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  1. phillygwm
    It occurred to me that I never introduced myself on here (I did on the Philly group but obviously not everyone reads that.) Late 50's, top though orally vers, now living in the Philadelphia suburbs. Recognizing this isn't really a hookup site, I'd be open to exchanging messages/pics and possibly meeting the right guy. Typically into younger, slim guys within a reasonable distance.
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    I've only fisted once -- it was a sexual bucket list thing -- but he took 2/3 to my elbow. When we were done (because my arm literally fell asleep,) he wanted me to fuck him. He was so gaped that wasn't gonna work but he was a headmaster, so it was all good. I've been with 1-2 other guys where I got close (4 fingers) but never the thumb.
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    Me ex used to run to the bathroom immediately after I pulled out. He explained that he hated the feeling of liquified cum dripping out. I often tried to unload when we were pressed for time, so he had no opportunity to squeeze it out. Based on what he said, it felt like a lot more cum than there was and he thought it would leak through his pants and be visible to anyone looking at him. It never did, but I'd sometimes ask "What's that spot on your pants" if I wanted to throw him into a panic. Why no, I have no idea why I'm single 🙂
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    Or your name on your twitter tab 🙂
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    I chose reproductive even though I've never ejaculated in a woman. When I'm topping a guy, I want to unload as deeply as possible. Why? I'm not sure it's inherently more pleasurable than cumming some other way so maybe it's some instinctual thing. Skipping to the last question, I think the answer is usually non-reproductive considerations, depending on the guy. Most younger, unmarried guys absolutely do NOT want to get a female pregnant. People fuck because they find someone physically attractive. There is certainly an emotional/romantic component for some but I suspect if you went to the local cruising spot or sex club, that isn't their primary objective. Obviously, sometimes straights are trying to conceive but that's ideally a planned thing.
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    Sorry to respond to an old thread but please elaborate. I'm guessing inmates can't choose which housing unit they want to live in -- or can they?
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    That's the thing. It's the old adage "You can't rape the willing." If it happens to a top it's rape and he's probably not posting an arousing story about it.
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    I never knew this was such a thing. As I posted earlier, I know I enjoyed it but had no idea so many other tops do,
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    I agree with others who say that strangers are unpredictable. It MIGHT be hot or maybe a dud. Plus, and this is just me, I don't like the hunt. I want to walk in, fuck, cum, and leave. If I'm still horny after I cum, I might hang out a bit and go a second round but at my age that's less frequent than it was. With a regular, the excitement factor is less because it's generally predictable but the sex is usually better (otherwise, why is he a regular?)
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    Back in the day, I spent many hours in the basement there. Haven't been back in years, though I thought about it. Looks like it might be closed now, though.
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    How long have you been together? Speaking firsthand, for someone who is used to "traditional/romantic" relationships, the idea of treating someone like the hole they are is a foreign concept. Especially if he wants to cuddle afterward 🤣 And it may be baby steps. So what to do? YOU'RE going to have to take charge, at least until he gets comfortable. Be verbal with him. Tell him you want to be treated like a cheap whore while he's fucking you. I realize that's diametrically opposed to what you want (i.e. you don't matter; it's all about him.) But he's way out of his comfort zone so you need to condition him to believe that you really want it and he isn't going to hurt you. And if he thinks your moans are pain, then don't moan. And remember, top does NOT equal dom. So if it's going to work, you'll probably have to compromise since he's not a natural dom and may not enjoy treating you like a Fleshlight. So you'll occasionally need to kiss and cuddle as the tradeoff.
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    Before I started PrEP, I fucked a good number of guys who were HIV+, some of whom subsequently died (back in the late 80's/early 90s.) When my then BF told me he had pozzed and I did it to him, because I was the only person he'd been with, I took it for granted that I had and we broke up soon thereafter. I went years without going to a doctor, assuming I was poz and was going to die anyway, so it didn't bother me to fuck someone who was poz. One day it occurred to me that years had passed and I had no ill effects. I took a home test and -- surprise! -- I was negative. To your point, the chances of you getting infected as a top are less than if you're the cumdump...but that isn't zero.
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    A guy's tongue is the only thing I want in my hole. I have rimmed guys (infrequently) but wouldn't do it in an anon situation. I joke that if I'm eating someone's ass, they're husband material.
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    No. I have no issue with it but if I don't find a guy attractive I can't perform. And attractive guys generally don't have to pay for it. I've paid a few times, years ago, and usually in another country. I suppose I'm too cheap to spend hundreds of bucks just to get off but if it was a nominal amount "for gas and parking" (say ~$50) and he was going to do what I wanted then leave, I'd be OK with that. Actually, I'd love an arrangement like that. Frankly, if it saves me the trouble of trying to pick someone up at a bar (with the attendant costs there) it's well worthwhile.
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    I've done this to a bottom before. He had a lightweight rape fantasy: I'd come into his unlocked apartment, he'd pretend to be asleep, etc. No problem. But then he wanted it over and over and it bored me. So I stepped it up a bit. Once when I came in, I immediately made him cum because I knew he was one of those guys who was "game over" after he came. Then I flipped him over and used him. I used his cum as lube, roughly pushing a couple fingers into his hole before fucking him. He tightened up and I really was just doing it to violate him. To be clear, I'd call it "quasi-rape": If he wanted to get away, he could have. And I wasn't going to rough him up or anything like that. But I knew he wasn't enjoying it and he was begging me to hurry up. That turned me on. After about 1/2 hour -- I usually don't last that long but when I felt myself getting close I stopped and put him in a different position -- I flipped him on his back, threw his legs in the air and pounded him. I'd fucked him dozens of times in that position but the other times were passionate. He usually loved looking deep into my eyes as I came but I knew he REALLY wasn't feeling it this time because he was trying not to look at me. So of course, I told him I wouldn't cum until he looked me in the eye. Finally I went balls deep and dumped my load. As he felt it, he had this look I would best describe as disgust. He asked why I did that and I told him "You asked to be raped!" We played many times after that but he never asked for that again. He later told me that he thought he was going to throw up when he felt my load which oddly turned me on.
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    I found the comments above interesting. I'm a top, though orally vers. I've bred my share of guys over the years but if a guy has skills, I'd much prefer blowing my load down his throat. If it's a pump and dump, then anal is more practical; I'm in control of the pace and can finish quickly as needed. Oral with the right guy is more like a roller coaster ride. I'm largely not in control (unless I'm fucking a throat, of course) and the build-up is usually a lot more gradual, making the release more intense. The problem is not everyone can get me off orally so, if it isn't going to happen, I'd rather use his hole versus getting jerked off.
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    Thanks for the response. Ironically, I just got a response to a post on the Europe board about my Iceland trip (alas, we'll be there at different times.) Some of the Caribbean is infamously anti-gay but wasn't sure of Bermuda. Haven't found much to this point, and if nothing develops that's fine. Both are cruises so perhaps I'll meet someone on the ships. I know the site doesn't really lend itself to hookups but hey, a guy can try 🙂
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    Mid-July (7/17-19 IIRC) Then a week-long cruise ending in Rotterdam, and we're heading up to Amsterdam for a few days.
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    I recognize not every city or even country warrants it's own section. But I have a couple vacations planned over the upcoming months: The first is Bermuda. Another starts in Iceland and ends in Amsterdam. Amsterdam is well covered but in the off chance there might be someone local or at least traveling through Bermuda or Iceland (or other places that aren't gay meccas) I'd welcome a diversion. Has a general travel section been considered? Or if it's already out there, I apologize for missing it!
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    Agreed. I'm orally vers but better able to swallow if I know the guy. Obviously the taste doesn't change but mentally, the more I'm into him the more I want to make him happy. As a top, where I prefer to unload depends on the bottom: If someone gives amazing head, it beats anal for me. For the other 90% of the world, I usually just paint their intestines. 🙂
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    Fuck, you have a hot profile and you're totally my type (not least because you're one of the few who has the balls to put your face pic on here.) I'd use you if our paths cross when I'm next in Florida.
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    That's one of the things on my list: To (knowingly) fuck an autistic or ASD guy. In my younger years, I did a fair amount of bookstores/theaters so maybe I have; I didn't chat many of them up. But just someone socially awkward who doesn't have the guts to stop me from having my way.
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    I haven't done a GH in a long time. I like to know what's on the other side of the hole. Plus, I'd just as soon join you in your booth so I can fuck you more deeply. In a one on one "date" setting, sure, I want to last a while but, for me, pump and dump is exactly the point of a bookstore or movie theater. And for the bottom, there's an opportunity cost: The longer I fuck you, the fewer loads you're getting.
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    I've actually went in for sloppy seconds a few times (as hot as it sounds!) and DP (not so much.) One of the things to consider about porn is that it's designed to look hot on the screen, even if it's a sexual version of Twister in real life. The one time I DP'd, the bottom was a small Latino twink and the other top was a black guy with close to 10". I'm average length, thick, and at the time I was pretty heavy. I kept popping out but, even when I was in, it didn't do much for me as physical stimulation, though the thought of it got me turned on. Finally, I called it off, watched the two of them fuck, and took sloppy seconds. Maybe it works better for men of similar sizes. I don't want to get into chem personally, though I wouldn't mind fucking someone who was spun. I'm sure I've done that over the years but can't remember anything specific. I'd kind of like to fuck a roofied/unconscious guy sometime (assuming he consented beforehand. Nothing illegal, of course!) I imagine it's not much different than fucking a sex doll but the thought of someone who can't say no turns me on...
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    Answering as a top, I prefer meeting in a motel/hotel. I can just walk in and get to work...or wait my turn as the case may be. I'm really not looking to spend hours edging in a club; I just want to pump, dump, and get on my way. If I were a bottom I'd want all the guys focused on me, not on the x number of other bottoms on display in a club.

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