Inception

LOL I think the guys responding are just the guys who go commando. Looking at all the underwear stores aimed at gay men in my small city there must be plenty like me who are running out of drawers for their slutty underwear. Got some David Beckham briefs at H&M yesterday... the box has magnets in it so now I've got Beckham on my fridge. Wouldn't he be nice to get inside.

So last night at the tubs, there were toursists in town for Gay Ski Week at Whistler. This guy comes in dressed way kinkier than is the norm here - it's a pretty conservative place and few people flaunt their kinks. He's a bit drunk and I wanted to avoid him, but then he came into my room and devoured my ass, so I didn't mind. But then he starts fingering me deep, telling me to hit the poppers, and I do. OK so poppers make me not jut horny but a bit loopy sometimes. I'm definitely one of those annoying popper talkers. Some guys love it and others hate it. Whatever, just trying to explain my headspace. Anyways, I can feel his fingernails, which weren't trimmed. Right away my head goes to all the bugchasing stories on here of guys using their fingernails to scratch inside a guys rectum. I'm poz, but still. Anyways I freak right out. I'm a big guy and have a very short fuse. I told him I thought he was a shit and how dare he try that crap on me... though his befuddled expression kind of suggested he had no idea what I was talking about. This kind of calmed me down and made me realize that maybe he just didn't know that he needed to trim his fingernails, cause when I first flipped over I wanted to break his hand and smash his skull into the locker.

How could he resist. As long as he didn't make you bleed boy's got no worries. You know that from now on all he'll want is wet raw hole.

It's gay ski week at Whistler so there were some Americans at the tub I was at tonight. Probably not the right tubs in this city as it's the most vanilla one. Older guy was checking out all the boy's and trying to grab ass to get some hole - which just isn't done at this tubs - the boys are all bbing but only with other pretty boys, and even a lot of older guys are muscle queens only into themselves. Anyways he was actually slim with a nice body and big cock. When he made a play for my ass in the steam room I let him have my hole. Turned out he was from Chicago - which explained everything right away: why he didn't understand Vancouver ettiquette (everyone pretends that they're not really here for sex). Went back to my room and fucked a bit. He wanted to know how many loads I had in me, but I had to break it to him that he probably wouldn't find any sloppy hole here as everyone is too much into themselves to even give one let alone multiple. Anyways I was sitting on him and he said he wanted to piss and wondered if I would let him piss up my hole. I f I did something like that and left that kind of mess in the room at this place I wouldn't be let in again. He wouldn't kiss when we started fucking, saying that was only something he did with his bf, so I said getting my ass filled with piss is only something that I would let my bf do.

Wow, after reading some of these posts I am shocked that there are tops who would put up with a bottom who is upset that he is taking his time. Bottoms who are just after loads seem like they are really selfish bitches. For me bottoming is about making the cock feel good, and making it feel good for as long as possible. And good tops want to see the bottom moaning and out of his mind with the pleasure that his cock is giving. When straight men fuck they want to pleasure their bitch - that's the whole deal with all the moaning and crying and screaming the girls in straight porn do. Guys get off on hearing their bitch in heat. So many fags are just into themselves and getting their own nut. While straight men who can't pleaure their bitch are seen as failures. I get so turned on reading the ads for fleshjacks on that company's site. On the straight version of the site, they market them as tools for guys who come too quick to use and practise with to develop their lasting ability. I think this is why I've really been getting into older men lately. They have the experience to keep themselves from coming to quick. I met a guy at the tubs last weekend who looked in his 50's. Had a nice slim 8 incher. I spent a good long while gagging on him deep down my throat before he moved on to my hole. I only noticed his wedding ring when he put on a condom, so I didn't make a big deal since I'm not about spreading anything on to wives etc. I didn't have poppers handy, and he shoved in with just a little bit of lube and made me hurt a bit. But once he was in I put some spit around my hole to make it go easier. He was moaning so much, I don't think he was used to someone who opened up so deep so quickly but who could still keep a vise like grip. He was pretty amazed and was often close to coming but would pull out and take a breather. Then when I wasn't expecting it he would jab back in full throttle and make me gasp as he hit bottom. He was quiet and didn't say anything but I could tell he was really appreciating the fuck and was trying to make it last longer for my benefit. When he was inside all the way he started rocking from side to side to try to get my hole looser and more open and then just powerfucked me in and out full length. It was pretty rough since all I had to keep him lubed was whatever mucus my ass managed to make - which really isn't enough to keep a condom slippery. When he was ready to shoot he pulled out and shot all over my face. This was at the tubs and when I walked down the hall to the showers everyone could see that there was a hell of a lot of semen in my hair and running all over my face. Now that was a fuck by a man who knew what he was doing and knew how to make it last.

Daddy Bear Seeks Honey Pots Looking to rim and felch bareback bottoms who have spent the day taking loads. Preference for horny young popper piglets in their 20's who love taking any and all loads no questions. My ideal boy is cute and bit chubby and furry, with a clean shaven face. An indy rock style moustache is very hot as well. My ideal situation would be to set you up in a nice hotel room on a weekend. I would like to work your nipples and get you very horny. I want to douche out your dirty lil hole until what you shoot comes out clean and clear. If you have a very hairy ass I think we should shave around the hole to make it a nice smooth pussy slot. I would like to dildo you with medium sized toys to get you nicely loose and ready to take cock easily with no discomfort. Then I will leave and let you be a little slut getting your ass worked and creamed nicely over and over. I want you to try to hold as many of those loads inside you for as long as you can. I don't want you to get hurt so I will be near and only a quick cel call away in case anyone tries anything you don't like. Later I will come back and eat out your nice wet and slippery bum. I have a very long tongue and I want to get it deep inside your sore hole. This should be something that turns you on and you love to do. You should not need to "party and play" - use drugs - to make yourself want to be an open cunt hole for all men. This is something you have already been doing, and because of that you should already be HIV positive before you contact me. I am a masculine 38, 6'1" 220 lbs with a 6 1/2 inch cut cock. I would not ask you to do anything that I would not do myself, and my hole is open for you to use and come inside. I just have a bit too dominate a personality to take any and all loads myself. I don't want any misunderstandings here: I am not looking to be your pimp - I am seeking that special boy who will be mine even if your hole belongs to the world. We could travel the world sampling the semen of all the great cities: New York, London, Paris, Tokyo. Connoisseurs of fine wine prefer to drink from fine crystal goblets. I want you to be my fine crystal goblet.

That's my biggest problem with anon, I can't do trolls, I need a good looking man and I want to see him. I do have a wide variety of what I find hot though. Also at tubs here, the anon cumdumps you see waiting in their rooms are almost always old trolls, or er umm plus sized elderly retired gentlemen? Anyways, I guess guys who like anon dumps get to know them all and won't come to these guy's homes anymore so they are reduced to trying the tubs. You just want to shake them and say, "Hey you're retired and got time on your hands but maybe if you didn't spend 7 days a week laying ass up at the tubs for 8 hours, and got some excercise, people would fuck you."

In my mid-20's i still lived at home but would go to the baths often, like 3 or 4 nights a week. There is a tubs in the burbs that sort of caters to a more working class/ married clientele. I was self-conscious about being chubby and found it hard to meet the "hot" guys my own age. I was so horny and would do any older guys who came on to me. They must have been in heaven as looking back I was a fucking cute and eager chub. Because I was young and cute and obviously safe, a lot of these older guys would want to do me bare. Basically neg chicken hawks who chased chicken cause they thought it would keep them safe. Until they made the chicken so cock hungry that we would go into the city and play at the city tubs. Anyways, I was fucking scared of catching anything and usually turned down requests for no condoms. A few guys pushed it. I remember one guy who put in bare and when I pulled him out and requested a condom he got angry about it and made it like I lured him. I saw him at an event last year and was cursing myself that I didn't have a blade with me. The question was: your first time? That's the first time I remember. A bastard forcing it. Obviously I have had better experiences since. Some were obviously stupid and led to my getting HIV. But it wasn't so much my desire to have bare sex, but rather feelings of insecurity about my looks and my desperation for affection when I was younger that led me to just letting guys do what they wanted, hoping they would like me. Now I realize what a hot ass I had as a kid and how lucky they were to get a piece. I sincerely hope that most of them had long and painful deaths.

Yeah I was tighter than a guy who gets fisted would be. Sorry for not explaining better.

As a teenager I was in LOVE with Depeche Mode. Their whole look came from the fetish scene. In my 20's as I explored the scene I bought harness, jock, leather shorts (which I still have) and boots - red and black Doc Martens and black Engineer boots which I still have and wear sometimes. There used to be a famous Vancouver store that made their own S&M leather goods - Mac's Leather. Just thinking about it I can remember the smell of it so well. I met a few people in the scene, but they were both too hardcore sexually for my tastes and even worse a bit too "queeny" personality-wise. I am a blue collar, masculine guy - closetted on the job, not into the bar scene. I kind of decided the leather scene here was not for me... mainly cause despite the way they dressed they weren't very macho. Now I have leather jackets, black and tan - both more in the high fashion motorcross style. When I wear leather now it is not in an obvious gay "leather man" look. Though i have been told I dress just a bit slutty - like a high class whore. Though I am not at all effeminite, I would list "Donna" and "Tom" from Parks and Rec as role models. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l1ebBsl5WhI

I wrote this after thinking about the thread bear4breeding started about numbing creams. I am a big believer in opening yourself up naturally through practise without drugs. Long before I ever actually had sex I spent most of my teen years working different progressively larger objects into my hole. When I learned that such a thing as dildos existed it opened up a whole new world as so many of the things I was using - like screwdriver handles and wooden sticks - were hard and could do serious damage. You see vids online all the time of other young guys who use these sorts of objects not realizing the damage they could do to themselves. If they have contact info I try to email them and warn them. When I got my first dildo I was so excited by how much it looked like a penis that I would spend time sucking it as well. I liked to put the suction cup on a mirror and look myself in the eye as I forced it into my throat. I watched a lot of porn as a kid and so figured that the porno guys who deepthroated cock were the norm and so I had better be prepared to give the right kind of blowjobs. Imagine my shock when I first got actual blowjobs and no one else - not even older men - could deepthroat me. I was so stupuid believing porn was real; and I think with it being so much more accessible online now, that there are lots of young guys who probably think the same. Anyways, I was doing all this stuff before I ever learned what poppers were, and didn't start using them until a few years into actually having sex. I had seen them but always refused using them. Then one night this older leather man at the tubs just held them under my nose. I was going through a phase of dressing slutty - I had on a jock strap and red leather Doc Marten's - without realizing what the red colour might mean to some people. He slipped into me bare and my head was spinning and it was awesome. He was surprised I was so tight and stopped after a bit when he asked me a couple questions and realized I was a dumb kid. I chased him into the darkroom and gave him head while he fed me poppers. He didn't cum in my ass so no that was not the night I was pozzed, for the assholes who are hoping that. I should keep my mouth shut around here, I get carried away and forget what dirty scum are reading this stuff.

They pretty much all use Benzocaine. I don't know about for the throat, or why you would use on your throat. I have some anal-eze and it's interesting now and then but not anything I would use regularly. I've only ever used it when trying to take a new bigger dildo. For me what worked better was just regular practise stretching open for the toy while using poppers. If you get it on a cock it will numb the cock as well so I don't think a guy fucking you bare would be happy to suddenly find his cock coated in the stuff. If you look at any X-tube fisting or very large toy vids by Boyhaus (spelling?) who has also done a couple Raging Stallion vids, he uses a q-tip to put benzocaine on his ass lips before starting. He gets very very large gapes and rosebuds and I'm guessing his ass lips must give him some pain.

I was seeing a guy who very much got into doing couples. He didn't like anon so much as he is very cocky and likes to be show off and be seen. When he's fucking the bottom in a couple he feels like he is actually dominating both of them. He likes to look at the top and say, "I'm cumming in and using your man, you ok with that?" and gets off when the top is a perv egging him on to see another man in his bottom. At the same time, when he is seeing someone, like when he was seeing me - he expects his bottom to be exclusive and I wasn't allowed to go to the tubs or be out cruising. We weren't boyfriend's really, but he just didn't want any other cocks to be using me. It didn't last cause he's neg and didn't want to do me bare. He found himself a neg recently divorced guy in his late 50's who he could unload in regularly. He's 33 and we still hang out as friends.

Yes, I have had to stop and take a piss before while getting fucked. In doggy style I have been able to get up and excuse myself to go pee. But a couple times recently when I have been on my back doing poppers the poppers have made me lose my hardon, and my ass is stuffed, and I can't manouever away I have suddenly pissed myself. It was embarassing, but also felt like I was cumming with a soft dick - my ass was feeling very full and amazing and sort of throbbed with pleasure. I was a bit worried that this was a health concern til I read this thread and see that it is common.

Sex is easy, friendship is hard. Cherish it. Over time his ass can be trained to the way you like it. But you have already posted about needy guys, so decide if you can deal with another one, because if the relationship continues he will probably get more possesive.

What it means is he stopped using the bigger butt plug/ dildo that he used to use when he was alone masturbating his hole.

I'm thinking maybe his experience has been just dildoing himself. I spent a lot of time as a kid doing that and when I first got fucked for real in my early 20's the guy was amazed at how I could take his huge cock so well.

Every cock is different. If he knows you are inexperienced he might actually be looking forward to training you himself. Some guys are like THICK who commented above and just want a quick suck off, while other guys like you to spend a long time doing a variety of things. I have a very deep throat, with about 15 inches being the longest I have swallowed, though I do have difficulty with quite thick cocks. I am not a size queen though - I find very stiff little cocks to be a delight to lick and pleasure and also some little guys like me to open my jaw wide with my tongue covering my bottom teeth for them to try fucking into the back of my mouth. As for teeth: keep your lips covering your teeth for most guys. But some guys actually like their cocks treated roughly - they will usually let you know. Sometimes I find that if a guy isn't responding to the mouths natural softness I may lightly graze or chew their dick head with my teeth - not the shaft just the head. Uncut guys especially may like to have their foreskin chewed on. I am not a fan of masturbating a guy with my hand while sucking as I think this is a cop out by guys who are too lazy to deepthroat; but some guys are so used to the texture of a hand from masturbating that the softness of a mouth will not be enough to get them off. Definitely use your tongue. The average cock is about 6 inches long, which might just start to probe the top of my throat, so while I have a guy fully engulfed in my mouth I will sort of reach back with my tongue to tease his cock head. I try to keep my tongue on the sensitive glans area as a guy fucks back and forth into my mouth. I find that guys sometimes need a break from so much sensation. I will take their cock out of my mouth and let it get a bit of freash air so to speak, let it cool a bit. When it slips back into my warm mouth they are once again engulfed in sensation. Pay attention to their moaning as to what is working. I definitely like to let a guy's cock slip from mouth so I can lick and suck his balls. While filling my mouth with his balls I like to let my tongue out to lick at his "taint" region. His reaction to this will let you know how much further he will let you go. I am a bit of a dishonest cocksucker because really for me I am not necessarily seeking a guys load... not if I have a chance to lick out his ass first. A blowjob that ends up with my tongue inside guy's hole for 20 minutes or longer before I return to his cock to finish him off is my biggest thrill. My usual haunts are bath houses so guys have usually had a shower and I am lucky to have never caught Hep C. I don't do gloryholes. Not to sound stuck up, but I am a goodlooking stud and guys are usually excited to see me working them. I will suck pretty much anyone who is physically clean and doesn't act creepy or have a shitty personality. Even if your face is ugly your cock is beautiful. BUT I usually HATE getting blowjobs. If someone is gonna put their mouth on me there is only one place I really want it - french kissing my hole. I ain't a cumdump bottom or loads fetishist and guys who want my ass gotta do some work to get it. Fucking for me is about getting my hole pleasured. I'm happy to suck little cocks, but if they aren't gonna do some damage they won't see the back door. My hole is a treasure reserved for those who see it as something to worship with their drooling cocks. I get a great deal of pleasure from orally servicing a man's penis, and men who see that this tool is also an instrument that they can use to unselfishly pleasure me - that it's not just about dumping a load - they get all the play time that they want inside my bumhole. Wow! What a bitch.

They will edit out references to poppers or drugs in profiles, no references to scat, and I think you can't show intercourse in public photos. I sent him a message but he hasn't replied. I've seen him around town, he's very buff. The one time he came into my room at the tubs he stuck a finger in my butt, the tasted his fingers, looked disappointed and left. This was a few years back, and I had no clue what he was pissed about because I was douched clean.

Good post. So many people are so stupid, and not prepared for the consequences of their actions. I was one of those people. I was young and stupid, knew the risks, but went with the heat of the moment and then spent a lot of time miserable when I tested HIV positive. I like bareback but think bug chasing is stupid. If I could do it over again, I would have only ever bb'd with people I was 100% sure were neg. If neg guys want to stay neg and party, they have to do like porn studios where the performers all test days before doing a scene. Last week's test isn't good enough, you need yesterday's. With instant HIV testing now this might be a possibility. Though I don't know if it is available everywhere or how perfect it is.

Manhunt has some of the strictest rules about what you can put in profiles and pictures. But check out the profile of "dalen35" and tell me if you see what I see.

Yeah hot, but it's just every fucking bottom's fantasy that guy's think they're so hot that they'll pimp 'em out. I wanna read about how you turn out a young stud with huge a schlong. How does that kind of guy get convinced to start fucking old poz bottoms bare for cash? Cause in the real world those are the whores I wanna klnow.

Chubby guys know that they are not what society classifies as "hot" and when shown attention by such a good looking dominant man some will put in the extra effort to show their appreciation. Also doesn't it feel so much nicer to bounce off a chubby bum. There's a reason why so many straight guys like chubby women.

It's not just a san francisco thing. If I'm serious about sex I go to the tubs. If I'm home online I'm probably not gonna hook up. I find it hard to believe that anyone actually meets off of craigslist since using hook up sites are so hard and they are less anonymous. People use fake pictures and profiles because they are insecure. Everybody wants guys who are hotter than they are and some use whatever means to try to meet these guys.

I have watched a shitload of straight gonzo porn, both LA and Euro, and there is no fucking way any of the top male performers in straight porn take cock. I remember seeing a scene where two guys were double teaming this chick and one of them was gonna slip a dildo into her pussy alongside his cock and he accidentally grazed the dildo on the ass of the guy who was in her ass, and the guy freaked that a dildo touched his ass. While almost all straight porn is condom free, anytime I have recognized a guy who has also done gay porn, he will inevitably be wearing a condom because in the straight porn world gay = hiv.