phillygwm

I'm a top so I don't. But why do I prefer going balls deep when I'm ready? It's something primal, like an animal marking his territory. Aside from that, there's a feeling of dominance; when I fuck a guy it's inherently about my pleasure to some extent. Ironically, I found a quasi-kink when I had a FB years ago. He had a rape fantasy and, while I wasn't super into it, I played along, "breaking in" to his unlocked apartment, pretending to wake him up, etc. Pretty mild stuff. Then he kept asking for it every time and it just got old, so I figured I'd break him of the habit. He was one of those guys who was "game over" once he came, so I usually tried to finish within a minute of him. One time, during a rape scene, I made it a point to get him off before I even removed my clothes, so he was literally finished. Once he shot, I flipped him over, got naked, and basically used him like a Fleshlight for the next half hour. Technically it was consensual; he could have escaped but I reminded him this was what he asked for. He was begging me to hurry up and finish, because he wasn't into it, he was uncomfortable , and I was rubbing him sore because I purposely lubed just enough to penetrate him. Usually, when I came, he felt it and was super aroused, goosebumps etc. This time, when I finally came, I made sure his legs were in the air and I was looking deep into his eyes. Instead of ecstasy, he kind of cringed/had a look of disgust. He later told me when he felt me pulsing he almost got nauseous. Surprisingly, I was totally turned on by that. So the scene served two purposes: 1) He never asked me to "rape" him again (we did continue to play until he moved away); and 2) I found I had a darker side than I realized. The dynamic always varies somewhat when I fuck a guy but I'm usually trying to please him to a greater or lesser extent. This was the only time my partners' pleasure was something I actively avoided and I'm getting hard just reliving it. I need to find a guy with poor self-esteem so I can do it again 🙂

Is it me or does this sound like it should be a question on a math test? Next line: Assuming a volume of one teaspoon per load, how many ounces of semen were expended that evening?

Not trying to cause a debate here. I grew up in Philly and still live in the burbs. Like any city, it's generally safe. There are a number of good parking lots in the area (not necessarily cheap!) The people that get murdered tend to fall into certain categories: drug dealers, domestic issues, drunken arguments, etc. It's pretty rare that a random person winds up dead. I don't hesitate going into the city (was just there on Friday for dinner, the Wanamaker light show, and for a couple drinks at a bar.) A question for those more experienced with the baths. I'm not a bathhouse guy. Not judging; I've been in one, and that was with a guy where we needed a place to go. We didn't really avail ourselves of the social interactions with others 🙂 I've thought about going increasingly but always chickened out, figuring I'd be embarrassed by not knowing the proper etiquette,/ground rules, or I'd be rejected, or I'd be hit on by someone I really wasn't into. All sorts of reasons not to go. Just need to man up sometime!

Right, I know it's an anti-retroviral. The question was merely whether going on and off it can somehow build up a resistance. I didn't think so but figured the guys on here have greater collective knowledge than I do. I don't have issues with side-effects so that isn't a concern. I simply don't want to take anything I don't need. American health authorities don't condone 2-1-1 but it's accepted, IIRC, in Canada and elsewhere so I'd be comfortable going with that if a hookup arose out of the blue (well, a few hours before anyway.) Again, if I thought I'd be having sex fairly regularly, I'd go on the daily regimen. I'm accepting applications if anyone is interested @BootmanLA -- I'd up vote your comment but don't yet have the ability. Consider this your 👍 Thanks to all for the thoughtful replies!

Live in the Western burbs, near KoP. late 50's, 6'0, 235 (on a good day,) TOP, though I do enjoy mutual oral. On PrEP when I'm going to be sexually active so your status isn't a deal breaker by any means. I tend to have a low BS tolerance which can result in dry spells: maybe I'm too picky, I lack the patience for cruising/chasing sex down, and I can be socially anxious/awkward among people I don't know, though I'm extroverted once I'm comfortable with someone (i.e. I generally relax once I've painted your intestines/throat.) I live alone but can easily travel if that's easier for you. Sarcastic (maybe cynical?) sense of humor. Ideally prefer someone with an hour drive, though farther might work for occasional get togethers. Philly and surrounding counties are fine. Love twink types but NOT looking to be a sugar daddy, so for some reason they're not lining up to date me, so open to others 🤣 Decent sex drive is a must. Fairly vanilla but love groups (especially multi-tops on one cumdump.) and turned on by exhibitionists. Open to FB/FWB/LTR if it goes there but not interested in purely platonic. Hope to hear from some of you!

I recently started PrEP but haven't been quite as sexually active as I'd like, so I stopped. If I think I'm going to get lucky, I'll take 2 pills at least 3 hours before. If things work out, I'll stay on it for a while. More often than not, I'm either too picky, not aggressive enough, whatever, so I see no reason to take a daily pill if I'm going to go weeks/months without getting laid. Is there a risk to this? Could I build up an immunity (like antibiotics?) FWIW, I'm a top but I do enjoy swallowing. I have a thing for groups. I've done 3-4 somes but really want to be the last of a bunch of tops with one bottom...someone I wouldn't even need to lube up for. 🙂

I hit puberty in the 70's, so pre-Internet and even VCRs. There were mags and adult theaters which I couldn't access as a pre-teen. But I was a nerd; I learned about sex in the library (reading books, that is!) So I knew what cum was but had never seen it. From what I read, I imagined it had the consistency of toothpaste. When I was 9-10, I had a friend who was the same age but he hit puberty first. One day he told me he had hair but of course I didn't want to ask to see, so I goaded him with "you're full of shit." So he dropped his pants and, sure enough, a bit of hair and he was a LOT bigger/thicker than I was. Mind you, we were 10 so how big could it have been, but it was huge compared to me. Fast forward a few months and I had a few wisps of hair, which I was anxious to show off. Off came the pants and he was even hairier and bigger. He told me he could cum so, again, I goaded him into jerking off for me. I was fixated on his cock as he jerked. Finally, he said he was going to shoot and where did I want him to do it. As a closeted Catholic kid, I wasn't going to answer that question honestly 😇 We were in his basement and we were sitting by a folding table, so I told him to shoot there. At this point, I wasn't aware that one could cum before puberty so I never really tried. Anyway, it wasn't a huge load but it was white and more liquid than I'd envisioned. I touched it with my fingers etc. and was fascinated with the viscosity but the experience was really more "Show and Tell" than anything overtly sexual. I went home that day, locked myself in the bathroom, and figured I was either going to cum or I was going to make it bleed from rubbing it so hard. Sure enough, after a while, I came. I recall it was just a clear drop but it was enjoyable enough that I haven't stopped since. I never had to worry about wet dreams because I proactively emptied myself 🙂 Meanwhile, my friend and I played around a bit. I was way more into it than he was but I'd suck him (I couldn't make him cum but I swallowed when he was ready.) I even "fucked" him, though in retrospect, I was still pretty small so probably was just dry humping the crack of his ass rather than penetrating him.

My ex had the annoying habit of running to the bathroom immediately after I finished in him. This turned into a personal challenge as to how I could make him retain it, usually involving "quickies" when we needed to go somewhere so he didn't have time to release. He always hated the feeling of cum liquefying and leaking out and I suppose it feels like it's a greater volume than it is. He thought it was going to show as a wet spot on his pants, which it never did but WOULD have been hot to see. Hell, I would have called it to people's attention: "Look at how much I came!" 🙂 I wonder why I'm single 😂

I'm in the Philly burbs. Sent you a PM. Brand new to BZ and looking to find local receptacles. Would prefer to go last in a group if possible.

I'm neg and on PrEP. Not trying to make this a Backroom post but I love hearing about my partners' prior experiences. In a different vein, I've asked a "straight" married friend if he remembered the specific session when he impregnated his wife. I frequently ask gay friends about their early experiences, etc. So yes, when I'm with a poz guy I wonder if he knows the guy that pozzed him. To know is just another creepy turn on for me, not judgemental, but I do hesitate to ask because I don't want to offend someone (especially before we've had sex.)