TallAussieBtm
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"Lazy top" is definitely how I would describe them! 🤮 And yes I mean it negatively, sorry! 😃 Not that much fun when there's no mutual action. I used to see a guy occasionally that had a massively fat cock but not excessively long (6"?). He seemed to have had so much trouble getting it into guys, in the past, that his thing now was to work it in very slowly and then just stay unmoving with his cock inside you. "To let you get used to it", he'd say. And only after about 20-30-40 minutes of this, move it around for a minute or two - fairly hard in the end - before he came. Now, I didn't really have much difficulty taking the fatness of it tbh. But no amount of encouragement or cajoling could get him to move it around a bit more to give me some pleasure. Because it's the friction of the in and out that delivers the anal delight. I don't want my arse simply sitting dilated like with a fat butt plug! I gave up after about the seventh or eighth time with no progress. It was just boring. 🤷♂️
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Yes. At least Squirt is pretty vigilant and responsive to reports. I've also had a heap of 5 day membership extensions for reporting spam. Which mostly seems to come in the chat section these days, rather than email messages.
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You're entitled to your opinion - as am I. 😃 But I think you're missing my main point that all of this seems to have intensified in recent years. Cigar-related events and cigar smoking are now being promoted as central - indispensable even - to leather culture; when that hasn't been the case to the same extent before. At least in my experience. And I worry about the health impacts that will have on our community. Don't know if you've been to SF Eagle recently in summer but when the outdoor area is packed, that smoke doesn't really go anywhere. It just settles like a fog. And in places like New Action in Berlin, where there's a kind of indoor smoking stadium next to the bar, that smoke ain't going anywhere. You have to push through a wall of smoke to get to the backroom beyond. And I'm pretty sure German bars are officially supposed to be smoke free. So adherence to rules can go out the window in the name of a more assertive leather cigar culture. Anyway all good.
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Dore Alley July 2023. And yes it's outdoors. But when you've got maybe 15-20 guys puffing away at the SFEagle, packed shoulder to shoulder in the heat outside, there's no escape from it. And if nearly everyone is out the back, sticking inside isn't really an option. I did put up with it. But it wasn't that pleasant. Back alley at Powerhouse a bit too, but cigars weren't quite so much of an issue there. Cheers.
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Bias admission, I am an ex-smoker of cigarettes. But I'm very over the ever-expanding cigar fetish in the leather and wider gay community. It's even starting to make a mark here in Australia, which has been getting close to a non-smoking environment at least indoors and for cigarettes in most places. Vapes, have admittedly exploded for younger people, though. When I'm overseas, San Francisco, Berlin, the sheer volume of cigar smoking in leather bars is ridiculous. Hard to breathe sometimes. And the number of specifically 'cigar' events now is concerning. It isn't sexy to me in any way. It stinks and is unhealthy both to those smoking and innocent bystanders. What ever happened to harm reduction and the quit smoking message? I fear for a new wave of lung cancer in our community as a consequence.
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I got one done 25 years ago but it didn't heal and I took it out after a year. My nipples are not 'outies' so the pressure of the skin behind the ring kept trying to push it out. Ironically, the damaged formerly pierced nipple looks more 'outy' now, thanks to the scar tissue! 😳
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reliable Web site to buy Viagra/Levitra/Cialis ?
TallAussieBtm replied to ryanroman's topic in General Discussion
GenericBuddy.com has worked for me several times. Good quality indian generics. Slightly convoluted payment process - they send an email with payment details. There's a couple of options including wire transfer and others I won't go into because technically the services don't support medications. Vilitra (Levitra) and Tadalista (Cialis) are good. I haven't tried any of their Viagra generic as I'm allergic to it! 😱 -
I believe him. Can't see anything in the story that says it's later than 2010; unless I missed something? And it just doesn't sound made up to me anyway. All good, though. 😃
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Do you refuse tops that insist on condoms
TallAussieBtm replied to jcklvrga's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
I have no problem with taking condoms, if that's what the top wants. And since I got my PA in April I should be using condoms on the rare occasions I fuck someone, as it's a bit prone to infection. I've given in a few times and fucked someone without and got a non-gono UTI twice already! Luckily not too serious but needed antibiotics both times! ☹️ -
Where do you find dark rooms? Aside from bath houses.
TallAussieBtm replied to btmdad's topic in General Discussion
...every gay bar in Berlin! 😜 -
If all the FTM guys in all the gin joints in all the world (who wanna commune with naked gay guys fucking anything that moves in a bathhouse) came into mine, I'm sure the number and proportion would be so infinitesimally small as to be unnoticeable! I just don't see why folks are getting their knickers in a twist over this. If you encounter even one, consider yourself exceptional and buy a lottery ticket I say! 😎
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Sydney Australia! Retired mid-22. Moved to Syd Nov-2022. Well, I guess coming from Canberra it was a no-brainer. Entertainment options. Vast social options. Sex options. Large gay community. No freezing winter weather! Hospitals and doctors readily accessible (including gay doctor options).
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Yes that's me. But being a btm confuses things a bit. Definitely not submissive! And go my own way. Lead my own pack of one! 😉
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Go for it. I'm unlikely to partake, personally, given I wanna be fucked and don't really enjoy fucking others; but happy to be watched and touched by anyone, trans or not, as I'm being fucked in a public space. I've never been fucked with a phaloplasty (is that usage correct?) But sure, happy to give it a go sometime! 😃
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In my view, 'side' isn't actually a real thing. It's just an excuse to put them in control of how the event progresses. Gives them better leverage to reject you after you've invested time, effort and possibly expense getting to a certain level of arousal. They can swing either way - or not - at their choosing. You have no control. I simply refuse to engage with someone who says they're a 'side'. "Sorry mate, that's not a thing!" 😃
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Used to love transitioning from one to another when going to major all night dance parties. "Three kinds of out of it", I called it! Quick onset alcohol until edible THC kicked in. Then when that wore off an e to get deep into the groove through the night. Minimal poppers but definitely some for those peak moments. No particular interactions I can think of but each can be a bit overwhelming at times. Best enjoyed staggered IMHO, rather than all at once! Many years since I did this, though! 🕺😃
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Did the 1980’s AIDS epidemic trap you in the closet?
TallAussieBtm replied to Caged's topic in General Discussion
Not to that extent. I was about ready to come out just when AIDS became a thing in the early 80s. It certainly caused me to delay coming out for a few years until my mental health got so bad I felt I had nothing to lose and did a mass self-outing via 20 letters posted on New Year's Eve 1994! 📬 But it didn't stop me having sex in any way. Just stayed in the closet and used condoms for quite a few years until PrEP came along. Life was instantly better after I came out. Didn't lose a single relationship and they were all actually better/deeper living honestly. 😃 -
I'm 95% bottom but have a good size dick 7.5, but I'm admittedly not that great at topping. And don't really get off on it. Mostly just in group situations where I feel I have to for the common enjoyment. In my experience, though, just about everyone, supposedly total top or top vers or vers, ends up just begging me to fuck them. Even though I go into a hookup on the understanding I'm 100% bottom. I hate having that conversation over and over and over again. Secretly they all wanna be fucked up the arse. I don't think there are ANY truly total tops out there. Which is fine, I guess. And why not! Being fucked in the arse is the greatest feeling in the world! But it kinda undermines the cultural ideal we've bought about tops and bottoms. Bottoms, yeah, just wanna be total bottoms. Me included. But truth is there aren't enough tops in the world to satisfy us!!! 🤷♂️ Based on my about 45 years of experience, anyway! 😡
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Is the experience of taking a monster cock worth the pain?
TallAussieBtm replied to luvblack77's topic in General Discussion
Whoa! Now that was one beeyootyful cock! RIP ⛈️🛻❤️ -
Or... Just go for it and let us know how it turns out! 😜 You never know how it may turn out! (Well, as the others have stated, we probably do, but you can only learn by making your own mistakes! 🙏)
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Generally no. Only if the person is out there hypocritically proselytizing against gay people. Then all bets are off. They have it cumming! 😃
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Only once. In a sex-on-premises venue attached to a sex shop. In a tiny cubicle (phone booth size with a glory hole to the nextdoor booth). Totally dark. Being fucked by this strong hot wiry middle aged guy. Started asking all sorts of questions about did I like fucking young guys. Told me he was a recently released ex-prisoner. Had a son. Did I fantasize about fucking having sex with his son. I was pinned down on my back with my arse up as he was fucking me, totally immobilised, held down in the dark and heat. As his talk got more and more personal about his family I was really scared about how he might react no matter how I responded. Would he be offended if I implied fucking his son would be hot? Or if I indicated I didn't want his son? Would he hit me? Kill me? I literally couldn't move in the confined space to escape if I'd wanted to. I just wanted him to cum and be finished. It took a while but massaging his nuts helped get him over the edge. Then he zipped up and left. Scariest moment of my life, I reckon!
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OMG is the Pope Catholic? Gingers are the *hottest*!!! My head or eyes turn unbidden at the slightest hint of red passing by or entering the bar. I'm obsessed! And yes the redhead rule is true - they all have big dicks! Or, at least, big for their size. The one or two I've met with smaller cocks just highlighted how high the proportion is with substantial wangs! 😜
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Bottoms, what's your favorite part of getting fucked?
TallAussieBtm replied to lovetobefucked's topic in General Discussion
Being held tight with my legs wrapped around the top's back as he repeatedly slams his cock into me balls deep, sweat dripping off his face and pooling between our sweat-slicked bodies in the heat of a summer afternoon. 🫂🥵💦 Ideally kissing as we go! 💋 -
Thickly furred pits look amazing, in a singlet, poking out from under a t-shirt sleeve. Always get my cock hard, especially on a late teens or early 20s guy. So fucking manly and sexy!
