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  1. phillygwm
    Fuck, you have a hot profile and you're totally my type (not least because you're one of the few who has the balls to put your face pic on here.) I'd use you if our paths cross when I'm next in Florida.
  2. phillygwm
    That's one of the things on my list: To (knowingly) fuck an autistic or ASD guy. In my younger years, I did a fair amount of bookstores/theaters so maybe I have; I didn't chat many of them up. But just someone socially awkward who doesn't have the guts to stop me from having my way.
  3. phillygwm
    I haven't done a GH in a long time. I like to know what's on the other side of the hole. Plus, I'd just as soon join you in your booth so I can fuck you more deeply. In a one on one "date" setting, sure, I want to last a while but, for me, pump and dump is exactly the point of a bookstore or movie theater. And for the bottom, there's an opportunity cost: The longer I fuck you, the fewer loads you're getting.
  4. phillygwm
    I've actually went in for sloppy seconds a few times (as hot as it sounds!) and DP (not so much.) One of the things to consider about porn is that it's designed to look hot on the screen, even if it's a sexual version of Twister in real life. The one time I DP'd, the bottom was a small Latino twink and the other top was a black guy with close to 10". I'm average length, thick, and at the time I was pretty heavy. I kept popping out but, even when I was in, it didn't do much for me as physical stimulation, though the thought of it got me turned on. Finally, I called it off, watched the two of them fuck, and took sloppy seconds. Maybe it works better for men of similar sizes. I don't want to get into chem personally, though I wouldn't mind fucking someone who was spun. I'm sure I've done that over the years but can't remember anything specific. I'd kind of like to fuck a roofied/unconscious guy sometime (assuming he consented beforehand. Nothing illegal, of course!) I imagine it's not much different than fucking a sex doll but the thought of someone who can't say no turns me on...
  5. phillygwm
    Answering as a top, I prefer meeting in a motel/hotel. I can just walk in and get to work...or wait my turn as the case may be. I'm really not looking to spend hours edging in a club; I just want to pump, dump, and get on my way. If I were a bottom I'd want all the guys focused on me, not on the x number of other bottoms on display in a club.
  6. phillygwm
    At this point in my life, generally 1-2x/day. Not bad for someone with low T. Back in the day, I was compulsive: Several times a day, minimum.
  7. phillygwm
    I know it's sacrilege on here and *I* don't want to wear one but there's something hot about seeing a big load hanging off the end of a condom after a guy has unloaded in someone. But it seems only right that if someone is going to wear one, he at least give it to the bottom after to consume as he wishes.
  8. phillygwm
    Aw hell no. I had prostate cancer about 15 years ago. Treated with radiation so I can still perform sexually (and even shoot a drop or so.) As a result of the radiation, I developed urethral strictures (narrowing.) One day, I couldn't piss. Went to the ER where they cathed me (I'd been cathed before but I was unconscious.) If it wasn't the worst pain I ever had, it was certainly top 10. A couple weeks later, the urologist tried to sound me before doing a cystoscope. I screamed so loud people heard it in the waiting room. They literally had to schedule a surgical procedure. Come to think of it, all of my most painful experiences have been in the groin area. 😞
  9. phillygwm
    Depends how horny I am. Definitely prefer twinks, clean cut guys are a close second. Effeminate guys are hot but don't love guys in women's attire/makeup. Just get naked 🙂 Almost exclusively into guys younger than me. I mentioned in a previous post that I grew up in a lily white neighborhood so hadn't even seen a non-white cock in person until I was in a group shower in my late teens. No action there; I was just trying NOT to get hard around my friends 🙂 So as I became more sexually active, I basically checklisted types/ethnicities I hadn't been with. At this point, I've been with most every group, more than once. I personally find lots of tatts/piercings to be a turn-off. Same for smokers.
  10. phillygwm
    I've only done it once but helping the guy prep was kind of hot. I just needed to leave the room at the appropriate time 🙂
  11. phillygwm
    I think it's generally assumed that most girls don't prefer to swallow and most guys do. Obviously, just a generalization. When I'm with a newly bi guy, I make sure I take every drop. I'm representing gay men everywhere and I need to prove the superiority of the male blow job 😂 One friend gave me notice before he came, then gave me a more urgent warning when it was imminent, figuring I'd pull up. He was pleasantly surprised when I didn't. Another purposely DIDN'T warn me, for the same reason. I had to explain that if he didn't warn me, I might come up for air at the wrong moment and miss it. As a recipient, I don't really care if you (discretely) spit or swallow, as long as you take every drop before you do. I'll let you know when I'm finished. Nowadays, I shoot very little for medical reasons so it's usually a non-issue.
  12. phillygwm
    Asexual is just a label. One of the positive impacts of this generation is they don't label themselves as readily as we old guys do. My one niece dated a girl. She never mentioned the L word (or even the B word.) One day, she's with a guy and she's pregnant. Her sister informed me, over a lot of alcohol on a cruise, that she's "pan". Her BF didn't like that, but I jokingly (well, half) invited him back to my room -- sadly he passed on the opportunity but we all had a laugh. Likewise, I'm not here to psychoanalyze people. If you're fucking me because you're depressed, or have no self-esteem, or whatever, I hope you get the help you may need but, in the interim, you're still fucking me so I'm OK with that. 🙂 I recently read a story on social media about a (female) OF model who rented an airBnB and fucked 100 guys. The comments were predictably, judgmental. Might she have some issues? Maybe but she didn't harm me nor did she ask for my help, so why would I care? In any case, she probably made more money that day than I'll make in a year, certainly enough to hire an analyst if she needs one.
  13. phillygwm
    I differentiate between the two. Sometimes, especially if a guy isn't openly gay or is inexperienced, nerves come into play and he'll flake. I recently spoke with a guy online who was new to the country, had a gf back home, but was ready to meet me...but out of nowhere he decided to cancel. It's frustrating but that was me (a looong time ago) so I try to be understanding and give him one pass, in case he reconsiders. If it happens again, I'll block him. Then there are the guys who are simply playing games. If I sense that's happening I'll ask to meet somewhere neutral and it usually falls apart at that point. It's sad that they don't have something productive to do with their time but I just move on. What else can you do?
  14. phillygwm
    As a top, if I'm doing something totally spontaneous, I usually wonder as much. I'll tell a guy that I don't "expect" anal on a first meeting. He'll often come back a variation on one of two responses: 1) "Oh, I'm really, really looking to get fucked," or 2) "I can't wait for you to breed the back of my throat." If it's #1, I'll obliquely mention it, like "OK, I didn't realize you were ready now!" I haven't explicitly asked whether he's douched and he hasn't needed to tell me he hasn't. Now, could he have not gotten the hint? Sure, that's just a professional hazard 🙂 Avoiding awkward moments just helps put both of us at ease and makes for a more fun evening (or half hour.)
  15. phillygwm
    The nuns and priests who taught me said that sex out of wedlock indicated a lack of respect for oneself. Sure enough, when I first learned to jerk off, I had a flood of guilt in the afterglow. I did quickly realize that, like many of the Catholic Church's teachings, whether it was sex with myself or someone else, it was all bullshit. 😂
  16. phillygwm
    Because of a medical issue, I shoot little or no cum myself (though I do have the sensation.) So others' cum turns me on and I generally prefer my bottom to shoot before I cum myself. That being said, it depends on the situation. I really like to fuck a guy after he cums, especially if he's lost his mood and is just submitting for my pleasure. But if someone can't cum -- or I can't get him off for whatever reason -- that's OK too. I've been with a number of guys who will tell me in advance that it isn't going to happen. Maybe they have ED, maybe they can't get off while bottoming, whatever. It happens.
  17. phillygwm
    This is an important differentiation. Most guys don't appreciate being violently throat fucked so I'm a bit hesitant at first. After all, if someone has a modicum of self-esteem, he'll tell me to get lost if it isn't enjoyable for him. It inhibits me but hey, at least I'm getting off. But when someone makes it clear that they know they're worthless and only there for my purposes, I'll really have my way. I love shooting while being deep throated, which naturally gags the guy. So hot for me but doesn't happen often enough.
  18. phillygwm
    Cut. I hadn't seen an uncut cock until my late teens/early 20s and I didn't know what to do with it. When I slid his skin back and realized it looked like mine, I figured the same technique that felt good for me (direct stimulation to the head) would work for him. He literally screamed. Oops! I prefer uncut but, living in America, the vast majority of us are cut so it's just easier to find. Last couple guys I've sucked have coincidentally been Puerto Rican so they were uncut. Last one was an old FB whom I hadn't seen in 10+ years. He has some ED issues now but I enjoyed just diddling with his (while he swallowed me.)
  19. phillygwm
    As a top, I'll tell you it happens a fair amount: Moreso if the guy isn't super-experienced, less if they're a whore 🙂 Last happened to me about a month ago. I can usually smell it before I even pull out. It's obviously unpleasant but by that point I figure I might as well finish. If I pull out immediately, I'll be dirty and have blue balls. If I can keep going I'll still be dirty, but I'll at least have drained my balls. I will try to hurry up a bit if I know it's happening, though. I'll run to the bathroom when I'm done but I'm not going to make a huge deal about it in the moment. I'm sure it's obvious to my bottom so no need to make him feel worse about it than he probably already does. Occasionally, I can sense it's going to happen beforehand, if the guy smells like ass when I'm down there. If that's the case, I'll usually make an excuse to pivot to oral only.
  20. phillygwm
    Agreed. I can't get up for just anyone so finding someone I find attractive -- and who will take me on -- in an anon situation is often difficult for me. Most of my FBs started as one-time Craigslist/AOL hookups (dating myself here!) For various reasons, only one developed into a relationship but I got together with the rest enough to keep my balls drained. I need that again!
  21. phillygwm
    I don't recall when I first tried to bottom, probably early teens. Hated it, didn't try it again until my early 20's, hated it again. Decided I was a top 🙂 Closest I've come since was a guy I let creampie me after jerking off. I just wanted to feel the cum inside but he didn't fully penetrate me. I was 10 when I first topped a guy. Or so I thought. We started playing because, though we were the same age, he hit puberty earlier than I did. After our first few sessions, I decided I wanted to fuck him. In retrospect, I probably never did or if I did it was just barely; I still had a little boy cock, plus I don't remember any unpleasantries, which I'm sure would have happened with a 10 year old who didn't know about cleaning out. But in the moment, I thought I was a dom top 🤣 I at least dry humped his crack.
  22. phillygwm
    Last night. Second time with this guy but he's difficult to connect with: lives an hour away, with family, doesn't drive, we have to get a cheap hotel, etc. Not a pro, but I did have to give him a few bucks last night and drive him to a nearby dollar store so he could load enough on a debit card to even get the room (I suppose it would have been easier to do it in my name but it was kind of sketchy so I preferred not to.) Otherwise, he's a nice enough guy though a little more "rough trade" than I prefer. But hey, I was horny and I knew I'd be reasonably close to his town after an appointment last night so figured what the heck. First time, I fucked the guy but he had some issues with cleaning out so I wasn't particularly anxious to repeat that. So this time, no fucking: He got off first. Average uncut cock (Latino) with a lot of foreskin, which I love. Then he sucked me. He went pretty small when soft but I didn't mind. He also didn't like having his cock played with after he shot but it was so hot, I couldn't help myself. I've previously posted about how I love a guy to cum first, especially when he loses the mood but, aside from getting sensitive down there, this guy stayed into it, which was nice too. He was talented enough to finish me in his mouth without having to jerk me off, which is somewhat unusual. It was actually more enjoyable/intense than pounding him to oblivion 🙂 Like I said, getting together involves a certain amount of drama/logistics but he might work out for a once-in-a-while thing.
  23. phillygwm
    I don't want my own load back, he should have swallowed it by the time we kiss 🙂 But other guys, or me kissing my partner after sucking him off, sure.
  24. phillygwm
    I was in my late teens or early 20s when I saw my first uncut cock. I grew up in a very homogenous community: mostly white, a few Asians or Latinos So the guys I saw were white and circumcised. I was in a music group which toured the country and we showered in locker rooms which is where I saw my first black cock in person. I met a guy from one of the Caribbean islands, we got naked, and I had a "WTF am I supposed to do with this" moment. Not trying to seem stupid, I faked it. Played with it for a bit and realized if I peeled the skin back it looked almost like mine. So I figured I'd do what felt good for me which, at the time, was direct stimulation on his head. He literally screamed. 🤣 Ironically, my father was uncut, though I didn't see him naked until he was older and in a hospital. I wish I'd been left alone but as a boy born in a hospital in the 1960's, that's what they did. To this day, I have a thing for uncut guys. I'd like to think my technique has improved from the experience above. It's not a prerequisite; I'm American and I'd get laid even less than I already do if I limited myself to uncut. But when I put my hand down a guy's pants or otherwise get him naked, it's just a turnon when he's uncut (assuming basic hygiene...) In my one relationship with an uncut guy, he wouldn't let me get him naked until he went to the bathroom and cleaned down there, as well as douching if we were going to fuck. In the moment, it was frustrating but I did appreciate his concern to those details.
  25. phillygwm
    I had "straight" friends over the years and we occasionally played. Funny, one never lasted more than 5 minutes with me. First time, he gave me plenty of warning before he shot, figuring I'd be like his gfs: pull up and jerk him to completion. I didn't. I don't think he'd ever been swallowed before 🙂 I've found there's often guilt in the aftermath so it's something you have to manage so as not to ruin the friendship, but it can be done. I made it clear that there was no emotional commitment and only one condition: I just wanted a little reciprocation. They had to suck me for a bit -- just a minute or so -- and needed to at least finish me with their hand. I did that because guys tended to view me as their bitch (not in so many words) when I didn't. Plus, I loved shooting on them, even if it was just in their hand. In more than one instance, the first time they jerked me they kept as much distance as possible. Most got over that, even if they didn't love it/viewed it as their price of admission. I've always thought that most of us, to a greater or lesser extent, are bi. I'm a gold star gay but if someone asked me to do a threesome with his wife/gf, I probably would unless she was totally disgusting (which was the case the one time I had the opportunity.) Likewise, for primarily straight guys whose wife/gf isn't putting out, any hole will do, especially when they realize that gay men tend to be less inhibited.

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