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What are they going to take away next, lube? Feeling that it might make sex more enjoyable might make them considering do that.

I know there are guys who advertise themselves as vers/bttm and it has been my experience that in almost every occasion, they decided to go the bottom route. That's fine, that is their decision, and like I have said, I don't like pressuring someone into doing something they don't want to do. Now I have been at group parties or house parties, where there has been a guy who has been topping the entire time. Yet when someone else entered the house, he suddenly had the urge to bottom and put on a show for all to see. I do believe there are guys who lean heavily towards the top side, but on occasion will bottom for someone they feel is incredibly attractive or has some other attribute they haven't found in other tops online or in the area. However when it comes to the vers/bttm issue, I have never had a situation where a bottom suddenly has this earth shattering revelation and stands up and says "I am going to top". It has never happened in my presence. Maybe I am going to the wrong parties, I don't know.

Thanks for that. I am glad I don't seem to have early stage dementia. I know it was a life time ago, what really hit home was when you mentioned every one coming in the back door. To be honest, I don't ever remember seeing the front door, you spent more time in there than I did. I don't ever recall walking into a bar and almost immediately getting nailed in the men's room. Like I said, I was embarrassed, I felt I better buy a beer considering they allowed me to have sex with no questions asked. I bought that Corona, and I left by the back door. It all happened so fast I have to tell you, to this day I still can't rap my mind around that place. When I was there, it seemed to be empty, except for the guy who did me the favor of shoving his dick in me and leaving some DNA behind. The bartender was so nonchalant, I just remember how small and unassuming that bar appeared when I initially drove by it, and for some reason I went back and found where to park and, well, the rest I have already talked about. I am so sorry to hear that area is gone. All in the name of urban renewal, that sucks. I hate to say this, but, I am not a fan of "change". I wish some things would just stay the same but I know my opinion is not shared by many. Thanks again...

I remember a bar in Lauderdale called the Cubby Hole. Small place, a pool table just as you walked in the door. Didn't have much business but the one time I was there a hot man came out of nowhere and fucked the hell out of me in a bathroom stahl. He left first, and then I came back and ordered a Corona. Uncomfortable thing about that situation was I ran into the owner/bartender at an IGBO event (International Gay Bowling Organization) and he remembered me as the blonde guy coming out of his men's room pulling up his pants and trying to get his tank top back on. Apparently he and his partner/husband owned the place. I think it was on Sunrise but I could be mistaken. A real "hole in the wall" type of bar, but I did just fine there. I often wonder if it is still in business.

I swear I see one individual that we all know who is still on Telegram asking people to do that for him. I don't know what is wrong with that guy but I have seen his name and full address on various sites and I wonder what the hell is going on? I suppose it's a fetish, like a lot of things. But I wonder if he's had any repercussions, have people shown up at his house, what about his family? It's insanity if you ask me, but, hey I have had a certain D-List porn performer in my house for days who virtually terrorized everyone who happened to be there, with the exception of me. Did I ask him to leave? Hell no!!!! Friends thought I was nuts for allowing such behavior, but hey, I just laid back and enjoyed the RIDE.

I wouldn't stoop to such levels to get a "card carrying bottom" to top me........much. Now, there have been instances where I was hoping the guy might flip out of boredom (i.e. no total tops in sight). But I am not of the opinion that is is okay to try to pressure someone to do something that the are not normally inclined to do. If he asks, sure. But I am not going to beg and plead. Tops are like buses, if you miss one, there is always another one around the corner.

Being a guest doesn't help, how about revealing yourself here. Oh wait, your post was from 2022 I don't think it's happening.

There are a few posters on here who are very good at exposing people on the internet, those posted saw record "views". You might get lucky and that poster will contact you. Don't want to give out any screen names, that wouldn't be cool. But keep your fingers crossed you may hear from someone😉

What I like about Inn Leather is that I am not constantly being warned about my behavior. Case in point - I stayed at a place by the beach that was combined with a formerly straight guest house. Now , right across the street, was a high rise condo - and sure, residents could see the pool area. The owner, who was nice to be during the construction phase, was having no part of me being nude by the pool. I was like WTF, isn't that what I am paying for? There were European guys there, who were nude, and he said nothing to them. For me, it was like, put your bathing suit back on. After two days, he said that he was over booked and I was going to be transferred to another guest house, that I could actually see from my current spot. The owner was a jovial guy from Minnesota, who had a handyman/bf perhaps who I know I had hooked up with at the baths in Fort Lauderdale in years past. He didn't care if I was naked. I wasn't out there sucking dick or in a sling, I knew I wasn't in Palm Springs for God's sake. But he didn't care if I used the float in the pool to lay around naked. Those two locations were moderately expensive, but again, it was not the "scene" that Inn Leather offers. I can say on weekends the crowd is much younger, guys who are off from work come up for day passes, Sometimes during the week locals come in, but to say everyone is in their 60s. that was not my experience, There were guys who had booked rooms, who were from out of state, that were in their 30s and 40s, some 50s, mostly 'couples" who enjoyed the freedom that Inn Leather offers you. No, it's not full of frills, it's just a clean "fuck joint" where you can be yourself, enjoy the sling and if you are so inclined you can leave your curtains open and see who might just want to pop in for a minute and "pop" into you, if you are lucky. If someone fears there is rampant drug use, I can tell you I did not see anything in the open with the exception of someone smoking weed. No one was openly doing meth, something I saw first hand in Palm Springs with the owner of the now defunct Inn Exhile standing right behind me, watching the guy. So Inn Leather did not have the "methy" kind of atmosphere that I have seen referenced here. Maybe all the self righteous, judgmental individuals on this platform want to spend the extra 50 or 75 dollars a night so that they aren't offended by the use of party favors. Frankly, at Inn Leather it was my experience that it was all done behind closed doors. I am sorry to hear someone had a bad experience there because I found the guys in Lauderdale to be a bit younger than those in Palm Springs, especially week day passes. I have spent multiple vacations in both areas and that is just my opinion. Maybe the poster was just there on an "off week" perhaps??

I usually start sucking a dick the way I like to. All the way down the shaft, and once it's wet I start using one hand. If a guy wants it done in a particular way, I do it. I have had the "no hands rule" and the "swallow it whole" routine. My feeling is I want the guy to be happy and to get him off. I feel sucking someone's dick is like an invite to a party, if you're good and entertaining, they ask you back. If you are terrible at what they want, they ask you to leave and never contact you again. I avoid the latter, I aim to please.

Truer words were never spoken. I too have had 9 inch dicks who were awful fucks, and yet a 6 inch dick comes along and knows what he is doing and how to get a bottom off. Complaining because I am too tight because they expect 9 or 9.5 inches to slide in like it's an everyday occurrence is crazy. The very least they can do is give a guy a minute to get used to it and then go from there.

It’s the fucking, it’s not necessarily the load, that’s just icing on the cake so to speak. For me, it’s the climax to all the “back and forth” messages, the online flirting. Giving a true account as to what you want and now you are finally getting him, and he’s doing what you had hoped for. If I am there, it’s because I want to be and because I wanted to be with him. The load, well like i said, is secondary.

What i find unsettling about Sniffies is you set up a time, and in my case, I gave out my address. Since there is security here, he needed my last name to gain entrance. So what happens, he doesn’t show. However he has my location and my name now. I have posted in the past that my previous apartment should have had a turnstile out front, with all the guys coming in and out, and in and out. Guys knocking on the wrong door at 2 am, looking for me. The neighbors below and next to me were happy to see me go. So I ask the question, do I give up my security to live in a place where the neighbors know a true whore lives amongst them? I am sensing that guys don’t want to give too much information to gain “access” to me. i suppose “hosting” is not an option for me like it once was. I guess becoming friends with the attendant at the guard shack is the way to go while I wait for my Lyft ride at 1 am. God, I just can’t win.

I have been poz since 1996 and it was like someone took away all my concerns. Everything fell into place for me. I had no fears, could do what I want and where I wanted. I traveled, I didn't have to worry about work any more. I met some of the most incredible men and the most amazing sex. It was, and remains, total freedom.

For SOME people in this thread, that story is more reality than fiction.......

Actually I just found his profile - thank you!

Thanks! I live on X (or Twitter) I see more porn and video clips - I am actually addicted to it at the monent. I am typing that name into the search option as I type on my iPhone.

To the comment form @hntnhole - as a bottom I really strive, if not starve myself, to make sure I am perfectly clean. I am not of the opinion that guys like a bottom who has cum up his ass from multiple guys , or that I did not take the time to properly prep. I understand we are all different, we all have different likes and dislikes, which is great. But one of things that makes me happiest is when a top says to me, "you were perfectly clean, thank you for taking the time to do that". To me, it's just common curtesy and to turn off a hot man because I didn't take the time to prepare myself is something I just to want to risk. I am in agreement with you, if I can pass the "sniff test", I am a "happy camper" as they say.

Yes I had seen the two of them on Twitter together and then their profile disappeared. I knew he had a BF but my interest was in Kieran. Good for you, I'm glad someone had the opportunity to ride him. I knew he went back home so seeing him in porn probably wont happen again, I'm still incredibly jealous,,,,,,🤣. No, actually, more happy for you.

Wait? You have been with Kieran, as in KieranXXL from Treasure Islands "Slammed"? If it is the incredibly hung Australian, well, you are truly an American hero - LMAO. I take it you were the bottom, huh? I mean, why hook up with that monster dick and be the top? God, to be a fly on the wall for that.😀

When you are going to sign on to BBRT, just turn the VPN off. I have mine based in NYC on my laptop, and it happened to me over the weekend. But if I sign on using my iPhone, where I do not use a VPN, it signs right on. I live in Florida and despite the state trying to control what sites I sign onto, I can still get to BBRT if I just don't use the VPN. Hopefully, my luck won't run out. Good luck!

I can honestly say I am not optimistic in any way when it comes to politics in the US. I can say that personally, I have limited my posting since the election. Not because I am afraid of repercussions, but because I feel i have nothing to add to the conversation. I am literally speechless at the result, and I am concerned about the future of all gay people in the US.

I don’t know what to think. I am glad that someone commented and made it clear that it was not a drug overdose, as most people would jump to as a reason. I am not sure how much information will be released in the coming days or weeks, I would be curious as to what happened. Since we live in a world of social media I am sure more information is forthcoming, but I would hope people respect the privacy of his family and loved ones.