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  1. phillygwm
    I think it's generally assumed that most girls don't prefer to swallow and most guys do. Obviously, just a generalization. When I'm with a newly bi guy, I make sure I take every drop. I'm representing gay men everywhere and I need to prove the superiority of the male blow job 😂 One friend gave me notice before he came, then gave me a more urgent warning when it was imminent, figuring I'd pull up. He was pleasantly surprised when I didn't. Another purposely DIDN'T warn me, for the same reason. I had to explain that if he didn't warn me, I might come up for air at the wrong moment and miss it. As a recipient, I don't really care if you (discretely) spit or swallow, as long as you take every drop before you do. I'll let you know when I'm finished. Nowadays, I shoot very little for medical reasons so it's usually a non-issue.
  2. phillygwm
    Asexual is just a label. One of the positive impacts of this generation is they don't label themselves as readily as we old guys do. My one niece dated a girl. She never mentioned the L word (or even the B word.) One day, she's with a guy and she's pregnant. Her sister informed me, over a lot of alcohol on a cruise, that she's "pan". Her BF didn't like that, but I jokingly (well, half) invited him back to my room -- sadly he passed on the opportunity but we all had a laugh. Likewise, I'm not here to psychoanalyze people. If you're fucking me because you're depressed, or have no self-esteem, or whatever, I hope you get the help you may need but, in the interim, you're still fucking me so I'm OK with that. 🙂 I recently read a story on social media about a (female) OF model who rented an airBnB and fucked 100 guys. The comments were predictably, judgmental. Might she have some issues? Maybe but she didn't harm me nor did she ask for my help, so why would I care? In any case, she probably made more money that day than I'll make in a year, certainly enough to hire an analyst if she needs one.
  3. phillygwm
    I differentiate between the two. Sometimes, especially if a guy isn't openly gay or is inexperienced, nerves come into play and he'll flake. I recently spoke with a guy online who was new to the country, had a gf back home, but was ready to meet me...but out of nowhere he decided to cancel. It's frustrating but that was me (a looong time ago) so I try to be understanding and give him one pass, in case he reconsiders. If it happens again, I'll block him. Then there are the guys who are simply playing games. If I sense that's happening I'll ask to meet somewhere neutral and it usually falls apart at that point. It's sad that they don't have something productive to do with their time but I just move on. What else can you do?
  4. phillygwm
    As a top, if I'm doing something totally spontaneous, I usually wonder as much. I'll tell a guy that I don't "expect" anal on a first meeting. He'll often come back a variation on one of two responses: 1) "Oh, I'm really, really looking to get fucked," or 2) "I can't wait for you to breed the back of my throat." If it's #1, I'll obliquely mention it, like "OK, I didn't realize you were ready now!" I haven't explicitly asked whether he's douched and he hasn't needed to tell me he hasn't. Now, could he have not gotten the hint? Sure, that's just a professional hazard 🙂 Avoiding awkward moments just helps put both of us at ease and makes for a more fun evening (or half hour.)
  5. phillygwm
    The nuns and priests who taught me said that sex out of wedlock indicated a lack of respect for oneself. Sure enough, when I first learned to jerk off, I had a flood of guilt in the afterglow. I did quickly realize that, like many of the Catholic Church's teachings, whether it was sex with myself or someone else, it was all bullshit. 😂
  6. phillygwm
    Because of a medical issue, I shoot little or no cum myself (though I do have the sensation.) So others' cum turns me on and I generally prefer my bottom to shoot before I cum myself. That being said, it depends on the situation. I really like to fuck a guy after he cums, especially if he's lost his mood and is just submitting for my pleasure. But if someone can't cum -- or I can't get him off for whatever reason -- that's OK too. I've been with a number of guys who will tell me in advance that it isn't going to happen. Maybe they have ED, maybe they can't get off while bottoming, whatever. It happens.
  7. phillygwm
    This is an important differentiation. Most guys don't appreciate being violently throat fucked so I'm a bit hesitant at first. After all, if someone has a modicum of self-esteem, he'll tell me to get lost if it isn't enjoyable for him. It inhibits me but hey, at least I'm getting off. But when someone makes it clear that they know they're worthless and only there for my purposes, I'll really have my way. I love shooting while being deep throated, which naturally gags the guy. So hot for me but doesn't happen often enough.
  8. phillygwm
    Cut. I hadn't seen an uncut cock until my late teens/early 20s and I didn't know what to do with it. When I slid his skin back and realized it looked like mine, I figured the same technique that felt good for me (direct stimulation to the head) would work for him. He literally screamed. Oops! I prefer uncut but, living in America, the vast majority of us are cut so it's just easier to find. Last couple guys I've sucked have coincidentally been Puerto Rican so they were uncut. Last one was an old FB whom I hadn't seen in 10+ years. He has some ED issues now but I enjoyed just diddling with his (while he swallowed me.)
  9. phillygwm
    As a top, I'll tell you it happens a fair amount: Moreso if the guy isn't super-experienced, less if they're a whore 🙂 Last happened to me about a month ago. I can usually smell it before I even pull out. It's obviously unpleasant but by that point I figure I might as well finish. If I pull out immediately, I'll be dirty and have blue balls. If I can keep going I'll still be dirty, but I'll at least have drained my balls. I will try to hurry up a bit if I know it's happening, though. I'll run to the bathroom when I'm done but I'm not going to make a huge deal about it in the moment. I'm sure it's obvious to my bottom so no need to make him feel worse about it than he probably already does. Occasionally, I can sense it's going to happen beforehand, if the guy smells like ass when I'm down there. If that's the case, I'll usually make an excuse to pivot to oral only.
  10. phillygwm
    Agreed. I can't get up for just anyone so finding someone I find attractive -- and who will take me on -- in an anon situation is often difficult for me. Most of my FBs started as one-time Craigslist/AOL hookups (dating myself here!) For various reasons, only one developed into a relationship but I got together with the rest enough to keep my balls drained. I need that again!
  11. phillygwm
    I don't recall when I first tried to bottom, probably early teens. Hated it, didn't try it again until my early 20's, hated it again. Decided I was a top 🙂 Closest I've come since was a guy I let creampie me after jerking off. I just wanted to feel the cum inside but he didn't fully penetrate me. I was 10 when I first topped a guy. Or so I thought. We started playing because, though we were the same age, he hit puberty earlier than I did. After our first few sessions, I decided I wanted to fuck him. In retrospect, I probably never did or if I did it was just barely; I still had a little boy cock, plus I don't remember any unpleasantries, which I'm sure would have happened with a 10 year old who didn't know about cleaning out. But in the moment, I thought I was a dom top 🤣 I at least dry humped his crack.
  12. phillygwm
    Last night. Second time with this guy but he's difficult to connect with: lives an hour away, with family, doesn't drive, we have to get a cheap hotel, etc. Not a pro, but I did have to give him a few bucks last night and drive him to a nearby dollar store so he could load enough on a debit card to even get the room (I suppose it would have been easier to do it in my name but it was kind of sketchy so I preferred not to.) Otherwise, he's a nice enough guy though a little more "rough trade" than I prefer. But hey, I was horny and I knew I'd be reasonably close to his town after an appointment last night so figured what the heck. First time, I fucked the guy but he had some issues with cleaning out so I wasn't particularly anxious to repeat that. So this time, no fucking: He got off first. Average uncut cock (Latino) with a lot of foreskin, which I love. Then he sucked me. He went pretty small when soft but I didn't mind. He also didn't like having his cock played with after he shot but it was so hot, I couldn't help myself. I've previously posted about how I love a guy to cum first, especially when he loses the mood but, aside from getting sensitive down there, this guy stayed into it, which was nice too. He was talented enough to finish me in his mouth without having to jerk me off, which is somewhat unusual. It was actually more enjoyable/intense than pounding him to oblivion 🙂 Like I said, getting together involves a certain amount of drama/logistics but he might work out for a once-in-a-while thing.
  13. phillygwm
    I don't want my own load back, he should have swallowed it by the time we kiss 🙂 But other guys, or me kissing my partner after sucking him off, sure.
  14. phillygwm
    I was in my late teens or early 20s when I saw my first uncut cock. I grew up in a very homogenous community: mostly white, a few Asians or Latinos So the guys I saw were white and circumcised. I was in a music group which toured the country and we showered in locker rooms which is where I saw my first black cock in person. I met a guy from one of the Caribbean islands, we got naked, and I had a "WTF am I supposed to do with this" moment. Not trying to seem stupid, I faked it. Played with it for a bit and realized if I peeled the skin back it looked almost like mine. So I figured I'd do what felt good for me which, at the time, was direct stimulation on his head. He literally screamed. 🤣 Ironically, my father was uncut, though I didn't see him naked until he was older and in a hospital. I wish I'd been left alone but as a boy born in a hospital in the 1960's, that's what they did. To this day, I have a thing for uncut guys. I'd like to think my technique has improved from the experience above. It's not a prerequisite; I'm American and I'd get laid even less than I already do if I limited myself to uncut. But when I put my hand down a guy's pants or otherwise get him naked, it's just a turnon when he's uncut (assuming basic hygiene...) In my one relationship with an uncut guy, he wouldn't let me get him naked until he went to the bathroom and cleaned down there, as well as douching if we were going to fuck. In the moment, it was frustrating but I did appreciate his concern to those details.
  15. phillygwm
    I had "straight" friends over the years and we occasionally played. Funny, one never lasted more than 5 minutes with me. First time, he gave me plenty of warning before he shot, figuring I'd be like his gfs: pull up and jerk him to completion. I didn't. I don't think he'd ever been swallowed before 🙂 I've found there's often guilt in the aftermath so it's something you have to manage so as not to ruin the friendship, but it can be done. I made it clear that there was no emotional commitment and only one condition: I just wanted a little reciprocation. They had to suck me for a bit -- just a minute or so -- and needed to at least finish me with their hand. I did that because guys tended to view me as their bitch (not in so many words) when I didn't. Plus, I loved shooting on them, even if it was just in their hand. In more than one instance, the first time they jerked me they kept as much distance as possible. Most got over that, even if they didn't love it/viewed it as their price of admission. I've always thought that most of us, to a greater or lesser extent, are bi. I'm a gold star gay but if someone asked me to do a threesome with his wife/gf, I probably would unless she was totally disgusting (which was the case the one time I had the opportunity.) Likewise, for primarily straight guys whose wife/gf isn't putting out, any hole will do, especially when they realize that gay men tend to be less inhibited.
  16. phillygwm
    I have a very close friend who is "off the boat" Cuban. He emigrated as a child shortly after Castro came to power, bounced around a couple other countries, then landed in the US. He's much more liberal than I am and likes to think that most Latinos share his view because they grew up in a totalitarian regime. Perhaps that was once the case but no longer. For the past ~25 years (generally post-Elian Gonzalez) those once reliable Dems have switched in ever increasing numbers. Maybe because most are now second or third generation, maybe because they were more anti-leftist than anti-totalitarian. Maybe other reasons (religion?) To someone else's point, there are huge differences between Latinos from different countries. I once dated an Argentine who rarely had kind things to say about Puerto Ricans and Dominicans (actually, he thought himself better than pretty much everyone, but I digress.) 🙂 It's really not much different than saying all white Americans vote en bloc. I have little in common with whites in the central part of my own state (Pennsyltucky) let alone Mississippi, Wyoming, etc.
  17. phillygwm
    Depends on the circumstances. If the bottom is just a receptacle (i.e. anon,) then I usually like him standing, bent over or doggy style on whatever surface is handy. My objective is to unload and leave. If it's more passionate/one on one, I'll usually do missionary to get him off but I find it difficult to finish that way. Once he's done, assuming I'm trying to finish shortly thereafter, I like him on his stomach, ass slightly elevated. I can finish quickly that way and just collapse on his back in the afterglow, at least until he tells me he can't breathe 🤣
  18. phillygwm
    I don't get laid as much as I'd like. Much of that is because I'm picky: I like younger, twink/twunk types, rarely guys my age. I'm a larger, older guy so those guys don't usually go for me. If they do, they want a sugar daddy. When I was younger, I did more anon in bookstores and theaters but I lack the patience for those cat and mouse games at this point of my life (funny, I have a friend who is 80 and he's the opposite: he likes the pursuit more than the conquest.) I need pics, know you're not a flake, etc. And I'm in a suburban area so, while there are guys not terribly far away on the apps, they're the same guys all the time; either they aren't into me or vice versa. I do sometimes have luck when out of town. I kind of wish I could fuck every ass out there but I just can't get hard if I'm not attracted to someone.
  19. phillygwm
    Speaking as a top, my highest praise is if I ask you for your number after I've blown my load in you. It's one thing to fuck some hole in a bookstore or bath, but if you're hot, I'll want to meet you one on one. Maybe even learn your name. 🙂
  20. phillygwm
    Where are you? I'm sure we'd like to see more of you 🙂
  21. phillygwm
    This. I always fantasized about having sex with my brother. The only problem is I don't have a brother. And when I mention fantasy to someone who does, the response is almost always "ewww".
  22. phillygwm
    I did this a couple times and it's hot as hell, especially if the bottom loses the mood quickly. It's as close to forced sex as I'll probably get.
  23. phillygwm
    I love watching and being watched but only among consenting adults. I wouldn't want some little kid to happen upon me being pleasured in some men's room. When I was young and didn't have a place of my own, I frequently had sex in my car but was trying to avoid getting caught. The most public for me has been in a local porn theater in Philly. Usually, it's a lot of cat and mouse games but on a couple occasions, years ago, I've been sucked and fucked guys there. When you're the one playing, you become everyone's center of attention, which I found hot. I'm not super verbal in a one-on-one situation but remember once maybe 4-5 guys gathered around watching me fuck a guy, which was unusual since it was usually oral stuff going on. I wasn't pulling out but I wanted my audience to know what was happening so I slammed in balls deep and let out a loud grunt 🤣 I pulled out, stepped back, and was cleaning up/pulling up my pants when someone moved in and slid a couple fingers into the guy. I was basking in the afterglow at that point so didn't stick around but, in retrospect, kind of wish I had. I might have put a second load in there once my turn came back up.
  24. phillygwm
    I suppose it depends on how you define "older." I'm late 50's. I was an eager top in my 20's, had some medical issues in my 40's, and low T in my 50's. If I'm going to fuck, I prefer to drop a little blue pill which means I have to know I'm going to get laid beforehand. So while I can still top, it doesn't lend itself to spur of the moment encounters. Oral is just easier and often more enjoyable.
  25. phillygwm
    I'd like to try something "semi-consensual." In other words, the bottom consents ahead of time. Maybe he knows his drink will be spiked at some point but doesn't otherwise know specifics. He wouldn't know where he is during the act and won't remember it afterward. Of course, I suppose he'd need to have someone he trusted as a wingman in the room to ensure things don't get violent/dangerous....and to let him know what he missed after the fact.

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