phillygwm
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For me, when I unload in someone's ass, I want to get every millimeter inside so my cum gets up there. Orally, too many guys would gag if you tried that. Plus, it doesn't matter as much as long as it goes in his mouth. He's going to swallow it anyway.
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I'd like someone unconscious (or mostly so.) Maybe buy someone a fix as long as I can use them while they're out of it.
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Technically, I've been twice: The first time I was with someone but we didn't have a place. We got a room, did our thing, and left so that hardly counts. Second time was in Dublin, close to 30 years ago. I don't remember whether I got a room. I went too early so it was dead. Managed to get a young ginger guy off orally. But I have self esteem issues in that kind of environment so I haven't gone since. I'm sort of worried about unwittingly breaching "etiquette" but reading stories on here, I'm kind of tempted to try, once I build up the nerve.
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Socks only 🙂
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Is Wearing a Butt Plug a Signal That I Want To Be Fucked
phillygwm replied to Webster9's topic in General Discussion
I dunno, I guess I'm pickier than many of you. If the vibe -- including physical attraction -- isn't right, I can't perform. It just happened at a BBRT party last week. I barely got hard enough to get inside and couldn't keep it going. Even watching other guys make their deposits didn't help. I thought it was because of a new Rx I'm on but then I went home and jerked off with no problem. But yeah, if I saw something in a guy's hole I'd assume he's a bottom. Whether I thought he was looking for now or for me, since I often think guys aren't into me when they are, is a different question. -
I want to fuck you until you're pregnant.
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Eh, after I'm done, the last thing on my mind would be blowing the crew 🙂 They're there because they're being paid.
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Pics of you with a hard cock in your ass
phillygwm replied to HotLatinoAss's topic in General Discussion
I've gotta say, I really like the body and cock on the bottom. -
Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
phillygwm replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
As a top, communication is key. I'm usually telling a guy exactly what I'm going to do as part of the pickup process. If he's hesitant, depending on how much I want him, I'd tell him I want head rather than pulling out. Or if I'm on the fence, maybe I'd just cut bait. -
Hot. Did you tell #2 that you had cum in there? If not, did he notice?
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Attraction vs Fetishism: Racial Preference
phillygwm replied to KindaBasic's topic in General Discussion
A fetish is objectifying. if you were ONLY interested in someone because of [whatever] to the exclusion of other traits, including personality, for instance. They're not a person, they're a giant black dildo, in the case you describe. And you might have a whole unique "scene" built around those guys, like race play in this case. Personally, I tend toward Latino guys but I can be attracted to others (and obviously I find some Latino guys unattractive.) I don't consider that a fetish. But if I sought out uncut guys solely because they were uncut, that IS a fetish. But ultimately, it's semantics. I know "fetish" has negative connotations but if you're with someone consensually and you both enjoy it, does it really matter? -
I'm torn by this one. Obviously, I wouldn't use the term "clean" but I question the value of asking the question, however it's phrased. Of course, some people are ethical and will disclose they have whatever bug, but others will say "Yeah, I'm clean, let's fuck." So the question becomes how trustworthy the anonymous guy in that dark room is. Just like picking up a twink. He can tell you he's legal but at least there you can use some judgement (gee, he looks 12 to me). Hard to tell a guy has syphillis by looking at him. If you're going raw, there are some risks that come with the territory. Some can be mitigated (i.e. HIV/PrEP) but others you just need to choose whether it's worth it.
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I'm "average." Maybe a bit on the thick side but if there's one thing guys like, it's my balls. If someone is a size queen, they aren't going to seek me out but guys can feel me when I'm inside 🙂 From a standpoint of giving oral, too big isn't great for me (or, I suspect, most people.) I mean, it's nice to look at and play with but I'm not going to take it all. Someone smaller will get throated and will generally enjoy themselves more than someone with 10". But maybe I'm unusual: I lack the patience for a long head session. I'd prefer a guy I can get off quickly and easily. Especially if he stays enough in the mood to get me off after,
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Do You Discuss HIV Status Before Barebacking?
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm not very sexually active and, for me, sex (or potential sex) usually involves some planning. I went away last weekend and thought sex would be a possibility, so I started back up on PrEP. If I thought I'd be getting laid more consistently, I'd be on it regularly. So HIV isn't really my primary concern. If someone wants to know my status -- and trusts me enough when I tell them -- we can discuss it. I don't bother asking because, aside from PrEP, why would I trust some random to be truthful about it in the first place? Even before PrEP, I know I've fucked poz guys for decades. Nobody ever disclosed to me beforehand; I found out later (or, I'm sure in some cases, never have learned their status.) -
As others have already said, you're a good uncle. But even though you're supportive and generous, you really should come out to him. He needs more than an ally right now. Yes, that might alienate you to your sister and others in your family, so it would be a courageous move. But your nephew needs you more than they do...and hey, if the smart, successful guy in the family turns out gay, maybe some will reconsider their opinions on the subject.
