phillygwm
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Damn, I love seeing a dick that's fully covered even when totally hard.
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Finding guys online for relationship
phillygwm replied to tallslenderguy's topic in General Discussion
I'm naturally cynical so I don't fall for the scammers. I probably rule out some well meaning guys because something strikes me as strange. I put my cards on the table and prefer others do the same: Let's talk for a bit, then meet (and yes, sex), then wherever things go from there. I rule out guys who are impractical. You might be my dream guy but if you're 5000 miles away, it simply won't work. For a serious relationship, anything more than an hour's drive probably isn't sustainable long term for me. That isn't to say we can't be FBs, or that situations could change, but if I'm in Philly and you're in Boston, logistics are a problem...and it gets expensive! I also lose interest in guys where there's a prolonged online exchange. If we correspond for a month, I'm idealizing you more with each email. There's no way someone can live up to that. So I don't want to plan things more than a week out, for the most part. -
Am I too vanilla? How are you vanilla, or not vanilla?
phillygwm replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I personally don't care to compare myself to others that way. Most of the guys posting on here are a lot more wild than I am. AFAIK, I'm more wild than most friends of mine. Ultimately, it's whatever gets you off (or doesn't get you off, if you're into that) 🙂 -
I've always been reluctant to do drugs. There was a lot of compulsive behavior in my family - smoking, alcohol, gambling - and I don't need to fall into that. I enjoy sex, even without the "enhancements." I don't mean to sound judgmental; I'll still fuck you! And I'm sure I've fucked people who were spun or high though I wasn't there when they were actually doing it. My fantasy (which I haven't fulfilled yet) is to fuck someone while they're unconscious. Consensually, in that they'd agree to it ahead of time, but someone who has essentially "left the building" and is just a vessel for me. 🙂
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Did he know it was you or was it too dark? If so, have you messed around since?
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I'm a top and I'm also naturally introverted. People never believe me when I say that because I have an extrovert's job, but I can feel uncomfortable at times. Sexually, an anon situation is one thing. But an arranged thing is something else; I feel sort of obligated to cuddle/talk after. I often wish I didn't have to. With a regular, that's fine but with a hookup it's just awkward.
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Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
phillygwm replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
I'm sure it's gone on for thousands of years. I can imagine a victorious army (ancient Greece, perhaps?) would demonstrate their dominance that way though I haven't seen any historical record on the subject. I must have been absent the day they covered fisting in History class. 🙂 -
So physical attraction shouldn't be relevant? Sure, if you're in a darkroom or hooded. And yeah, that can be hot occasionally. But if I'm not attracted to someone, it's difficult at best for me to perform. And I speak as someone who's been rejected many times in my life, and even moreso now that I'm older.
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Just like taste, it's a function of the inputs: food, drugs, etc. I'm sure there are probably some physiological conditions as well. I rarely notice an individual's cum smell, though I immediately recognize the smell wherever a lot of guys have left their DNA behind.
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The importance of a keeping a clean hole
phillygwm replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Even the best bottoms sometimes have issues. If it's an infrequent occurrence with a regular bud, I'll laugh it off (the bottom is usually mortified and I want to put him at ease.) There's always next time. But the last time I fucked someone for the first time, he was dirty. The smell hits you before you even pull out. So I called a time out, cleaned up, and he finished me in his mouth. When we got together again, I didn't entirely trust him so it was just oral, which is actually fine by me because he was talented enough to get me off that way and he enjoyed the reward down his throat. -
Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
phillygwm replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
From the bottom's perspective, I don't see the point. Even if the top respected your wishes -- and why would you trust some anonymous guy to do that? -- guys precum. If I were a negative bottom looking to stay that way and wanted to take a raw load, I'd be on PrEP. So the bottom presumably needs some education, though I'm not explaining things in between thrusts. If there was a conversation beforehand, I probably would tell him that. That said, if a guy asked, I'd ask him to suck me off (and spit it out) instead. I could jerk off at home. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I used to enjoy Adonis but hadn't been there in years. They're building apartments on every desirable lot so the owner probably got an offer he couldn't refuse. I can't imagine they were making much $$ there. Fantasy Island was hit or (usually) miss. There are also a couple places in South Jersey (Red Barn on 130 and Berlin News Agency on 73). Haven't been to BNA in many years. Stopped in RB about a year ago but it was an off-peak time so wasn't busy. There's also one in Montgomeryville which I haven't been to in probably 20 years. I've gone from the young guy who complained about all the old men to one of the old men myself 🙂 -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
There's a bookstore in NE Philly (Fantasy Island, made famous for being next door to the Rudy Giuliani presser at Four Seasons Landscaping.) I used to go there when I lived nearby. And I think there are one or two in SW Philly. But the 2 on 13th St. are long gone, as is the Adonis on Sansom. The bathhouse is still in the Gayborhood but I've never been in there. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've never done BarebackRT, I'll have to take a look. Sniffles was a bunch of games. Scruff is OK if I'm out of town but the people near me are pretty well picked over. Either they've rejected me or vice versa. And Grindr, which used to be OK, is now largely pros or people looking to parTy. I miss having a bookstore or movie theater nearby. Not that I was always successful there but my batting average was much better. -
I love watching a guy take a piss enema. I've never been able to give one, either I'm too hard to piss or too soft to penetrate, I did watch a guy empty into a bottom whom I subsequently fucked, while the piss stayed in. When I finished, the bottom made a beeline for the bathroom because he couldn't hold it anymore. I was surprised he didn't leak much.
