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HoneyBuns1980

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  1. I’m sure you mean well, but that type of fetishism of Black men by non-Black men in the world of M/M sex is part of the problem. I can’t count the number of times nor tell you how annoying it is when non-Black guys (usually White guys) at this very site relay their personal experience of a particular session and always find it necessary to include the factoid that it happened with a Black guy, even when it really isn’t central to the story or conversation at all. And, it largely depends on whether the Black guy is a top or bottom. If he’s a top: he’s the Mandingo fantasy. But, it’s a full 180 degree difference if he’s a bottom.
  2. Hell yeah! I’d totally be down if I had a chick friend like that!
  3. I never blindfolded myself there, but, I definitely waited in my darkened room ass up with the curtains and door ajar. Is the Dixie still the place in Hollywood to find that kind of hotel scene?
  4. If only the Breeding Zone Cumdump Network had events😛
  5. SO many factors to consider. Not to mention that we’re now in the age of guys going to places in the real world to hook-up only to spend their time checked-in on an app and watching to see who else is checked-in on the same app.
  6. Count me in!!!
  7. I’m still pretty new at offering a pre-loaded hole. But the most recent time I did over the summer at the park, the second guy recoiled and said “that was rude”.
  8. I don’t think he’s getting the (White) female demographic without Haley. Especially those who are frustrated with Biden but are still attracted to a male Presidential candidate specifically looking for a female running mate, which, I think is going to be more the norm now. Identity politics are here to stay. I still think Carlson is someone to watch for if Trump decides to go scorched earth with an all-male ticket. Either him or Abbott.
  9. THIS!!! I’ve been ranting about that at this site since I signed-up and have had people respond that I don’t know what I’m missing by not being versatile and topping. I can’t tell you how frustrating and maddening it is to encounter people who are unable to fathom that I know exactly what I want, sexually, and topping isn’t it. At all. Far too many guys think that EVERY other guy is just like them and wants to top, get sucked and cum. I don’t like any of that, and, like you, I make it clear that I don’t want to be sucked/stroked, don’t have any plans to use my dong, and don’t even need to cum. Does any of that sound like a top or versatile? Plus, when I go out to the baths or the theatre or park, there’s never anything about how I’m dressed that would indicate that I have any remote interest in anything other than either getting on my knees and/or getting bent over. Seriously, nothing at all. I just think that guys are obsessed with cock and ultimately want to be sucking on one or getting fucked by one. Hence, the depressing lack of tops - total tops, specifically - online and in the real world. I hadn’t even considered the meth factor as you have. Which, is far worse.
  10. I gave up on CumUnion earlier this year and am headed in the same direction regarding the Lights Out event, both held 2-4 times monthly, respectively, at a local bathhouse. Both events are too NBB for me: Nothing But Bottoms.
  11. Sunday at the bathhouse. This effeminate vers White guy kept cruising me as I wore my sissy uniform for the lights out event. Unfortunately, he wanted to suck me, which, I’m not into at all, but I did agree to lay down on the bed with him and jerk his lubed cock for him. Fortunately, a hung White top I had been eyeing joined us and bent him over while I positioned myself underneath with my mouth open as they fucked. It was Non-Nom City and a mouthful of a warm and creamy reward after about 5 minutes. Was also my only action during an entire 8hr visit, and pretty much reinforced why I don’t even bother with that place anymore.
  12. Meh. Sniffies is still a total dead zone for me. BBRT, too.
  13. Oh, THAT’S probably what that was. Someone tried that with me by text at the number I listed at the Network - it’s a Google Voice number - last year. No idea if I posted a picture, but, I responded that if exposing me to my family and friends was really his plan, he should at least use one of my better ones.
  14. I definitely prefer mature tops, and it has nothing to do with any fetish or daddy issues. If I had a regular mature top in my area in the real world, I’d have no reason to try finding one online.
  15. I definitely want it in my tummy by way of my butt.
  16. I don’t know what you’re seeing in Harris. I don’t think we’ve seen an empty suit like her as VP since Quayle.
  17. “PLEASE don’t cum inside me!” Those days are long gone for me.
  18. I’ve been practicing self-suck and self-fuck. Man, self-sucking is REALLY difficult! I mean physically uncomfortable! I definitely could use some assistance at it from someone who knows how to do it.
  19. Other than Tucker Carlson, there’s none out there. Unless you think an unholy alliance with DeSatan is the way forward. I’m thinking they’re going to want that female swing vote demographic that typically votes Democratic. I don’t think they’ll get it with Trump as the GOP nominee if he’s standing there with another gas bag White guy like him. As long as the MSM keeps pushing the Haley-is-the-most-qualified narrative (which, I believe they are/will), the #2 spot is hers to lose. The question then - for her - would be: is she willing to stoop that low? I think it’s 50/50. Whereas, DeSatan would jump at the opportunity - it’d be the only way he ever makes it to the White House, and would give him an edge over Newsom if/when they do finally square off - I still wouldn’t be surprised if Tim Scott found his way back into the mix if Haley shows any apprehension.
  20. What I hate are darkroom or lights out events at the bath where the staff gives out those stupid glow rings with the different colours indicating top/bottom/versatile. With everyone (but me) walking around with those things, it is no longer a lights out situation.
  21. I’m still not 100% comfortable being blindfolded yet. But will do it occasionally at the darkroom event at the bath. But, I’ve yet to host such a scene at home. I’d have to REALLY trust someone for that.
  22. He won’t be able to overcome Haley and her “woman of color” trump card - no pun - that she’ll use when it’s convenient to counter what the Dems are offering. She’ll be Trump’s running mate and will eat Harris for breakfast, lunch and dinner in a debate. Plus, Trump selecting her gives the GOP the opportunity to pat itself on the back whilst boasting to anyone who’ll listen that they’re not racist or sexist.
  23. I’m trying to give you the benefit of the doubt that you understand I do not need to be lectured and do know that difference between attraction and respect. As I clearly stated, I referred to MY personal observation. Maybe the place where you go is different from that, I don’t know You/we can talk about how respectful and accepting YOU apparently are towards everyone, but, I think it’s an inaccurate portrayal to ignore the existence of what I alluded to on a non-trans-centric theme night. I clearly stated that I don’t sissy that walk at the baths on those nights. Others do, and are generally relegated to wallflower status in doing so. From my personal observation, I’m not 100% convinced it’s a mere matter of attraction. And, I’ve never seen a FTM at the bath on a non-trans-centric night. Regardless how many people can say online how welcoming they WOULD be, in the real world it might not actually be the case. If it were, I think there’d be more of ‘em there on “regular” nights rather than having to set aside 1 night monthly where they can feel comfortable.
  24. I’ve gone to a bathhouse on a trans-centric theme night, but it was primarily masculine cis dudes and the occasional FTM or guys like me who, while not trying to pass as trans, definitely identify more with the sissy/femme/non-masculine category. But, I’ve also gone on a non-trans-centric night (definitely NOT dressed in my sissy uniform) and gotten the vibe that anything even remotely feminine or non-cis male isn’t welcomed at all. Maybe there’s a reason a bathhouse isn’t necessarily the same as a sex club.
  25. I’m interested 😊
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