Scared of developing aids?Yes...about the same as I am afraid of flying very fast,but it is a risk I take and manage in exchange for the thrill and excitement it paysoff.Flying very fast you are always in danger of flameout,will the ejection seat work,any number of mechanical and pilot errors can put you into a situation in which control and recovery are not possible.Sex the way I like it is dangerous too.Expect to have the odds catchup with me sometime,but when a hot hard top is fucking me bareback and my head is rushing with poppers his cum flys into me and I am happy for it.At that moment I am not thinking about long term consequences.I have severely cut back on the number of playmates nowdays compared to my early twenties tho.As you live longer you come to love life more.