phillygwm
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Younger bottoms only. Orally vers top here.
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Blindfolded Anon Bottom is a Friend
phillygwm replied to VersAlwaysLooking's topic in Your Last Load...
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When I was a kid, my bedroom door didn't lock so people walked in on me all the time. I was always able to cover up but it was pretty obvious what I was doing. I once had a bf who lived with a roommate. I think the roommate wanted him. Once we were having sex and he walked in "not knowing" (I liked being pretty loud when he was around.) I was inside my bf and would have been happy to let him watch but bf freaked out.
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Do you feel the cum when you're bred? How is it afterward?
phillygwm replied to anon11's topic in General Discussion
I've often asked this question of bottoms. General answer is you know when it's happening because the top is moaning and you feel the pulsations inside you. But do you feel the actual liquid? Most guys don't unless the guy is shooting a quart. 🙂 You do feel it dripping out and it seems like a lot more than it is. I remember my ex used to hate leaving the cum inside so he'd immediately run to the bathroom. I took that as a personal challenge and loved fucking him when he couldn't easily unload. I remember once he felt it and thought it would show through his clothes. It didn't help that I asked "what's that spot on your ass?" Did I mention he's now my ex? 🤣 -
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This made me think of a questionnaire you're given (in the US anyway) at the urologist's office. There are questions re: whether you can get hard enough to penetrate, whether you can climax inside, etc. Of course, it's written with heteros in mind. I can get hard but not nearly as hard as I was 40 years ago. Sometimes I can fuck with Viagra, depends on the guy and the vibe. That's why I often tell guys I'm primarily into oral now. I'll try to top but maybe it will work, maybe it won't. But if you're reasonably talented, you'll get me off orally
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Depends on the vibe. Usually, if it's something passionate/romantic, I'll go slow. But some guys like it rough and that's hot in a different way.
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Sure. Incest laws primarily exist to discourage inbreeding. If procreation is impossible, for whatever reason, society wouldn't have a compelling need to intervene. But it's still illegal because of the "ick factor." Likewise, ages of consent exist to protect the child and it's an inexact science. Maybe some young teens are sufficiently mature and maybe some above the age of consent can't. Personally, I could handle sex when I was 10 but informed consent is more than that. If an older relative, teacher, etc. wanted to play with me, I wouldn't have wanted to. But would I have enough agency to say no? And if I gave in, would I have been messed up? I've always felt there were a lot more priests, scout leaders, teachers, etc. involved with kids but in many cases the kid didn't report because (s)he wasn't emotionally damaged.
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Legal age of consent is defined differently in different jurisdictions but we don't have to get that far, since incest is illegal almost everywhere. Having established that one is doing something illegal, one way or the other, we can put aside the legal question. I still think informed consent is important, even outside the legal definitions. Normally, I'd say a father or uncle should have a good idea whether his kid is emotionally mature enough to handle it but let's face it: people in that situation are thinking with their little heads 🙂 And in a lot of instances, there's a power imbalance: adults are often authority figures. I was sexually active at 10 and I initiated it...but it was with another 10 year old. Just because I was able to handle that, I'm not sure I'd have been as good if it were an adult. Part of that was I simply wasn't attracted to adults at the time but part was the inherent hypocrisy: the same people who are telling you that sex before marriage is wrong are using you for their pleasure.
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I don't have any brothers but I've fantasized about imaginary ones. I saw my dad a few times soft. One of my earliest memories was when he took me to a movie (some cartoon) and I had to go to the bathroom. We were standing next to each other at the urinal (pre-dividers!) and I was trying to check him out, not too subtly, it turns out. I remember him as being huge but I was a pre-pubescent boy so any adult would have looked like an anaconda 🙂 He caught me and asked "Is this what you want to see?" I was mortified. He might have used the opportunity later to explain things but that's not how my family worked. I was way too shy with my older cousins when I might have had a chance.
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What happened? If you're OK discussing?
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I wouldn't be attracted in the least. I'd sooner do a FTM trans where I'd at least have a pussy to unload in. Never have (bucket list!) He'd need top surgery, though. I like the masculinity (even if twink like) and losing my "gold star" status -- on a technicality -- might be interesting 🙂
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Or at least explain to your nephew. You may need to demonstrate.
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I always found it odd why a top who was OK going in raw thinks there's added risk if he cums inside. If there's anything to catch, you got it over the last 15 minutes you've been pounding the guy. Obviously on the bottom side, I understand the point (unfortunate but...) but what additional bugs would you catch by finishing in a guy you've already been fucking?
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Question for the exhibitionists out there. I love watching and being watched but never performed in front of more than maybe 5-10. That was in an adult theater which, sadly, no longer exists where I occasionally fucked or got sucked off. I love watching porn of guys at places like Folsom St Fair where there are dozens, maybe hundreds watching or at least glancing over while walking by and I've always fantasized about doing more (FF/WS) while people watched but never have. Obviously, both have logistical issues but that's never an issue in a daydream 🙂
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I'm a top. I'd always considered myself average length but thick. As I've gotten older, I say I've shrunk a bit. Not really, but there are a couple factors in play: I don't get as rock hard as I once did. Chalk it up to age and meds. And as you gain a few lbs/kgs in later life, you gain a fat pad around your crotch so you appear a bit smaller. I used to love pushing through a guy's second ring, which I probably can't do now. So I'm self-conscious in a cumdump situation and it's one of the reasons why I'm preferring oral play at this stage in life.
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