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I'll partially agree. Rape is, by definition, non-consensual. Someone can be a sex worker and be raped if they were forced to do something against their will. Likewise, if you were beaten and choked within an inch of your life but you requested it, it isn't. I'd personally define CNC as a situation where one consents broadly but is out of control when it comes to the specifics. Maybe they're unconscious or severely impaired. They knew they were going to be used but didn't negotiate limits so they didn't know they were going to be (for instance) fisted or shat on. Maybe they wouldn't have consented to those specifics but they're not in a position to object.
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Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
Nice. And if things get much worse here in the US, I'm looking at Malta. I probably should visit first 🙂 -
Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
You deserve as many loads as you can take. It would be hot to plug you after you had 4-5 guys trying to fertilize you. I would have piggy'd your comment but I hit my limit 🙂 -
Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
Yeah, I definitely like a used hole. But it's hot knowing that someone's boys are up there, swimming in circles looking for your ovum 🤣 -
I know this is an inherently political issue but please let's try to put that aside for purposes of this discussion. I'm not seriously considering anything at the moment but there are increasing discussions about people (i.e. American citizens) leaving the country for political reasons. I know people also move because of the cheaper cost of living in certain places but that's not my primary concern; I'll just increase my standard of living to match my budget. 🙂 Primary concerns are: Being able to legally live somewhere. I know Spain, Portugal, and other places offer what are essentially retirement visas. Other countries have higher barriers to long term residency The ability to communicate primarily in English; I'd try to pick up the native language but old dog, new tricks, etc. Safety/Standard of Living -- This encompasses both gay friendly but also are the streets safe, reasonably clean, etc. Affordability -- This ties back to point 2. There are a lot of affordable places but English may not be widely spoken outside the big cities, which are usually more expensive. Reasonably close to the US -- I don't expect that I'd never return so Asia/Australia is too far. Europe is probably the farthest I'd want to go. Any thoughts or experiences?? Thanks!
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Show us the last loads you took in your hole
phillygwm replied to transferal's topic in General Discussion
So a question for the bottoms: I know the pics look hot with cum dripping out of a hole but, when you're not posing for the camera, do you try to retain it or do you push it out? I understand if there are multiple loads in you, it will get sloppy and gravity will ultimately do its thing if you're vertical, especially as the load liquifies. -
I'm not as sexually active as I'd like so usually do 2-1-1. Took 2 today, for instance, because I'm trolling for sex 🙂 Hopefully, I'll need the 1-1. I do notice some diarrhea, which is OK with me because my weight loss med (Contrave, not a GLP-1) makes me irregular. Nothing where I'd have an accident but noticeable.
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This. I've rarely been with a super big guy who could get fully hard. Orally, I'll take a guy with a micropenis if I'm otherwise attracted to him; I'm more concerned with his load. In fact, it's a lot easier to get a small guy off, generally.
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I had a FB who had a rape fantasy. What he really meant was he wanted to roleplay: Put your hand over his mouth, use spit as lube, and fuck hard. When he kept asking for it I got bored so I switched it up a bit. I started by getting him off. THEN I fucked him as above. Did he enjoy it? No, he was begging me to finish. Did I rape him? Also no. He could have freed himself or even told me to stop but didn't. He knew I wasn't going to unalive him or otherwise harm him. He was not happy in the moment but he told me how he kept jerking off thinking about it. As for me, I never really considered myself a dom but if someone tells me they're sub, that's how I gauge whether they really are. All this is very different from someone unexpectedly putting a knife to your throat while another guy punch fisted you (assuming you're not a fisting bottom.) You probably wouldn't enjoy it much, nor would likely jerk off thinking about it.
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Serving the one that Serves - an encounter with a soldier
phillygwm replied to Cutedelicategay's topic in Your Last Load...
Did he thank you for your service? 🤣 -
Not speaking as a bottom but, orally at least, I can take a small guy balls deep. He's more likely to blow down my throat, which is what it's all about. Someone huge is hot to look at but harder to get off.
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Rereading the thread, it reminded me of a situation about 15 years ago. I'd been dx'd with prostate cancer and, being in my 40s, I was looking into alternatives to a radical. I visited one radiation oncologist for a consult. Super friendly, we seemed to hit it off, talking about baseball etc. Then he asks me about banking sperm, my wife, etc. I told him I was gay and it took him aback. He wasn't hostile by any means but he was...different. I ruled him out before I got back to my car. Unless you're talking about a world class surgeon and a complex issue, there's no reason to feel uncomfortable around your doc. If you do, you need a different doc or at least a candid conversation.
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I love my doc. She's not gay and it isn't a gay practice but they're very good. Previously, I had a doc that liked to lecture (not about sex but weight etc.) It got to the point where I'd reschedule appointments if I'd gained a couple pounds. When she left the practice, even though she was otherwise very good, I didn't follow her. There are more gay practices in the city but going there is a bit of a hassle. If I thought the care would be substantially better I would, but I'm happy as things are.
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Guilty! If I happen across a profile for someone who is just breathtaking, I'll send an Oink or maybe a form message that basically says "Hey, I find you incredibly hot. I'm far away but sometimes I travel for business/pleasure. Or if you find yourself in my area, keep me in mind." Similarly, I find myself in different parts of the state or perhaps they might. So I'll always email a guy and we might buddy list each other for future reference.
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I'm a natural cynic so scammers don't get far with me. Very low BS tolerance. I have friends who used to send money to their "friends" abroad. They knew better but always believed "This one is different." Thankfully, he could afford it but still... Just happened to me. Texted (recent, clear) pics to a potential hookup. He wouldn't meet without more pics. Buh bye! 🤣
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
I learned about those people early on and have tried to avoid them. I don't need that kind of toxicity in my life. But it's a reason why guys choose to go to the next town over, or play in bookstores/darkrooms where there's some anonymity. Back to the OP, that requires a lot of planning if the next bar is 100 miles away but might be worth considering a mini-vacation where you go to a big city for a couple days and let your inner filthy whore out 🙂 -
PGN. And even Philly Mag for a while. I never liked ads which were full of "thou shalt nots" Sure, if there are hard nos, include them, but many people are looking for one race, must be muscle bound, young, self-suffient, etc. A fantasy, though I suppose someone like that would be available for rent 🙂
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
Interesting take. I guess I've always thought of anonymity as one of the attributes of a cumdump. It's the anti-Cheers: NOBODY knows your name. I suppose that doesn't need to be the case but I think it usually holds true. I think of BBRT where guys go to a different city for a weekend and setup a party in their hotel. Maybe it's to get some fresh meat, maybe it's to go somewhere you're unknown, especially if your profession is one where it isn't helpful to be known as the town fleshlight. -
OF COURSE they can read. They just think that the comments don't apply to them. When I was young, I relied on old fashioned personal ads in these things called newspapers 🙂 I stated that I wanted guys under X years old (i.e. my age range.) I couldn't believe the number of responses that started "I'm 64 but look and act much younger." Now that I'm much closer to 64 than 24, I'd like to think I'm not like those guys.
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Do you live alone or with family etc.? If you're able to be on your own, that's one thing but having people knowing that you had guys coming and going would be freaky. I once knew a guy who had an attendant who set him up before dates and cleaned him up after, disappearing in between. I give him a lot of credit for having the balls to rely on someone for that; I'd be too embarrassed (and credit to the guy cleaning up all the DNA afterwards!)
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At what point does a bottom become a cumdump?
phillygwm replied to NSABB's topic in General Discussion
I've always thought of a cumdump as someone with few/no standards. They're there to take on all cummers. Often face down/ass up and impersonal. I'm merely a sperm donor and they're a human fleshlight. Cumdumps are there for body count. Not someone you cuddle/make out with. -
Wish you'd video that and share it with the rest of us 🙂
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It's funny, I've always considered myself gay. I once did a 4 way (me, two other guys, and a girl.) But I was repulsed by her. The guys told me she gave great head so I let her suck me. Couldn't keep it up. But I blew like a volcano when I saw one of the guys pull his condom covered dick out with his load hanging off the end. Now, I'm a bit more openminded about it. I still probably wouldn't be interested in a one on one with a female (unless she was one of those Justin Bieber lesbians) but a 3+way? Maybe. A F2M? Probably.
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Almost always balls deep. Hate those porn creampies where the head is barely inside. If I'm being sucked off, I still want it in his mouth but I don't need to make him choke, unless he asks me to. 🙂
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Me too. I used to look at other kids legs and underarms to gauge where they were in puberty. My freshman year in HS there was another kid my age (Italian background) who had a full beard. I wasn't super hairy and didn't shave until I was 18, so I thought I was a late bloomer. In retrospect, I was on time and maybe a bit early but I was fixated on it. To this day, I like hairy underarms, especially on guys who are otherwise smooth.
