have done ok myself online.Lotsa flakes and plain dangerous types out there,but mostly seem to be curious guys vicariously seeking a thrill.Thats why they sometimes ask for hookup stories and such.Copenhagen has it right,these sites are the new bars and clubs,and lotsa people looking.But hey,if a guy goes to all the trouble of setting up an account on a gay hookup sight I figure there is more than a passing curiosity in the topic.Just like in a real bar,exchange names,talk,maybe get a phone number and be direct about getting together.Easy,just suggest a blow job next time he's alone,a bit drunk and horny,maybe call him the next time YOU need relief.Thew idea of that will steep in his mind,and he may call.Thats what I love,a late night call from a man needing to cum.I am bi,seducing guys is the same as charming a woman into the sack.Tactics in pursuit og an overall strategic goal.