phillygwm
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I recognize I'm not everyone's type, especially as I've gotten older. That's fine; I have a type as well. I expect people to act like adults, which I know is asking a lot. Just don't lie, tell me if you're not interested, and give me accurate pics so I can do the same. In other words, let's not waste each other's time.
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Agreed. Sansom St. Cinema is long gone (now a restaurant.) Danny's Adam and Eve is still there but the booths are gone, I believe. Adonis is gone. There's still a place in NE Philly (next door to Four Seasons Landscaping, if you remember that press conference). I don't live nearby anymore but that used to be a frequent stop when I lived in the Northeast. I feel too self-conscious walking around in a bathhouse but loved the bookstores and theatres. Most recently, last Fall, I went to the Fair Theater in Queens, which was a lot of fun but from Philly it's not exactly convenient.
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I've historically been a top. Some medical issues over the past 15 years mean I can't always get hard enough to penetrate an ass (though Viagra helps.) So when I'm getting with a guy, I tell him I want head and will fuck him if the vibe is right. TBH, I much prefer to sit back and be serviced. And I don't really care how long I last; I just want to release down someone's throat and maybe take them down mine. It's funny, though: When I was younger, I'd shoot a big load and would be game over. Now I only shoot a few drops but I don't totally lose the mood when I do. It certainly drops off but I can finish a guy after I've cum, which used to be a big problem for me.
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I've only completely fisted a guy once. He was a Mexican twink, maybe 5'3" 110 lbs. He took 2/3 of my forearm. It was one of those things where the fantasy was hotter than the reality (my arm literally fell asleep and it was a mess when I pulled out.) Then he asked me to fuck him, which was a non-starter because he was totally gaped. Years later, I'd like to give it another try, maybe after someone has done colonoscopy prep 🤣.
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My first real job was minimum wage in a Radio Shack. I had a number of experiences where I locked the door and took a guy in the back. This was over 30 years ago. I have a much better job now and wouldn't dare chance it 😞
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Sure, it's hot to see a guy totally get painted but, selfishly, if I'm in a room full of guys, I don't want to jerk off at the end. I want the guest of honor to swallow mine.
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Tips for Seducing a Str8, Married Neighbor
phillygwm replied to atlfukbud's topic in General Discussion
I think a little subtlety could work best here. Make a half joking comment when he's looking particularly hot (Damn...looking good! If you were into guys I'd do unspeakable things to you hahaha). You don't want to come across as completely serious because if he ISN'T interested, he may mention it to his wife, neighbors, etc. and your rep is shot. This way, you have plausible deniability. -
Erect foreskin (if any) length preference poll and discussion.
phillygwm replied to hug's topic in General Discussion
The more the better, as long as it's clean. I'm cut and attempted to restore in my early 20s. Today, when I'm soft, I'm covered and when I'm hard it's still pretty loose. -
What turns you on the most that isn't cock or arse?
phillygwm replied to ff69's topic in General Discussion
Nice hands and smile hook me first, as I usually see those before cock/ass. But if were talking about someone already nude, a flat stomach is hot. Doesn't NEED to be muscular/6 pack. Could just be skinny, which is equally hot for me. -
A bit. I'm a Gold Star Gay. As I've gotten older, I find myself becoming more open to FTMs or even groups involving women (I haven't done either to this point.) I'm still much more gay than straight. I doubt I'd ever be interested in a woman 1:1, and even in a group, were I to do it, it would need to be a very specific "type": Younger and tomboyish, primarily. But I've recently had this fantasy involving watching a guy fuck his female partner, no birth control, and me eating her out when he finished, knowing that if I wasn't thorough, she could get pregnant. It's something of a corollary of another longtime (very gay) turn-on: Swallowing a guy who has fathered children and hasn't had a vasectomy. There's just something hot about swallowing someone who I know is potent. I've even had a fantasy about impregnating someone myself but unless I was 1000% sure she'd abort I'd never take that chance.
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LOL Nothing makes me soft faster!
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Losing virginity to much older man, what was it like?
phillygwm replied to a topic in General Discussion
So, as a practical matter, when I've been with inexperienced guys it's been a bit "messy". I've found, as with so many other things, that getting someone's (anal) virginity is much hotter in theory than in practice. I haven't been a guy's first in a very long time but it was hotter (though frustrating) orally. I remember one guy -- I was maybe 20 or so and he was about 17. We got naked and started making out. He came from kissing before I could even touch him down there, then he panicked 😞 I always said that a guy should be swallowed for his first time. I love hearing about guys' early experiences and too many were when an older guy used a younger guy and left him hanging. I like receiving no recip oral as much as anyone but I'd feel a responsibility toward making someone shoot like a volcano for their first time. -
Have you ever fucked or been fucked by a gay porn star?
phillygwm replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
William Frawley died before I was born. I'd totally forgotten about MTS. I recall the show (in reruns,) just not his role in it. But I grew up on B&W Lucy reruns and loved reading how he and Vivian loathed each other 🤣 -
If you didn't want it, why didn't you stop offering overnight services after the first couple times it happened? As a paying client, if I only wanted to fuck you once I'd have paid you for an hour, not the whole night. I'd expect you to take as many loads as I could give you in the time allotted unless you specifically set different limits up front.
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Are some guys just naturally gifted at sucking dick?
phillygwm replied to hedonist2018's topic in Cocksucking Discussion
IMO, there is nothing better than a good blowjob. I'm a top but there's something to be said for being able to sit back and enjoy myself while someone works on me, hands free. Sometimes I want to last a while, sometimes I'll cum as quickly as the guy can get me off. I enjoy sucking too, but usually lack the patience for someone who lasts a while. But I'll definitely swallow when the time comes. Have I had some awful head? Yeah; one guy was like a Cuisinart.
