked me out within a few minutes. That caused my urinary issues. Once I stopped taking the third part of my “cocktail” I never once had an incontinence issue. From now on, I will be patient and wait for the other two drugs to knock me out. Thanks for your input.

I can't believe, with all the topics discussed on this Forum, that this subject has gotten so much attention and become so ugly and contentious. Some people need to get a life and stop being so judgmental. Married men have been having sex with gay men for years, in case you didn't know. My feeling are this, if they ask you, and you decline, then that is your business. But don't think there isn't another guy around the corner that will say yes.... Some people need to get off their "high horse".

Don't let a certain south Florida bottom know, he might be jealous.......kidding.