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Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
phillygwm replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
I'm sure it's gone on for thousands of years. I can imagine a victorious army (ancient Greece, perhaps?) would demonstrate their dominance that way though I haven't seen any historical record on the subject. I must have been absent the day they covered fisting in History class. 🙂 -
So physical attraction shouldn't be relevant? Sure, if you're in a darkroom or hooded. And yeah, that can be hot occasionally. But if I'm not attracted to someone, it's difficult at best for me to perform. And I speak as someone who's been rejected many times in my life, and even moreso now that I'm older.
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Just like taste, it's a function of the inputs: food, drugs, etc. I'm sure there are probably some physiological conditions as well. I rarely notice an individual's cum smell, though I immediately recognize the smell wherever a lot of guys have left their DNA behind.
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The importance of a keeping a clean hole
phillygwm replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Even the best bottoms sometimes have issues. If it's an infrequent occurrence with a regular bud, I'll laugh it off (the bottom is usually mortified and I want to put him at ease.) There's always next time. But the last time I fucked someone for the first time, he was dirty. The smell hits you before you even pull out. So I called a time out, cleaned up, and he finished me in his mouth. When we got together again, I didn't entirely trust him so it was just oral, which is actually fine by me because he was talented enough to get me off that way and he enjoyed the reward down his throat. -
Do you still cum in a bottom who asks you to pull out?
phillygwm replied to blktone67's topic in General Discussion
From the bottom's perspective, I don't see the point. Even if the top respected your wishes -- and why would you trust some anonymous guy to do that? -- guys precum. If I were a negative bottom looking to stay that way and wanted to take a raw load, I'd be on PrEP. So the bottom presumably needs some education, though I'm not explaining things in between thrusts. If there was a conversation beforehand, I probably would tell him that. That said, if a guy asked, I'd ask him to suck me off (and spit it out) instead. I could jerk off at home. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I used to enjoy Adonis but hadn't been there in years. They're building apartments on every desirable lot so the owner probably got an offer he couldn't refuse. I can't imagine they were making much $$ there. Fantasy Island was hit or (usually) miss. There are also a couple places in South Jersey (Red Barn on 130 and Berlin News Agency on 73). Haven't been to BNA in many years. Stopped in RB about a year ago but it was an off-peak time so wasn't busy. There's also one in Montgomeryville which I haven't been to in probably 20 years. I've gone from the young guy who complained about all the old men to one of the old men myself 🙂 -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
There's a bookstore in NE Philly (Fantasy Island, made famous for being next door to the Rudy Giuliani presser at Four Seasons Landscaping.) I used to go there when I lived nearby. And I think there are one or two in SW Philly. But the 2 on 13th St. are long gone, as is the Adonis on Sansom. The bathhouse is still in the Gayborhood but I've never been in there. -
Tell Me Your Thoughts On Hookup Sites/Apps & Finding Sex
phillygwm replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've never done BarebackRT, I'll have to take a look. Sniffles was a bunch of games. Scruff is OK if I'm out of town but the people near me are pretty well picked over. Either they've rejected me or vice versa. And Grindr, which used to be OK, is now largely pros or people looking to parTy. I miss having a bookstore or movie theater nearby. Not that I was always successful there but my batting average was much better. -
I love watching a guy take a piss enema. I've never been able to give one, either I'm too hard to piss or too soft to penetrate, I did watch a guy empty into a bottom whom I subsequently fucked, while the piss stayed in. When I finished, the bottom made a beeline for the bathroom because he couldn't hold it anymore. I was surprised he didn't leak much.
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Less obvious details in porn that turns guys on
phillygwm replied to spannergrip's topic in General Discussion
I like to see the top's asshole twitching/prostate moving as he's dumping his load deep. Or the shaft pulsing, though that's an indication that he isn't in far enough 🙂 Also, seeing the bottom's cock dripping from the prostate stimulation (i.e. hands free) -
Yeah, I can see why your mom might have been...peeved by her sister doing you 🙂 So did you finish or were you interrupted (or both....awkward!)
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OK, gotta ask: Was your aunt your mom's sister? Your dad's? Or by marriage? And was she as good as advertised?
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The dark side of me (which seems to come out on here) is kind of happy. Maybe bottoming shouldn't be enjoyable. Shouldn't the top's pleasure justify any pain? Most of my sex has been reciprocal...getting my bottom off. But when I know that the bottom's satisfaction is solely derived from MY pleasure, it brings out the animal in me. But I'm admittedly speaking as a top. 🙂
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Many years ago, I hooped up with a guy who had a sling. Slings are great for someone who's just there to be a receptacle but for someone I want to have passionate sex with, I prefer the old fashioned bed.
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Depends on the guy. I could personally live without anal but he'd better give good head. But I have friends who only bottom so that would be a dealbreaker for them. Likewise, if I AM fucking, I'd prefer not to use a condom but I might, if I was really into a guy and those were the rules. I usually love swallowing cum but some guys taste nasty, for various reasons so I'll pull up at the end. And there was one guy whom I swear I was allergic to. I had a huge crush on him but everytime I swallowed him I had violent diarrhea not long after. I know that sounds crazy and maybe it was a coincidence (we didn't last long so sample size was limited.) Had we lasted, I would have kept swallowing him but would have planned not to venture too far those evenings 🙂
