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Post a profile on Silver Daddies (hope that's right) and mention specifically you are not looking for cash, but love and companionship. At least I hope that is what you are looking for because if it something else (like financial gain) don't ask for that directly - you never know who you are messaging and a "solicitation for the purposes of Prostituiton" is not something you want on your resume.
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cd4 dropped from 1000 to 500 in 3 months
ellentonboy replied to tomzefis's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
The "reading" itself could have been off. I had my labs drawn the last week of December, and came back with a viral load of 111. My doctor's office called me and reordered the test, asking if I had been taking the medication as I had been undetectable (or less than 50) for quite some time. They wanted to make sure I was taking the medication as they have zero tolerance for non-compliance. They reordered just the viral load test from Quest and we agreed I will see them the beginning of February. Also, I recently began a medication that has proven to decrease the proficiency of my Prezcobix. Before I even started taking the additional medication my pharmacist called me and told me they had information that the two meds didn't mix well, but for me, both are medically necessary. Have you added any new medications recently? Don't panic, it could just be a false reading. A good doctor knows these numbers can fluctuate. What has been stressed to me is that the viral load is the important issue, T cells not as much. Good luck! -
I've enjoyed your videos over the years. I didn't realize you were the individual I had seen a number of times during play sessions. Your posts regarding performing in porn were an eye opener. Thanks for sharing your experiences....
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Always breaking the rules?
ellentonboy replied to lukesLapForLoads's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
I think there is a difference between "breaking the rules" and just making a mistake, plain and simple. I've posted in the wrong areas, and didn't take the time to find out "what post goes where". As far as my opinion on certain subjects, I've been told this is a "safe place" to discuss certain subjects. I've tried to contain myself and just remained quiet when I am repulsed by something, but then again some of my activities I posted aren't accepted or appreciated either. I'm still learning, it's a process.... -
I was always under the impression that a top preferred a perfectly clean ass. No previous sexual encounter should be visible. It's tough enough to be perfectly clean, we all know that real life sex is not like sex in porn, but we strive to reach that quality. I live in fear of being "dirty", of being a turn off to a guy. I guess I missed the email that tops might be turned on with a pre-loaded ass. But frankly, to find that group of guys is just another hurdle. I'll stick to the current regimine of trying to be clean as possible, I don't want to risk ruining an opportunity to establish a continuing FWB because I didn't meet the "hygiene" requirement. Maybe I am just a little jealous that some guys are not held to that rule, and they can walk around with various DNA in their hole. I just know the guys I play with would not be pleased.
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I had no issue, and actually the VPN wasn't even turned on.
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I don't understand the need for "venues". Simply get a hotel room in a decent area, and sign on to any number of sites. Use your web cam, promote yourself. There is enough dick in San Fran to go around, even post covid. You can check into your hotel, have food delivered to your room, and order dick as well. I don't understand the issue really, just confirm the hotel's guest policy and they may limit allowing people access to your room after a certain hour. The establishment I use just requires I come down to the lobby and let my trick in. I read these posts about how bad it has become, and yes I see that, THE DAY I CHECK INTO MY ROOM. I am not there to site-see, I saw everything I needed to see in 2007. I go there to fuck, plain and simple. So some homeless person asks you for a dollar, so what.? Move along, use your judgment, you'll be fine.
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Just give in, buy yourself a VPN and set your location as NYC. I did that for another Forum, owned by the company VerticalScope, who have hundreds of forums. Most are sports forums, but I had an incident where I used a VPN I purchased for my MacBook Air and I was able to get around their security. It wasn't the crime of the century, but I was able to get around my "ban" for the entire six months. I think VPNs are a good thing, in general. I believe they add an extra layer of security. Now I know the friendly management at Barebackrt.com won't let you sign on if they detect a VPN, but that is a different story entirely.
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Tender tongue. Is it a symptom of std??
ellentonboy replied to anonbugchaser's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
Yeah if you are seeing white little dots on your tongue or on any part of your mouth, an antibiotic wash might help.....to an extent. If it gets to the point where you are in pain and you can't swallow whole food, call your doctor. Granted this is a bad time of the year to try to get ahold of anyone who supplies you medical care, but there should be an "on-call" doctor. I wouldn't jump the gun and call it thrush, unless you are poz already or have full blown AIDS. -
advice What Advice Do You Wish You Could Give Your Younger Self? 😀
ellentonboy replied to Carlos1881's topic in General Discussion
Better from what? Being gay? Using "enhancements" Bug chasing? I am just curious as to why you would mention a therapist but not describe the ailment that the poster needs to be made better???? -
Make sure someone knows where you are, what room number you are in, and when you plan on starting and finishing. This should be someone who has no plans to attend, but rather a buddy or roommate who will look out for you to make sure you arrive home safely. Even if you don't, it might not be bad to mention in the ad that you have a friend nearby, though he will not be in the room with you. If you plant the idea in a person's mind that hey, his best friend might be next door if things go haywire, it might make a criminal think twice before hurting or robbing you. Remember, this is fantasy. So why not create the fantasy that your screams will be heard by a friend. Think about that......
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I just don't see the purpose of Cumunion anymore as I am not aware of any parties, or groups, or bathhouses where condoms are used. Because of prep many people has just dropped the notion of using rubbers all together. I'm not condoning it, I'm just saying I really don't see them is use any longer. Pre-covid I know the bathhouse in my area (now closed) would give you ONE with your key and towel, most were odd colors and way too small. They were a joke...
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Best cities to travel to for slutting
ellentonboy replied to Versbbbttm's topic in General Discussion
Philadelphia. Bathhouse as well as bars, 'after hour bars', large concentration of gays in downtown and south Philly. But here is the added feature, it's not too far from NYC, and easily accessible by train. Granted this time of the year is not ideal with the weather but from April to late October it's ideal. I must admit I have gone twice in January (I know, freezing) once to stay with my BFF and the other time for a circuit event - there was dick everywhere, I may be prejudiced cause it's my home town but Philadelphia has alot of options. -
Oh he's attended several years, twice a year. My bad, for not clarifying. It just seems he heads to CumUnion and I don't know of a time he has NOT come back with something. I know he has tried to mix it up, by going to different locations but he has gone on consecutive years. It's not like he's done the Ottawa-Toronto run every time. I know he's come to Florida as well for events. The guy has awful luck - it may be he's just sickly. I know in addition to STIs he's gotten the flu, but he lives in Canada and it seems every time we Face Time or Skype he's in bed - and alone!
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Wait - the OP's original question was something like "Do you fantasize about becoming pregnant - like a woman? Do I have that correct. Because that would be a resounding NO - all those years in the gym, and lose my boyish figure, are you kidding me???????? Childbirth? No give me the drugs and a C-Section if the Immaculate Conception occurs, but there better be someone with a cigarette available and a bar nearby once that kid is born. Now - do I want to make a woman pregnant. Again - NO! I call it the "21 year mistake" and have had conversations with young guys about the financial commitment they are obligated to once that paternity test shows they are the father. One of the advantages of being a gay male is not having to pay for private schools, music lessons, sports lessons and the senseless crying that would keep me awake at night. I am much too selfish for all of that crap. Now if a guy wants to have children, thinks it's a good fit for them, go ahead, be my guest. Just please don't call me to babysit when you want to have "date night" with your baby momma cause it's not happening with me.
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Oh the diapers give me the creeps. When I first got online a guy showed up at my apartment, neatly dressed, a nice looking guy. When he dropped his pants he had on these cloth diapers with the safety pins on each side. I didn't know if I should laugh or scream, but the expression on my face must have been enough for him because he quickly got dressed and bolted from my place. To this day I have PTSD when I see commercials for Pampers. I prefer boxer briefs, the over priced kind you see on cable television and then regret you spent so much money on. If you have seen them on cable tv, chances are I have purchased them. There is an online company, "Freshpair", I swear I have kept that company in business. They usually arrive in individual plastic packaging. If I open the box I leave them in their individual packaging, and if I think they will make me look ridiculous (and many do) I give them away to tricks, sort of as a thank you gift for coming over to play. I wish I had the cash back for the cost of the underwear I have given away to total (almost total) strangers. Don't get me started on jock straps, I hand wash them in cold water and dry them on various pieces of furniture throughout my place. I even have a special drawer in my dresser just for jockstraps. " Nastykinkpigs" is my current fav, I wore out my "Addicted" collection". I'm relieved both my parents have now passed away, and my sisters have left the state. I would never want them to find my jockstrap drawer. Let the apartment complex deal with it.......
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So you're basically a South Philly to downtown kind of guy, based on your zip code? Should be enough guys in your area to keep you occupied, at least till you go through them all. You might want to branch out to Northeast Philly, the "El" and the subway can provide transportation if you don't feel like driving.........
I was sexually active in Philly for about 10 years, in both the 19145 zip code as well as the 19111 area, so those locations offered a lot of guys to select from (and various types of men as well).
Happy Hunting!
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Well his history has been to go to two of those events a year and every time he gets an STD. It's like clockwork, he drives, he participates and in a week (or sooner) he realizes he has caught something. I can have eight different partners a month, approximately 100 different guys a year, and I don't end up with anything. Granted these guys were spread out over a twelve month period, were not in the same location, or even city and state. But I highly doubt my friend traded bodily fluids with as many men as I did over the calendar year. So what gives? Is it because all these guys attending the "cumdump events" are more likely to carry STDs, and I meet my sex partners under more conventional circumstances (i.e. online, telephone apps, the gym)? Or are guys who attend such parties just more inclined to be likely to have additional partners outside events making their number of sexual partners higher than mine? I could be on the low end of the spectrum when I say my number is approximately 100. It could be 120 with one or two smaller group events added in over the year. But I know for a fact my Canadian buddy, who has so few opportunities for group action, or action in general, has gotten sick at almost every one of these organized events he has attended. He can't leave Ottawa due to work reasons, he's auditioned for porn and actually appeared in one video, so he's got certain attributes guys would find attractive. But I SKYPE with him often and it's sad to hear him planning these upcoming events, knowing that upon his return he's going to be disappointed over the fact that he is back at his doctor's office, sick again. So to answer your question, yes I am surprised he gets an STD infection each time, because the math just doesn't add up. Or else he's the unluckiest guy I have ever met.....
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I spent the majority of my federal career working in government buildings and can tell you they are usually run down, dirty, either too hot or too cold, and often make you feel like you are in a time warp. They are dank, dark, no chance anyone spent money decorating these places. The furniture and outdated filing equipment look like something that has been hanging around since the 1960s. I remember being given a new chair for my desk, you would have thought I had won the lottery when it was rolled up to me by my supervisor at the time. Oh goodie! Look, it's not broken. Because I never knew of another work environment, when I finally left the north and was put in a government leased office in Florida, imagine my surprise. They had windows - that you could see out of! Central air and not broken window units. Yippie!
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BBRT or MachoBB? What is the best dating site for BBers?
ellentonboy replied to stef85hki's topic in General Discussion
Having been born and raised in Philly, I compare it to everywhere I go, and there is something to be said for "familiarity". I too have had the same experience with the no-nonsense attitude on Nastykinkpigs, but I have never used it in Philly, only here in Florida. You really hit the nail on the head regarding the "can you be generous" comments on A4A, it's everywhere here in Florida. I thought it was due to the economic situation in my area, with rents being outrageous and wages not keeping up with rising living costs. Here where I live in Florida if you are over 40, someone who is 28 or even 30, seems to have no problem asking if I "can be generous". I'll admit I have been a dick about that, reported them to management, and found that amazingly their profiles were taken down. However, they are just like cockroaches, they just seem to use a different email address, or hide behind a VPN, and create a new account. While in Philly, since I seem to be the "new guy of the week" I haven't been asked for cash, at least not yet. I am wondering if that will change the next time I visit. I'll look more into Nastykinkpigs when I do travel north this year. To answer your question in your post, I have not heard of the mobile app Taimi, but I suppose it's worth looking into. What frustrates (no amazes me) is that the same guys seem to be on the majority of the mobile apps (at least where I live). I suppose they can't be bothered to turn on a laptop, as if that is beneath them. I enjoyed your post - thanks! -
I have been dealing, since 2021, with the situation described above and am having another outpatient procedure the second week of January. I take tamsulosin in the evenings, I've been doing that since July of 2023. The PSA test showed I was at 1.4 - so with the normal range being between 1 and 4 my doctor said I was fine, no fear (at least at this point) of having prostate cancer. I am having labs drawn again later this week in prep for my procedure. I use Quest for my labs, and the results go to my phone app usually in 48 hours. I agree with @Close2MyBro that it's best to be healed properly before dealing with any possible aggravation in that area. If you have a partner or FWB or knows you well, you can still bottom, but this certainly isn't the time to be looking for some XXL top to fuck your brains out. My doctor has assured me that, if I take some time off and then go back slowly, I can eventually be 100 percent. I am following his words and not biting off more than I can chew, so to speak.
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Getting back to the OP's question about a triple penetration - I can only imagine the bottom having to wear diapers the rest of his life, or just the sheer pair. I really don't think I want to see that. The idea of two dicks and maybe a small dildo I suppose could work, but aren't two big dicks up your ass at one time enough? Cone on guys.......too much for me. I must be mellowing with age....
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I am glad to know that someone else did see that clip, I thought it was a bad dream. I don't ever recall seeing or hearing some of things that guy wanted someone to do to him. You know it has to be bad when there is an an announcement prior to the video beginning "This movie might not be for everyone", or something to that effect. They was NOT kidding, for sure. It seemed to be on track to be one step away from a "snuff" flick, and I don't even want to think about something like that. That is not porn, but something entirely different that I don't care to see again.
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I never thought of going to one of those events because I was already poz and I didn't feel like they would be any different from any other organized sex event. Most group events are bareback so why go to one of these, unless you may live in a rural area and really are not aware as to what is going on in your area. I have a Canadian friend who drove to two of these events, driving from Ottawa to Toronto, and each time he came back with an STD. I really felt bad for him. He's found it difficult to find the type of sex he desires, and when he travels to find it he ends up getting sick. I know I take it for granted that I live in an area where sex is widely available, I really don''t know how gay men today, who are sexually active, deal with that kind of isolation.
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When I first start the use of "enhancements" I actually wrote out a bucket list of things I wanted to do sexually. DP was in the top 5. We had one very large dicked guy sitting with his back against the headboard, I sat on his dick facing him, and someone with a nice 7 inch came in from behind me to complete the DP. Happy to report I sustained no injury, the top guy was like 10 X 6 so he fulfilled his role, despite being someone of a prick. The average dicked guy was much more versatile and fun, to this day I still play with him and we look fondly back on that DP experience. I think it's all about the positioning of the guys., and not making them feel like they are some part of a circus act.....
