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when i run into those guys on manhunt or a4a i send them a note saying 'i like your bbrt profile better.' when i fuck them i make them beg for my load in their ass, and i smile quietly to myself.
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the likelihood of danger is greater than the likelihood of pleasure, in my opinion. plus, mine is not a starter cock. i require an unhingeable jaw, no gag reflex and an accommodating throat to achieve oral satisfaction. better to find a man who wants to roleplay being a boy. did that yesterday and it was insanely hot.
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in my experience, about 25% of men with 'safer only' in their profile actually mean it, 50% will play raw if given the opportunity, and 25% say it 'because you kinda have to.' you're free to not check that option. when i'm interested in a guy whose profile does not specify, i'll say something like 'i'm intrigued by what your profile doesn't say...' if their profile says 'anything goes' i tel lthem that's my specialty. you can tailor your search around those terms.
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i put 'i don't like condoms. or sermons' in my profiles. cuts down on misunderstanding. if guys wish to make a comment, i reply that we're obviously not going to have sex, so what does it matter? if they persist with lecturing, i just block them.
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welcome. where in georgia are you?
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by the time i was 13 i was seeking and finding sex, both with boys my own age and grown men. no one forced or coerced me into anything. i already knew the seductive power of the catholic schoolboy uniform. and judging from the responses i got when, as an adult, i wore it out to Fetish Night.... they alays say that pedos are adept at figuring out which boys would be susceptible to their advances. they never mention that willing boys are equally good at finding the men. all that said, would i do it now? no.
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..........that was exactly my point.
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as far as rand goes, i'd call it self-absorption, not self-worth, but what-ev. a bit of historical trivia: macho '50s stud rock hudson had an average penis and was promarily a bottom. paul lynde had a huge cock and was a stone top.
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'manly/masculine' is, to me, a heterosexist cultural construct built on stereotype, and also entirely subjective and relative. ditto 'feminine.' caling a male 'less manly' than another male is an insult that goes all the way back to the first schoolyard. when the bullies called you a sissy, did you take it as a compliment? probably not. it was meant to rob you of your self-esteem and power. can't we stop using the language we share to hurt each other?
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i would draw a distinction between selfish and self-aware. selfish, you think you're the only one. self-aware, you know you're one of many. i'm 46. our culture now is not like it was when my generation's self-images were forming. if gays were present at all, they were either villians, effeminate nancies in silk robes, self-loathing neurotics, or paul lynde in the center square. my main problem with ayn rand (other than that she didn't know the difference between a balanced line of prose and a shit-and-anchovy pizza) is that her writing leaves no room for wonder, awe, mystery or faith. plus her punchlines suck.
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the topic is probably better suited for a thread of its own, but i don't know where the idea came from that a bottom is somehow less of a man than a top is. cultural conditioning? internalized homophobia? bad PR? anyway, i don't agree with the premise. also, i turned down 2 more married men this week.
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i only like a hole to be loose because he's just been fucked by 10 other guys. otherwise, if i have to tpss in some breadcrumbs for traction, i lose my erection.
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some men need to have their walls broken down, to have their vulnerability embraced instead of mocked.. they cry, you hold them, and they begin to heal. some men just need a boost over the wall so they can leap off and fly. a few hours ago i had sex with a guy who said he couldn't cum in my ass until i'd cum in his. i don't understand it but i enjoyed getting there with him.
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some guys feel like they need permission or an excuse to let their true fuckself out. on their behalf i thank you for giving it to them. i wonder what happened with them after you left.
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people have different definitions of 'pure bottom' and 'true top,' i guess. maybe fellatio is his way of saying 'thank you,' or maybe he felt it was fair to take your load after you took his. or maybe he just likes sucking cock. if you wanna get fucked and have your cock ignored, wear a jockstrap. or a cockcage.
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don't forget, average means that about 1/3 of men will have more than 6" and about the same number will have less. you could always do a ruler shot, and make sure the rest of your body shows in the picture as well.
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random thoughts: how often do you think the 'hung only' guys get laid? my guess is not very. i've had guys whose profile says they're 8.5" and when they show up i have to stop myself from asking where the other 2.5 is. i don't expect any empathy or sympathy, but i have the inverse problem. i'm 5ft5 and freakishly overendowed. that has its own set of problems.
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if you're already making excuses to yourself about why it won;t happen, you're not ready to move from fantasy to reality. don't be in a rush. it'll happen when and if it's right.
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einathens replied to DarkroomTaker's topic in General Discussion
conversation from 2 weeks ago: him: why do you care that i'm married? it shouldn't matter to you. me: do you fuck your wife with a condom? him: of course not. me: do i have AIDS? him: no. me: how do you know? him: your profile says so. me: i could be lying. then he just kept whining until i blocked him. found out a few days later from a buddy who doesn't share my qualms that mr. married got gangbanged by 4 guys, one of whose status was Ask Me and another whose was Don't Know. he took all their loads.- 39 replies
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profiles tend to have contextual clues in them. also, cheaters give off a certain vibe. and i will flat-out ask. downlow = non-caucasian guy seeking to cheat in secret. straight-identified = "i'm not gay, but...."- 39 replies
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my profiles say 'i do not have sex with married, boyfriended, closeted, downlow, bisexual or straight-identified men.' i think that's perfectly clear, but it seems like a lot of guys feel it's open for interpretation, or that i mean except for them. i will upon very rare occasion sleep with a couple together, but not individually, even with the other partner's blessing.- 39 replies
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i've had variations on this conversation three times in the last 7 days, most recently half an hour ago. him: your profile is so hot! i'm gonna be in athens on business and i need your big fat cock shooting its load up my ass... me: did you not read the part in my hot profile where it says i don't have sex with married men? him: don't you judge me! me: then don't make it so easy.- 39 replies
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i don't have many standards; that's one of my few. basically, i've been cheated on and i do not care to participate in making anyone feel the way it made me feel. also, i don't care to share myself with men whose word is meaningless.- 39 replies
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i do not have sex with men i know or believe to be married.- 39 replies
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