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Funny. I grew up in a very homogenous area in Philly. There were zero black kids in my grade school in the 8 years I was there. There were 2 in my HS but they were a year or two behind me so I had no interaction with them. These were decent sized schools: 800 and 1600. The Internet wasn't yet a thing so I saw my first black cock in a porno. Then I saw a guy in a shower. My first black guy experience was someone from the Caribbean so he was also uncut (which I'd never seen aside from a glimpse of my dad once or twice). So I get his pants off and he's fully covered. I was trying to act normal and figure out what I'm supposed to do with it. I then realized it retracted and, when it did, it looked sort of like mine. So I figured what works for me would work for him and I started rubbing his head. Yeah, he screamed 😞 Sadly, I didn't get a second date. I still feel badly about that! I subsequently dated a Colombian guy so, I promise, my technique has improved!
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This is sort of off-topic but when I see an uncut guy, sometimes I can tell why: he was born outside the US or he's Latino American, sometimes Asian. When I see a white American guy, I'll sometimes ask (if we're one on one, not public) how he escaped 🙂 and whether the other men in his family are intact. It always amazes me how many guys don't know. They never saw their father/bros growing up? Not once? I was the only boy in my family but I saw my dad. Rarely, but I saw it. He was uncut, I'm cut (WTF, Dad!) But I was born in a hospital, he was born at home. Back then, in the 60s, they probably didn't even ask and my parents wouldn't have been the type to question a doctor.
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Nice. I think a lot of guys conflate "rape" with rough sex. As I said earlier in the thread, the closest I ever came, the bottom could easily have escaped and he wasn't impaired or anything. So it wasn't really rape for him, it was sex that I intentionally meant to be unpleasant. As someone who usually goes out of my way to please my bottom, this was pretty dark for me but I'd have to admit it's in my top 3-4 experiences, even 20 years later. Never really knew I had a sadistic side before that...
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I enjoy giving it rough to a guy but would never intentionally try to HARM someone. When I'm having a dark fantasy, I go there but would never do it in reality. Once, when I was young (early 20's) I fucked a much smaller guy and actually made him bleed, unintentionally. He was fine but in the moment my mind went wild and I thought I perforated his colon or something (as if I were that big! 🙂 ) Once I realized I did no permanent damage, I went from panic to feeling like a stud. Ah, the good old days!
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Super hot pic but wish it were possible for a guy to retain everything. How are you going to get pregnant if the cum is dripping down your balls? 🙂 I used to like enema videos. Watching a guy's gut become distended was super hot. I really wasn't at all into when he released it, though. Similarly, the only time I ever fisted a guy (I got 2/3 to my elbow) I could literally see it pushing against his gut; I actually fist bumped myself... So 8 loads in an hour? 7.5 minutes per load. You must be really talented. I like to think I'm good but I don't have a 100% success rate, let alone finishing them that quickly.
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Exactly. I've been with "straight" guys who just wanted a guy to swallow them. I tell him I'll finish him in my mouth but he has to reciprocate: At least TRY to suck me off for a bit and jerk me until I'm done, at a minimum. That's usually out of a straight guy's comfort zone so they'll initially decline. But most agree to it when I make it a dealbreaker. Especially if they haven't gotten blown in a while or if their girlfriends just don't do it right. I've even had a couple guys become FBs for a time and they became very comfortable with jerking me off. So why do I do this when it would be easier to just jerk myself off? Because I don't want to be someone's bitch. Some guys convince themselves that it's not gay if they get blown because they didn't touch the other guy. Harder to make that argument if I just slimed your hand...
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Almost certainly, he's been with many more women than men. I'm sure we've all done many different positions but we tend to have one or two favorites. Same with the top here. He probably likes missionary so he's putting the bottom on his stomach where he can enter similarly to how he does with a woman. Another reason might be that he doesn't want eye contact when he's fucking a guy. Maybe not emasculating or feminizing but dehumanizing (not in a demeaning way.) If I'm looking at the back of your head, you're just a hole. In fact, this is my go to position if my bottom cums first and wants me to finish quickly (assuming we're not doing dom/sub roles where I'll go for 1/2 hour after he's done.) I roll him over, put a pillow under his crotch, and go to town, where I'll only need a couple minutes.
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I read stories about female porn stars who took on hundreds of guys but, reading further, few actually came inside her so, as far as I care, that doesn't count. Then I read about the guy who was going to TOP 100 guys; again, unless he has 100 loads, I don't see the point. Everyone will get a couple pumps then he'll move on to the next guy. So I come here, where the guys tend to be quite a bit wilder than the general population. What is your record in one session for loads in your ass? I imagine this is more difficult to quantify but how many can you RETAIN (I've been with guys where I see my load starting to drip out when I withdraw). I'd find it super hot to fuck a guy who was retaining a bunch of loads but, as a practical matter, when I've been in one of those "take a number" situations, a lot tends to get pushed or leak out. Thinking out loud, it might be hot to watch a scene where the tops' loads are all collected externally and the bottom gets a cum syringe/enema at the end 🙂 Separate question: How many loads have you SWALLOWED in a session?
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This isn't going to be your typical BZ post; just looking for general advice. I'm vacationing in Porto and Lisbon in late March. Will be traveling with my (straight female) cousin. She's great with the gay bars but, of course, I'd never take her anyplace too wild 🙂 To be honest, this is also a possible dry run. If the US gets dramatically worse, I'd consider relocating somewhere within the next few years. (I'll be retired by then.) So just looking for advice: Where should I stay? We booked the Cenica Porto (which I can change if needed) but nothing yet in Lisbon. Something moderate. Not looking for a hostel but don't need super luxury either. Any bars that would be pretty mellow (we go to a gay piano bar here at home and she doesn't feel out of place.) In terms of splitting our time, I've initially planned Saturday-Tuesday in Porto then Tuesday-Saturday (leaving Saturday AM) in Lisbon. Is that about right or should I allocate the schedule differently? Anywhere else we should go? I offered my cousin a day in Fatima, which I'm hoping she'll decline 🙂 Thanks in advance!
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Sure.
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We have a few out TV personalities here in Philly but other than public events (emceeing pride parades etc) I never see them out. I get strong gaydar vibes from a couple others; one is a weekend meteorologist on a station I don't typically watch, but I do on weekend mornings! 🙂 (Super hot Latino guy with an accent.)
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Yep. I remember the student union and library buildings were cruisy. There were a couple department stores, ABS, theaters, etc. Most/all are now shut down. I'm too old for the college stuff now and department stores tended to get raided. But I miss the theatres and bookstores. A few weeks ago I was in NYC and drove to the Fair Theatre in Queens which was just like the good old days but super inconvenient for me to get to.
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Maybe a matter of semantics but I like to differentiate between outdoor sex and public sex. Outdoors, you could, hypothetically, be caught by someone but aren't necessarily. Public sex might be outdoors or in, but people ARE watching. Maybe a bathhouse or movie theater, or something like Folsom Street Fair. I don't do either much, because most of the venues I used to frequent are closed. Though I really enjoy public sex because the people who will see me are people who expect to see someone. Similarly, if I'm watching you, it's because you're putting yourself in a situation where you want to be seen. I'm weird about outdoor sex because you don't have control over who sees you. Could be a kid, or someone who isn't trying to see you. Though when I was younger and had a car but not a place, I frequently parked somewhere and was caught a couple times, though I wasn't trying to be seen.
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Mice, bugs and door alarms at Doubletree?
phillygwm replied to breakland's topic in Philadelphia Metro Area
The reason people book the Doubletree is because you don't need a key card to operate the elevator. It's a moderate hotel, past its prime, but looked clean the last time I was there. -
There are different types of gay cruises. Some are family oriented, some are super upscale (typically old couples,) and yes, there are the floating bathhouses 🙂 I love cruising but have never done any gay cruise. Part of that is because I'm single and cruises tend to penalize single guys (double fare.) Another reason is that I tend to be socially awkward and can just see it going wrong. But part of it is that I tend to prefer a regular cruise on a gay friendly cruise line. On my last cruise (Holland America) I made several friends at the gay mixer whom I still stay in contact with.
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I know most guys (outside the US and Middle East) are uncut but I've found Indian guys, in particular, have particularly long foreskin. Not that they're necessarily huge but they all seem to have a lot of overhang. Yum,
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Bareback: Someone else's cum. Condom: Ben Gay 🙂 (KIDDING!)
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I joke that a friend used to pimp me out. Fact is, among people I don't know I'm socially awkward and would never approach someone. We once were at a bar watching a baseball game and I indicated that I thought the guy on the other side of my friend was hot. He immediately turned to him and said "My friend thinks you're really hot." I was fucking mortified. But 1/2 hour later I was in his hotel room, doing unspeakable things 🙂 Had I made my move, it probably wouldn't have worked because I don't always come across well. But that intermediary was what I needed!
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The problem (for some, anyway) is that gay rape is usually gonna be messy unless the rapist is carrying an enema kit with him 🤣 Obviously, if it's something planned that becomes non-consensual etc. that's different.
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Would you be into watching someone else rape him? Maybe someone who will stuff one too many fingers in there until he begs you to make it stop. But you're too busy gooning to his pain...
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I've mentioned before, I've had some medical issues over the years. I take Viagra but, even so, certain situations just don't work for me. I suspect this is because I'm not aroused and, if I'm gonna get hard, I need to be aroused more now than say 40 years ago 🙂 All this is to say I used to wear a condom, if the bottom insisted on it. I wouldn't volunteer. Now, I don't think I could maintain an erection in a condom. So if someone is going to be insistent, they'll have to settle for oral (which I actually prefer anyway) or I'll just leave.
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It depends on how one defines "whore." I've met some cumdumps who basically wanted to be a human fleshlight and limited what they'd allow the top to do. That works for some tops but it often isn't enough to arouse me, even with Viagra. Conversely, I've met some guys who view their job as satisfying their top -- and usually themselves -- whatever it took. I've had some really good times with those guys. No expectations of a LTR or even an extended play session. Their body count per session is a lot lower but I've always left drained,
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I agree with this, up to a point. When it's literally life and death, the government should provide a safety net. Especially in the US, where costs of meds aren't as regulated as elsewhere. PrEP, for instance, used to cost me about $200-300/month. I can afford that but a lot of people can't. HIV would spread much faster than it does now if people had to go without, which is clearly not in the public interest. In terms of HIV but also many other diseases, where this really hits home is research, which is largely funded by NIH and other orgs. That's been decimated. With HIV, some meds (admittedly, not the cutting edge stuff) are relatively inexpensive especially when produced overseas for those markets. Even so, lots of people in the Third World can't afford it. The foreign aid that the US recently cut will be a death sentence for a lot of those people unless other funders step in. All of this predates the government shutdown and will continue well after it's resolved.
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My circumstances have changed over the years. About 15 years ago, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer. Consequently, I don't shoot appreciable amounts anymore (though I have the sensation.) When I WAS shooting normally, I largely agree with OP. It isn't that I'd NEVER agree to wear a condom but I wouldn't volunteer to. I enjoyed sowing my seed, as it were. And I sometimes loved blasting it where people would find it. Back then, fucking was my favorite way of getting off. Since my radiation, sowing seed is off the table. And whether because of my treatment or just the fact that I'm getting older, I don't get as hard as I used to. Hard enough to get off? Yes. Hard enough to penetrate an ass until completion? Sometimes. So my new favorite thing is being sucked off. Not that I didn't enjoy that before (and I always wanted to finish in a guy's mouth) but there's something more primal to anal: I'm in control, for the most part. If I wanted to last 5 minutes, I could. If I wanted to go longer, I could. With oral, when and if I get off is a function of the blower's talent, how he edges me, etc.
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This is a huge turn on for me. I just love using a guy after he's "game over". So yeah, I've used bottoms cum as lube, or sometimes I'll feed it to them, which is even hotter.
