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  1. phillygwm
    I was in my late teens or early 20s when I saw my first uncut cock. I grew up in a very homogenous community: mostly white, a few Asians or Latinos So the guys I saw were white and circumcised. I was in a music group which toured the country and we showered in locker rooms which is where I saw my first black cock in person. I met a guy from one of the Caribbean islands, we got naked, and I had a "WTF am I supposed to do with this" moment. Not trying to seem stupid, I faked it. Played with it for a bit and realized if I peeled the skin back it looked almost like mine. So I figured I'd do what felt good for me which, at the time, was direct stimulation on his head. He literally screamed. 🤣 Ironically, my father was uncut, though I didn't see him naked until he was older and in a hospital. I wish I'd been left alone but as a boy born in a hospital in the 1960's, that's what they did. To this day, I have a thing for uncut guys. I'd like to think my technique has improved from the experience above. It's not a prerequisite; I'm American and I'd get laid even less than I already do if I limited myself to uncut. But when I put my hand down a guy's pants or otherwise get him naked, it's just a turnon when he's uncut (assuming basic hygiene...) In my one relationship with an uncut guy, he wouldn't let me get him naked until he went to the bathroom and cleaned down there, as well as douching if we were going to fuck. In the moment, it was frustrating but I did appreciate his concern to those details.
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    I had "straight" friends over the years and we occasionally played. Funny, one never lasted more than 5 minutes with me. First time, he gave me plenty of warning before he shot, figuring I'd be like his gfs: pull up and jerk him to completion. I didn't. I don't think he'd ever been swallowed before 🙂 I've found there's often guilt in the aftermath so it's something you have to manage so as not to ruin the friendship, but it can be done. I made it clear that there was no emotional commitment and only one condition: I just wanted a little reciprocation. They had to suck me for a bit -- just a minute or so -- and needed to at least finish me with their hand. I did that because guys tended to view me as their bitch (not in so many words) when I didn't. Plus, I loved shooting on them, even if it was just in their hand. In more than one instance, the first time they jerked me they kept as much distance as possible. Most got over that, even if they didn't love it/viewed it as their price of admission. I've always thought that most of us, to a greater or lesser extent, are bi. I'm a gold star gay but if someone asked me to do a threesome with his wife/gf, I probably would unless she was totally disgusting (which was the case the one time I had the opportunity.) Likewise, for primarily straight guys whose wife/gf isn't putting out, any hole will do, especially when they realize that gay men tend to be less inhibited.
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    I have a very close friend who is "off the boat" Cuban. He emigrated as a child shortly after Castro came to power, bounced around a couple other countries, then landed in the US. He's much more liberal than I am and likes to think that most Latinos share his view because they grew up in a totalitarian regime. Perhaps that was once the case but no longer. For the past ~25 years (generally post-Elian Gonzalez) those once reliable Dems have switched in ever increasing numbers. Maybe because most are now second or third generation, maybe because they were more anti-leftist than anti-totalitarian. Maybe other reasons (religion?) To someone else's point, there are huge differences between Latinos from different countries. I once dated an Argentine who rarely had kind things to say about Puerto Ricans and Dominicans (actually, he thought himself better than pretty much everyone, but I digress.) 🙂 It's really not much different than saying all white Americans vote en bloc. I have little in common with whites in the central part of my own state (Pennsyltucky) let alone Mississippi, Wyoming, etc.
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    Depends on the circumstances. If the bottom is just a receptacle (i.e. anon,) then I usually like him standing, bent over or doggy style on whatever surface is handy. My objective is to unload and leave. If it's more passionate/one on one, I'll usually do missionary to get him off but I find it difficult to finish that way. Once he's done, assuming I'm trying to finish shortly thereafter, I like him on his stomach, ass slightly elevated. I can finish quickly that way and just collapse on his back in the afterglow, at least until he tells me he can't breathe 🤣
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    I don't get laid as much as I'd like. Much of that is because I'm picky: I like younger, twink/twunk types, rarely guys my age. I'm a larger, older guy so those guys don't usually go for me. If they do, they want a sugar daddy. When I was younger, I did more anon in bookstores and theaters but I lack the patience for those cat and mouse games at this point of my life (funny, I have a friend who is 80 and he's the opposite: he likes the pursuit more than the conquest.) I need pics, know you're not a flake, etc. And I'm in a suburban area so, while there are guys not terribly far away on the apps, they're the same guys all the time; either they aren't into me or vice versa. I do sometimes have luck when out of town. I kind of wish I could fuck every ass out there but I just can't get hard if I'm not attracted to someone.
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    Speaking as a top, my highest praise is if I ask you for your number after I've blown my load in you. It's one thing to fuck some hole in a bookstore or bath, but if you're hot, I'll want to meet you one on one. Maybe even learn your name. 🙂
  7. phillygwm
    Where are you? I'm sure we'd like to see more of you 🙂
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    This. I always fantasized about having sex with my brother. The only problem is I don't have a brother. And when I mention fantasy to someone who does, the response is almost always "ewww".
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    I did this a couple times and it's hot as hell, especially if the bottom loses the mood quickly. It's as close to forced sex as I'll probably get.
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    I love watching and being watched but only among consenting adults. I wouldn't want some little kid to happen upon me being pleasured in some men's room. When I was young and didn't have a place of my own, I frequently had sex in my car but was trying to avoid getting caught. The most public for me has been in a local porn theater in Philly. Usually, it's a lot of cat and mouse games but on a couple occasions, years ago, I've been sucked and fucked guys there. When you're the one playing, you become everyone's center of attention, which I found hot. I'm not super verbal in a one-on-one situation but remember once maybe 4-5 guys gathered around watching me fuck a guy, which was unusual since it was usually oral stuff going on. I wasn't pulling out but I wanted my audience to know what was happening so I slammed in balls deep and let out a loud grunt 🤣 I pulled out, stepped back, and was cleaning up/pulling up my pants when someone moved in and slid a couple fingers into the guy. I was basking in the afterglow at that point so didn't stick around but, in retrospect, kind of wish I had. I might have put a second load in there once my turn came back up.
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    I suppose it depends on how you define "older." I'm late 50's. I was an eager top in my 20's, had some medical issues in my 40's, and low T in my 50's. If I'm going to fuck, I prefer to drop a little blue pill which means I have to know I'm going to get laid beforehand. So while I can still top, it doesn't lend itself to spur of the moment encounters. Oral is just easier and often more enjoyable.
  12. phillygwm
    I'd like to try something "semi-consensual." In other words, the bottom consents ahead of time. Maybe he knows his drink will be spiked at some point but doesn't otherwise know specifics. He wouldn't know where he is during the act and won't remember it afterward. Of course, I suppose he'd need to have someone he trusted as a wingman in the room to ensure things don't get violent/dangerous....and to let him know what he missed after the fact.
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    I could never understand this either but for the opposite reason. I'm a non-vers top; I don't get fucked. I can even be dominant if the situation calls for it. But I like playing with my bottom's cock, maybe even sucking/swallowing. I used to hook up with this tiny Latino guy, really small (like 5'4" and, shall we say, proportionate.) But I loved playing with it while I fucked him. He told me that anything that might give him pleasure was off limits so no touching. I was even willing to limit it to stuff that wouldn't get him hard/torture him, like twisting his excess foreskin, playing with his (sensitive) head or whatever. No dice. What he apparently failed to realize was that I wanted to play with him because I enjoyed it, not (primarily) that he would. Certainly, if the bottom wants to get off, I'm more than happy to help but some guys obviously don't, so I was fine making it all about me. I will say, the best submission for me is when the bottom cums before I ever slide it in, especially if he's "game over" at that point. Then his sole purpose is to be my toy and I won't inadvertently please him. I've only done it a couple times (I wrote about the first here) and I find it insanely hot.
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    It’s funny. I’ve been into guys before I knew what sex was. I remember early grade school — 6 or 7 — and I was trying to see the other boys at the urinal yet I wasn’t particularly curious about seeing girls. As I approached puberty (now knowing the mechanics) I was particularly fixated on how early/late I was compared to others.
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    I've had this discussion with friends: Would you rather fuck a (pre-bottom surgery) FTM or MTF. I'd strongly prefer FTM, especially if they're more twink than Chaz Bono 🙂 I've never fucked a vagina but, oddly, as I've gotten older I've gotten more heteroflexible. Still 95% gay, but there are times I'd absolutely consider fucking a woman. It would be especially hot to fuck a virgin but at this stage of my life that's unlikely.
  16. phillygwm
    For me, it was a hotter fantasy than reality. From a practical standpoint, the inexperienced guys I've been with didn't do a great job of preparing, shall we say. If I had the opportunity today, I'd maybe play with his hole a little (just the tip!) but would be perfectly OK with oral.
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    Berlin News Agency, on Route 73. I haven't been in many years (it's out of the way for me) but it used to be pretty hot.
  18. phillygwm
    I have a lot of fantasies, some of which would be pretty vanilla for many of you. But have you actually fulfilled a fantasy only to realize it wasn't all that enjoyable? I've had a few of those: Fisting -- My first time, though the bottom had been around the block. I got 2/3 up to my elbow...and my arm literally fell asleep 🤣 Then when I pulled out, it was pretty messy. Guess I never thought that far ahead! Then he asked me to fuck him. Talk about a lack of friction! I'd do it again but maybe just to the wrist. DP -- Same bottom, it was me and this very sizable black guy. I kept popping out. Finally, I sat back and watched him breed, then went in for sloppy seconds (which was hot.) MMMF -- I watched the other guys eat her out and fuck her (with condoms.) That was hot, but she was a BIG girl and I just couldn't get aroused enough to get in. I wound up jerking off on her back. I blew when I saw one of the guys withdrawing with a huge load of cum on the end of his condom. But the guys weren't into each other (well I was!) they were just focused on her. They wouldn't even give me the used condoms 😞
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    Not sure if it's the same thing but I've heard it referred to as a spermatocele. It isn't STI related, AFAIK. Unless it's particularly severe, they don't usually treat it.
  20. phillygwm
    I'm not sure I entirely believe guys who say they're only gay for pay. Bi/mostly straight, sure. But someone who is 0% gay wouldn't be able to get hard at the sight of a manhole. Go download some porn of lesbians with giant fake everything and too much makeup and try to jerk off to them eating each other out, if you don't believe me. See how aroused you get. Your cousin has a thing for submissive guys and knows he can make money on it. What's next? You'd better add €200 to your weekly budget. He's going to unload in you until you come back with a positive pregnancy test. 🤣 He might also try to blackmail you but he has more to lose than you do.
  21. phillygwm
    You often hear about people, usually survivors of assault, who get triggered by certain things. I had a (female) friend who could not be approached from behind or in her sleep. Anyone else here have similar issues? If so, what's your trigger? What happens if it occurs, whether accidentally or on purpose? Is it something that precludes you from doing certain acts or do you just submit and deal with the flashbacks?
  22. phillygwm
    On behalf of all the older, not-so-hot tops out there, thank you 🙂 I frankly don't understand how you do it; if I'm not attracted to someone I simply can't make it work, but I'm thankful you can! I hope I'm not considered outright repugnant but I hope to bless some of you with my seed someday.
  23. phillygwm
    Yep, that's what I did. I have a very good FICO score and plenty of credit cards. Occasionally, I'll cancel one I rarely use and pick up another that seems like it would suit me better. I'll unfreeze for a few days then freeze it back. It's a pain but a necessary concession to the world we live in.
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    Sorry for resurrecting a dead thread but hey, I'm new here 🙂 Nothing wrong with incest between (or among) consenting adults. Many of us have experimented with siblings/cousins when we were younger and, as long as it wasn't forced, there probably isn't much harm. Where it becomes problematic -- and where people tend to get messed up -- is when it's forced or it's adult with child. When you're telling a kid to keep a secret, they'll assume what they're doing has to be wrong and it can be a bit of a mindf---. This is, of course, a generalization. I've read people's posts on here where they said they weren't messed up and that's great. But it doesn't always work out that way. All this being said, one of my biggest unfulfilled fantasies is to be with two biological brothers (or brother sister, maybe) or perhaps a father/legal son.
  25. phillygwm
    Sorry, didn't see Iceland in any of the other areas so posting here. I'll be in Reykjavik for a couple days next Summer. Will be with friends doing touristy stuff but would be nice if there are guys interested in extracurriculars.

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